How to figure out and understand why your girlfriend dumped you so you can either re-attract her or attract someone better.

In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a guy who is trying to understand why he got dumped by his girlfriend of a year, for the guy she told him not to worry about. She apparently has a lot of guy friends and had been friends with the guy she dumped him to be with for about ten years. She told him that she needed to go find herself, because she never really took the time to be single before they met, but yet she is now dating this other guy. Her explanations make no sense to him and he asks my opinion on what the hell happened.