If you want to know how to overcome erectile dysfunction, you'll need a complete reframe on this entire issue. I offer my own personal experience and how I used my shame to get hard again, as well as some exact steps you can take to get in the driver's seat of this issue and overcome it. I sprinkle in some humor to help take the edge off. This is for the men, but also will help you women out there who are with, or have been with, a man struggling with ED. SHOWNOTES Why some men take viagra [7:00] Understanding what ‘soft’ means [11:00] The system that governs your erections [13:00} The three ways our mind can cockblock us [17:00] How to learn from your body [24:00] How to slow down and enjoy your sex life more [28:00] Your action step [32:00]