Phone sex operator Amberly Rothfield had just gone through a several-month sex hiatus when she experienced an orgasm that changed her life. Author Dr. Samantha Allen had started to think orgasms were no longer a part of her life when, two years after sex-reassignment surgery, one surprised her. Therapist Vanessa Marin experienced her first orgasm as a child, only to struggle in the climax department years later. You'll also hear: A few ways what we learn about female sexuality and women's orgasms can impact pleasure Why the "watch pot never boils" stance could stand in the way of your Os A common myth about gender and sexuality The original version of this episode was released in October, 2020.  Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0