Thanks so much for listening to the Nuanced Life! Today, we discuss listener Susan's feedback on the "Boys on the Side" article and ask ourselves to rethink parts of marriage and physicality in relationships.  We also give a brief follow-up on our New Year's resolutions, including Beth's realizations about the mommy wars.  We spend a few minutes on Golden Globes fashion (spoiler: we're all about the black dresses and jumpsuits) before diving into Sarah's favorite topic: KonMari.  Recommended resources:  Marie Kondo  Why Are We So Attached to Our Things?  The Lazy Genius