TU155: Speakably Sexy – Communicating to Make Sex Hotter and Relationships More Alive with Dr. Susan Ansorge REPLAY

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TU155: Speakably Sexy – Communicating to Make Sex Hotter and Relationships More Alive with Dr. Susan Ansorge REPLAY

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Aug 31, 2021

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In this episode Therapist Uncensored co-host Dr. Ann Kelley joins guest Dr. Susan Ansorge to talk about was to communicate about sex.

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Aug 31, 2021

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Use the science of the mind and relationships to update your understanding of yourself and those you love – candid conversations with 2 Austin therapists and their guest experts.

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TU32: Mentalizing:Breaking Down A Critical Component For Secure Relating With Tina Adkins: The coolest thing about mentalizing is that it is teachable and can interrupt the transmission of insecure attachment with very low level interventions compared to years of psychotherapy. by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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TU35: Sexuality From A Neurobiological Perspective: Sexologist expert Alexandra Katehakis discusses everything from sex ed to porn. Learn how to build vitality in your sex life! by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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TU21: Reduce Drama in Your Life – Unpack The Victim Perpetrator Rescuer In Us All: Victim Perpetrator Rescuer? Rigid, self-defeating or even self-satisfying roles can limit our happiness in life at times. Learn more about theses three roles we all carry inside us and how we can transform them to make us stronger and happier. by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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TU17: The Biology of Motivation and Habits: Why We Drop the Ball: Why do we struggle to break and form habits? The neuroscience behind our fight to form and break habits. by Therapist Uncensored Podcast
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