Being Intense

By T J Berks

There are times when the feelings we feel get so intense that we do something that we never expect to do.  On hindsight, you feel you could have handled it better.  There is no process nor tool available to deal with this, until now...

• Language: English
• Publisher: T J Berks
• Release date: Dec 29, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223447559

T J Berks

T J Berks was born in a little village in Kerala, India.  Brought up in Dubai, UAE and living currently in Bangalore, India.  A part time Family Counsellor working full time in a Software company.  Recently discovered as a Neuro Divergent thinker but always believed in personal evolution.  Considers himself as a citizen of the world rather than belonging to a ethnic group.

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Preface

Being diagnosed with ADHD in my early 40's was a relief at the same time a tragedy. 

It was a relief because I finally understood my core personality.  Being born a Libra with the Rising sign of Gemini there was a lot about my character makeup that was really positive but it never materialised.  Myers Briggs Test of an INTP gave an insight of uniqueness but still I felt there was something else about me.  So when the diagnosis of ADHD was confirmed I felt complete as a person. 

A tragedy, because it was found at this stage of my life.  I could have avoided all that depression, procrastination and heartbreaks.  To people close to me I could have been more open with my mysterious personality.

Nevertheless I am still alive and to a point a functioning adult.  There are those days but I have a better understanding of my moods.  I am still holding down a job and very few social commitments.  Life is not breezy but pleasant enough for contentment. 

I got myself a Certification on counselling so my