Mark and Steve know from personal experience and helping others, just how heavy, difficult, exhausting and discouraging addiction recovery and betrayal trauma healing can be! In this episode they tackle this common issue head-on—-  How you and your spouse can honor and embrace your pain and feelings without allowing them to derail your recovery and healing. -  Is your view of recovery and healing (the pain and the blessings) realistic? How to plan and prepare for "the hard"?-  How to "get selfish in a healthy way" and capture or recapture the "vision" for your recovery and healing--"what's in this for me?"-  How to find your recovery and healing "fight song;" anthem and inspiration. -  Learn to "exercise your agency" in the areas of life where it isn't already compromised. -  Learn to view recovery and healing as a "lifestyle" as opposed to a temporary measure or event. Visit the PBSE website at:  pbsepodcast.comFind out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension CounselingLearn more about Mark Kastleman at:  Reclaim Counseling ServicesHere's an article about healing Betrayal Trauma—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/heal-betrayal-trauma-program-utahWondering IF you have an actual "porn addiction"?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/are-you-addicted-to-pornWant to learn more about HOW to break free from porn?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/overcome-porn-sex-addictionEver wonder WHY LDS men suffer so much shame from porn use?—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/lds-porn-addiction-helpWondering if your marriage can survive porn and sex addiction? This article will give you some hope—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/can-marriage-survive-pornIt's here! Mark & Steve's online recovery, healing and support program—Dare to Connect!3 times every week, you get Mark and Steve for 30-minute LIVE support & mentoring sessions (a total of 1 1/2 hours!). Monday for Addicts; Wednesday for Spouses; and Friday for Couples.Conquer Addiction, Heal Betrayal Trauma and Repair Your Relationship!Visit:   www.DareToConnectNow.com