Racism in dating. It exists. We’ve heard it from countless people in our community, and now we are addressing it more full force.

Today conversation is real, raw, and at the same time very necessary. Kait had the honor and privilege of inviting her dear friend, Tiffany McLeain on to the podcast to share her story and journey dating as a single black woman.


Tiffany McLeain is an entertainer, speaker and Bible scholar based in Los Angeles.

While in pursuit of a PhD, Tiffany has a passion for discovering ways to point to the story of Jesus through conversation, relationships, speaking, worship and Biblical Languages.

She has a background in live performance theatre, stage management, group teaching and leading worship.

Tiffany is currently documenting her journey to financial freedom at @ghettogazelle on Instagram starting her 25th year of vegetarianism, committed to an hour of prayer and meditation everyday and patiently waiting for John Mayer to announce his next tour.

We pray you listen to this dialogue today with an open heart ready to receive and to challenge yourself. Uncomfortable conversations are hard but the only path to growth and transformation. We love you, fam.

Some themes of today’s episode:
-Racism in Dating
-Racism in the Church
-Dating in a White Predominately Church
-Dating Preferences- how do we reconcile them?

PS. Are you ready for our biggest announcement EVER?

During this global pandemic, singles are feeling more isolated and also more worn down about dating than ever before and even dating couples are experiencing frustration. So because of that, we wanted to create something that could lift your spirits, reignite your excitement about dating, and provide you with helpful tools to navigate this season with clarity and intention.

So, we did a thing.

We have brought together some of the top pastors, speakers, authors, psychologists, and thought leaders in the relationship and dating space to create a special online event for you...
Introducing: The Heart of Dating Conference: An Online Event on July 25th.
This conference is for men and women, single or dating couples! All sessions included in the conference will go LIVE on July 25th.
All sessions will be available on-demand so you can set your own schedule and pace. With your registration you get unlimited access for one year. You can watch and re-watch the sessions for as long as you’d like!
Here are some of the overall Heart of Dating Conference Themes:
Sex and Sexual Desire, Stewarding Singleness Well, Dating How To’s, Biblical Dating, Mental Health, Heartbreak and Healing. Dating Tools

And today we have officially launched EARLY BIRD PRICING!
Plus for HOD listeners YOU get a special 10% off by using code HODC10

Visit heartofdatingconference.com to join us for this special event!