Are you being stonewalled or are you trying to divorce someone who won't even speak to you, return an answer to any of your letters or has completely disappeared? Well this episode is for you. We have come up with seven tips on how to divorce and settle with an avoidant person. How to divorce someone even if they don’t want to or if they have comepletly disappeared.  Click here to learn more about your DIY DIVORCE BLUEPRINT Click here for our free checklist for your divorce and property settlement  Sign up here for our next free online webinar  You Don’t Want to Miss Out On Can a narcissist also be an avoidant person in the divorce? Why do some people refuse to engage during your divorce proceedings?  Why doing a joint divorce with an avoidant person isn’t a good idea Why you might need to wait your divorce process until you’ve started the property settlement proceedings. The timeline to be aware of during your divorce proceedings How to find out their assets or the total property pool if they won't share the information with you or respond to your letters.  Subpoenas and why they are important for an avoidant divorce and the property pool. How to find out the property pool yourself.  What you should do if you can’t find out what the property pool is What you should do if you can’t find out their asset total for the property pool.  Why the persons history with the money is important in the divorce What to do if you don’t hear from them.  If you have a parent who won’t commit to regular time with the children What if you ex is an active parent but wont enter negotiations about parenting plan? Child Support & Avoidant Parents and how they deal with them. What child support does if the other parent refuses to pay child support.  Why plan b is always needed with an avoidant ex.  What is default orders and how does it help you with an avoidant person. What happens if your ex doesn’t turn up to Mediation.  How to serve someone when you don’t know where they are? What to do if your ex says I don’t care you can do whatever you want.  Episodes referred to in the show SUBPOENAS: what they are, why you need one and how to apply 5 Legal Tips to help freak out moments during your divorce If you need emergency help you can also contact: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE  LEGAL AID Lifeline 13 11 14 Mensline Australia 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia  Police on 000 DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636 National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 Make sure you hit SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on the next practical steps and guide to your divorce or de facto separation coming soon. And, if you’ve found this episode helpful, please leave a rating and a review so it can help others. Thank you.  Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone’s situation is different.