Ep 104: Did We (Or They) Meet The Threshold For Pursuing Romantic Interest?

(REPLAY) Ep. 114: Have I Outgrown My Friendship?: In this replay episode, Natalie delves into what it means to outgrow a friendship, why it happens, and also why we need to be careful of assumptions and judgements that might cause us to end a friendship unnecessarily. ... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

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Ep. 214: We Don't Need To Put So Much Bandwidth Into Keeping Up Appearances: Natalie talks about how we've been socialised to keep up appearances and why this pretence, whether it's about nothing being wrong or that who we are is not OK, is damaging to our wellbeing and relationships. | | | by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

33 min listen

Ep. 238: Be Careful Who You Tell Your Problems To: Being able to get things off our chest is crucial to our wellbeing and part of our intimate relationships, but sometimes we chat out our business to the wrong people! Natalie shares some of the reasons people respond unfairly or unkindly when we share... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

39 min listen

Ep. 21: Figuring Out Your Decisions: In this episode, Natalie explains why you shouldn't write off the year if it hasn't started out as you envisioned, why some of us struggle with decision-making and what we need to make healthy decisions as well as why the early stages of dating is... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

57 min listen

Ep. 152: Playing Matchmaker, Being Set Up, & Recommendations: If you've ever played matchmaker and had it backfire, or you've felt confused after being set up or recommending somebody, today's episode is for you. Natalie delves into some of the assumptions, biases and judgements that impair our judgement and... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

86 min listen

Ep. 189: Let's Talk About Chemistry: Chemistry, that hard-to-put-your-finger-on feeling that we experience (or think we do) with certain people is a relationship pothole that so many of us walk into time and again. Natalie breaks down why we mistake 'chemistry' for emotional disturbance... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

40 min listen

Ep. 224: Our Experience of Someone May Differ Due to Context: It can be super frustrating when you have a negative experience of someone, and everyone else thinks the sun shines out of them. Natalie talks about why our experience of a person can differ due to context. | | | by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

32 min listen

4 Reasons We Don't Pursue New Friendships: Pursuing new female friendships may feel like a daunting task for most. The upsides are obvious- expanding your social circle, discovering new interests, and growing as a person. However, for many of us, the fear of rejection and vulnerability can... by Friend Forward

15 min listen

Ep. 164: Am I In The Right Job?: So many people wonder if they're in the right relationship, but plenty wonder if they're in the right job. Given how much time we spend at work, it's understandable that disillusionment or uncertainty about it can significantly impact our sense of... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

86 min listen

Ep. 181: Unsatisfactory Endings and Closing The Story Loop: Humans don't like unsatisfactory endings, hence why we feel as if we're left hanging by the sudden cancellation of a TV series or a dodgy ending. Natalie talks about how our desire to close loops can cause us to do things like seek validation, wait... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

35 min listen

Ep. 160: Interest In Someone or Something is a Hypothesis: Have you given you a hard time about interested in something or someone that turned out to be wrong for you? Or, has someone's change of interest in you or a relationship left you baffled and hurt? In this week's episode, Natalie explains why it's... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

75 min listen

Ep. 191: About Defining The Relationship: Defining the relationship is something that so many people struggle with even though they want to know where they stand and hate ambiguity and the anxiety that comes with it. Natalie talks about why defining the relationship conversations don't have... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

61 min listen

Ep. 162: Keeping Up With Comparison Part One: Do you feel inadequate around certain people or suddenly feel as if your life that you're normally happy with is like poop beside theirs? Do you come away from using social media feeling really low without realising it? Is there a persistent feeling... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

51 min listen

Ep. 239: Conflict Spotlights The Truth of Our More Fragile Relationships: Natalie talks about the thoughts and feelings we default to when certain people disappoint, annoy or upset us and how these can help us have a more honest relationship, both with ourselves and this person. | | | by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

