It's common to blame ourselves for not "wanting it" all the time and feeling an overall lackluster in the bedroom. Society can easily point the finger and blame low libido, work stress, or imply that there's something wrong with you because you're not a walking, talking, multiorgasmic woman every damn day.There are many factors that contribute to a dimmed sexual vibrancy, but today I'm bringing to you four unsuspecting reasons that could be keeping you feeling small in the bedroom.