Leah tackles the hierarchy of orgasms—and getting there at all. This week women respond to whether they prefer clit or vaginal stimulation, which opens up a penetrating (see what we did there?!) discussion about preferences. Sex Ed For Adults: “You are the only one who knows what’s right for your genitals.” As long as what’s under consideration is consensual, pretty much everything else falls on a scale from “I desire it” to “I don’t desire it.” There is no norm within that scale—the scale IS the norm. You can be anywhere on it, and still be “normal.” It’s a matter of your (and your body’s) preference, and you alone are the interpreter and boss. Trust yourself and your body.   Bookmarks for this episode: 3:00 - Leah discusses the false hierarchy of orgasms: having a clit orgasm vs vaginal orgasm vs g-spot orgasm. 5:03 - Chorus of voices answering the question “Do you prefer clit stimulation or vaginal penetration?” 9:37 - Leah answers the question and discusses the mechanics of penetration with regard to differences in everyone’s body, and how bodies fit together. 11:45 - Leah discusses difficulties in reaching orgasm due to medication, and myths about using vibrators. 20:22 – “Am I Normal?” This week’s caller asks if it’s okay that she doesn’t like receiving oral sex. 23:20 - Leah discusses worries about the taste and smell of our lady parts.   New podcast recommendation (25:15): “Speak From The Body” by Avni Trivedi Excerpted episode - Craving Touch Whilst Isolating Find Avni at www.avni-touch.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/avnitouch Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/avnitouch Twitter: https://twitter.com/avnitouch   FACEBOOK GROUP: www.facebook.com/groups/goodgirlstalk AM I NORMAL?: Leave a message for Leah at 720-GOOD-SEX (720-466-3739) PATREON: Become a community supporter at www.patreon.com/goodgirlstalkaboutsex RATE THIS POD: Leave a rating and review at www.ratethispodcast.com/goodgirls BE A GUEST: Want to be on the show? Visit www.leahcarey.com/guest COACHING: Want to talk with Leah directly? Visit www.leahcarey.com/coaching Host – Leah Carey (website, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, email) Music – Nazar Rybak