25 min listen

Ep. 242: But Will You Actually Get Into Trouble?: Natalie explains why learning to be unconditionally obedient skewed our perception of negative consequences and why it's time to update our thinking so that we stop scaring ourselves out of taking care of us. | | | ... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

19 min listen

Ep. 187: The Lather, Rinse, Repeat of the Frustrating Dating Cycle: When promising chats and dates don't lead to the relationship we want and anticipated, we can feel stuck in a frustrating dating cycle. But what if what's causing the lather, rinse, repeat is a couple of particular blind spots that keep setting us up... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

34 min listen

Ep. 249: The Trouble With Bare-Minimum Relationships: Natalie delves into why accepting just the bare minimum (or less!!) in our relationships is problematic and explains why that person who appeared to make so much effort 'in the beginning' doesn't anymore. | | | by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

27 min listen

Ep. 157: 'Damaged Goods' & Relationship Experience: When we think that we (or others) are 'damaged goods' because of what might be a lack of relationship experience or time spent in unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships, this dents our confidence, limits our options, but also creates unnecessary... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

35 min listen

Ep. 186: Let's Talk About Gaslighting: There was a time when people thought that gaslighting was something that occurred purely within the context of abusive relationships, but it's far more prevalent than we realise. Natalie shares examples and how to recognise it, plus she explains why... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

55 min listen

55. Pics or It Didn't Happen: Unpacking Online Infidelity by Securing Sexuality

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Ep. 265: The Trouble With the Not-That-Innocent Good Girl/Guy: Natalie explains why our need to be perceived as 'good' and even beyond reproach creates problems for some of the people around us. of the podcast on Saturday, 18th June. | | | by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

43 min listen

Ep. 167: Beep Me 911 - Why didn't you text back?: Texting anxiety has become increasingly prevalent over the years. Between read receipts, being able to see if they're online or when they were last online, seeing someone type and then pause, and seeing their likes on social media while you await a... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

65 min listen

4 Essential Trust-Building Practices to Strengthen Relationships & Why You Shouldn't Let External Validation Control Your Life by On Purpose with Jay Shetty

71 min listen

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LOA and Online Dating | Episode 221: How to best use LOA in the online dating world! Does signing up for online dating makes it easier to connect with people who aren’t what you want? When do you know if going online is right for you? We hear about how online dating offers a much... by Manifest It Now a Law of Attraction Show

32 min listen

Relationship Expert on WHY You Settle and HOW to Stop | Stephan Speaks on Women of Impact: Check out our Sponsor Cured Nutrition: Use coupon code IMPACT at checkout to save 15% off your order at https://www.curednutrition.com/?rfsn=4704338.94d141c Why do we stay in bad relationships? If you find yourself in one bad relationship after... by Women of Impact

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Ep. 245: Disagreeing With Loved Ones Doesn’t Have to Be Threatening: Why might we be able to debate and have disagreements at work or in certain situations but panic and shut down or become defensive with loved ones? Natalie delves into why we feel threatened by disagreement and difference and how to start breaking the... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

45 min listen

Ep. 119: Happy Christmas, Ex! And By The Way...: It's that time of the year when there can be a temptation to text/Facebook message/call/gift your ex or someone you fell out with. In this episode, Natalie explains why reaching out has the potential to cause more harm than good if you're unaware of... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

44 min listen

Ep. 151: Why Don't They Like Me????: How do you feel when you realise or sense that someone doesn't like you? If intrusive thoughts about this have popped up more than you would like and even kept you awake at night, you are far from being alone. Natalie shares some of the reasons why... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

68 min listen

Ep. 131: The Trouble With 'Well-Meaning' Bad Advice: Did you know that three days before Natalie met Em, she broke it off with a guy that she’d been dating for three weeks? She would have finished it sooner had she not doubted herself and listened to well-meaning friends who told her that she was... by The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

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Ep 104: Did We (Or They) Meet The Threshold For Pursuing Romantic Interest?

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