Why Is It Hard for Couples to Talk About Money?

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Why Is It Hard for Couples to Talk About Money?

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Jan 11, 2022

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Are you afraid to discuss finances with your partner? Dr. Rachel Vanderbilt, the Relationship Doctor, explains why talking about your finances is important, even if it may be uncomfortable.

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Jan 11, 2022

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Why Is It Hard for Couples to Talk About Money?

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