-  Learn how to “let go” of Your Spouse’s Healing-  Instead of focusing on what she is or is not doing—put all your energy into YOUR recovery.-  You can’t “undo” trauma or “fix” your spouse. The best thing you CAN do is CHOOSE to break free from addiction. -  The best chance to “save your marriage” is to work your own recovery!-  Clear Setting AND Adherence to Boundaries is essential—it’s the ONLY way to make consistent forward progress.-  “Hard things” do NOT justify abandoning boundaries and going back to “old ways”—back to “victimhood.”-  Look out for “complacency” when things are going well. -  Individual paths of recovery and healing will bring you back to a connected, joyful marriage path. Find out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling ServicesHere's an article about healing Betrayal Trauma—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/healing-betrayal-trauma-videoWant to learn more about HOW to break free from porn?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/overcome-porn-sex-addictionWondering if your marriage can survive porn and sex addiction? This article will give you some hope—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/can-marriage-survive-pornHow can you "heal" your marriage relationship?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/how-to-mend-your-marriageIt's here! Mark & Steve's online recovery, healing and support program—Dare to Connect!3 times every week, you get Mark and Steve for 30-minute LIVE support & mentoring sessions (a total of 1 1/2 hours!). Monday for Addicts; Wednesday for Spouses; and Friday for Couples.Conquer Addiction, Heal Betrayal Trauma and Repair Your Relationship!Visit:   www.DareToConnectNow.com