TPJ 3: Child Centered VS Adult Centered

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TPJ 3: Child Centered VS Adult Centered

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Jan 10, 2019

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Jan 10, 2019

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Hi, I’m Avital. (pronounced Ah-Vee-Tal) I’m a mindful parenting coach, childhood designer, and mother. My work is dedicated to empowering intentional, imperfect parents (like you and me!) who face chaos, clutter, and conflict, through online tools to reclaim peace, presence and play for your family.

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TPJ 3: Child Centered VS Adult Centered: Do you ever feel depleted as a parent? This might be the reason... by Hi, Fam!
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TPJ 45: Dealing With Entitlement & Ungratefulness: How To Raise Grateful Kids In An Entitled World by Hi, Fam!
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TPJ 20: Dear Parents, This One’s For You (yes, YOU ?): I have a message for you no matter what stage in parenting you are in! by Hi, Fam!
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TPJ 31: How to NOT Lose Yourself in Motherhood: You are so much more than just a parent by Hi, Fam!
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TPJ 14: How Your Children *Actually* Learn (Surprising & Uncomfortable) ?: Which school should you send your kids to? What extracurricular activities should they participate in? What books should we read? We’re obsessed with providing the best for our kids. In this episode I’m going to tell you why none of that matters... by Hi, Fam!
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TPJ 3: Child Centered VS Adult Centered

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