Do you know what Christianese is? Because you are about to hear a WHOLE heck of a lot of it today on this episode as Kait breaks it DOWN with our guest, Bianca Olthoff.
This CONVO IS SPICY AND FULL OF LAUGHS AND JUST ALL THE #REALTALK.

Bianca Olthoff is a Jesus loving speaker, pastor, and a book writing Mexi-rican married to her amazing hubby Matt. Together they co-pastor a church in Orange County called The Fathers House. Friends, they are a literal hashtag DREAM TEAM!

Bianca also founded the absolutely amazing 501c3 non-profit, In The Name of Love, which is a powerful prison ministry organization dedicated to transforming lives through the saving power of Jesus Christ. Lastly, she is currently writing a book that will launch in June of 2019… so yall best get excited about that!

Today we talk about ALL the Christian dating things.

Some themes of today’s episode:
-Being an Awkward Christian: Over- spiritualizing. Blaming God. Overthinking.
- What should you look for? Bianca shares her VDS: Viable Dating Score, with us!
-Take the pressure OFF. It’s awkward if YOU’RE awkward!
-Attraction is important, but not the end all be all.
-3 kinds of love we should look for.
-Sometimes attract really DO attract.
-ENNEAGRAM comparability.

Today Kait & Bianca laugh a TON and we know you are going to be filled with energy, excitement, laughter, and #WISDOM as you listen to this conversation.

FRIENDS also, we are So excited to announce the launch of our Dating COURSE: The Date Great Course. Just for Heart of Dating listeners you can be on our list to be the first to get access to this course! Just go to heartofdating.com/dategreat to reserve your spot!