Why you should take your dating interactions on a day-by-day basis by living in the present moment and not get caught up in thoughts about the future and whether or not it will turn into a relationship.

In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who says he has always been good with women. He is thirty-one, successful, makes good money, travels for a living and meets many beautiful women in the “target rich” environment of South Miami Beach Florida. He had a long-term relationship when he was younger and thought he had women all figured out. About three months ago he met a twenty-five year old gorgeous career minded successful woman. In the beginning she did most of the pursuing, was all over him, talking about their future together, wanting to meet his family, etc. She would even tell him about all the other guys who were hitting on her. After about six weeks he stopped living in the present moment and started worrying about their future together. She started backing away to the point that she completely started ignoring his messages, but he continued his contact barrage until he finally told her he was out since she was not making any effort. She had the gall to tell him that she had not heard from him very much and essentially blamed him for the fact things were going nowhere. He asks my opinion on how he can turn things around.