It’s remarkable how choosing your words carefully can mean the difference between a moment of connection or disconnect. Today’s guests are experts at effective communication with young children. Joanna Faber and Julie King are co-authors of the book, How To Talk So Little Kids Will Listen: A Survival Guide to Life with Children Ages 2-7, and they have just released a second book: How To Talk When Kids Won’t Listen: Whining, Fighting, Meltdowns, Defiance and & Other Challenges of Childhood.   Joanna and Julie share helpful tools to communicate with young children thoughtfully, avoiding orders and threats.   Key Takeaways: [2:04] How do you get your kids to listen to you? [5:13] Joanna shares a few examples of how to be playful when communicating with your child. [6:03] Julie explains how it can help to give in fantasy what you can’t give in reality. [9:15] How can we phrase our instructions so that children want to follow through? [10:08] Do Julie and Joanna recommend giving children time-outs? [13:30] What to do when your kid is hitting a younger sibling? [15:31] Learn the distinction between punishment and expressing your feelings strongly. [16:32] How can you help your toddler make amends and feel better? [18:22] What are some strategies for whining?   Mentioned in this episode: Brought to you by Lovevery.com How To Talk So Little Kids Will Listen: A Survival Guide to Life with Children Ages 2-7, by Joanna Faber and Julie King How To Talk When Kids Won’t Listen: Whining, Fighting, Meltdowns, Defiance and & Other Challenges of Childhood, by Joanna Faber and Julie King