Most of were raised to believe that "conflict is bad" and to be avoided at all costs! The truth is, in healthy relationships, conflict should be expected and even encouraged!  Conflict doesn't destroy a marriage—it's the way it's handled that does. In this podcast you'll learn:The differences between "conflict" and "contention." How to engage in "Collaborative Conflict"Real connection in a relationship has very little to do with "agreement"Seeking to understand and to be understood is the keyHow "ego-defense-mechanisms" get in the way of real connectionThe role TRAUMA plays in conflict and contention  Visit the PBSE website at: pbsepodcast.com Find out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling ServicesA crucial part of fighting the real enemy is eliminating secrets in your marriage relationship—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/no-more-secrets-in-your-marriageFighting together means seeking "true" intimacy vs. simply having sex—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/true-intimacy-vs-sex-in-marriageIt's here! Mark & Steve's online recovery, healing and support program—Dare to Connect!3 times every week, you get Mark and Steve for 30-minute LIVE support & mentoring sessions (a total of 1 1/2 hours!). Monday for Addicts; Wednesday for Spouses; and Friday for Couples.Conquer Addiction, Heal Betrayal Trauma and Repair Your Relationship!Visit:   www.DareToConnectNow.com