Themes: Relationships, Conflict, Relationship Coaching, Intimacy, Emotional Intelligence
Summary:
In today’s episode I’m joined once again by the insightful Jayson Gaddis. Tune in as we discuss some of the most common relational challenges we both encounter and how Jayson helps others both better understand relationships AND teach relational skills themselves through The Relationship School.
Jayson Gaddis, author, podcaster, speaker, and “personal trainer for relationships”, is a global leader on interpersonal conflict and connection. He got tired of complaining that street-level relationship skills are not taught in school, so he founded The Relationship School, an impact-based company dedicated to helping individuals, couples and teams work out their differences in order to have indestructible relationships. His new book Getting to Zero: How to work Through Conflict In Your High Stakes Relationships was voted Editors Choice, Best non-fiction, and Best Leadership and Business book in 2021 on Amazon.
 
Discover:

The most common relationship challenges we both see
A common root cause of unavailability 
One question to ask yourself when you don’t know whether to stay or go
The advantages of being a coach vs. a therapist
How Relationship School differs from other trainings
Our thoughts on why relationship skills aren’t taught in school

00:00 Intro
01:42 The problem of not having mutual partnership
03:28 The most common relationship challenges
05:10 Dating unavailability
06:35 Should you stay or go?
08:07 Ghosting
08:52 People transform their lives around their relationship pain
11:18 Becoming a therapist
16:45 Group beliefs influencing individual beliefs 
20:21 Breaking out of old systems
23:22 Challenging the client
29:18 Hearing feedback
33:46 Teaching how to handle conflict
35:19 Success of a relationship shouldn’t be measured by length
36:59 Movies modeling real life
40:02 Apologizing & conflict repair
 
Links:

Instagram | @jaysongaddis
Website | relationshipschool.com
Relationship Coach Certification Program | Visit this link to apply! Jayson's team interviews everyone that comes into the program. Once accepted, you will get a massive discount of $1000 at checkout when you use the promo code CREATETHELOVE
Book | Getting to Zero
I’m Sorry: How to Apologize and Why It Matters with Dr. Harriet Lerner | Part 1 | Part 2 
Embracing Conflict with Jayson Gaddis - The Mark Groves Podcast

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