"You need to work more." "The house isn't clean enough - why are you resting when you should be cleaning?" We all have that inner critic that we tend to listen to, causing us to feel overwhelmed and always "busy."As business owners, it is easy to get caught up in feeling stressed and overwhelmed, causing us to run our businesses in a way that is not productive. In episode 505 of The Bokeh Podcast, Aja White of Fur and Lace Photography shares not only what causes us to feel overwhelmed, but also practical tools for helping to change our mindset in order to be more positive and productive in life and business!The Bokeh Podcast is brought to you by Photographer’s Edit: Custom Editing for the Professional Photographer and Miilu: The Simplest Way to Create and Manage Timelines and Shot Lists for the Events You’re Photographing.  You can also subscribe to the Bokeh podcast on the Apple podcast app, follow on Spotify, add to your playlist on Stitcher, or listen on Overcast.Brand Position (9:28)Creating a great customer experience (14:56)Technique for time management (19:08)Outsourcing/Delegation (24:26)Book Recommendation (27:40)Untamed by Glennon DoylePlaying Big by Tara MohrAja's experiences that led to feeling overwhelmed (29:55)3 Issues that are at the root of overwhelm: (35:40)1. We choose to be overwhelmed2. We listen to our inner-critic 3. Lack of awareness of how time is spent4 Tools for addressing overwhelm: (39:26)1. Start with gratitude 2. Don't be so serious3. Develop a pre-shoot routine4. Have systems in placeLinks:charitywater.orgfurandlacephotography.cominstagram.com/furandlacephotoinstagram.com/refocus.and.refreshinstagram.com/kimimcoachingtoggl.comtrello.comUntethered Soul by Michael Singerinstagram.com/jacob_loafmanAja's hype playlist Bokeh Podcast workflow episodes See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.