How To Keep Your Man

By Nettaniah A Dewar

This manuscript is fundamental; with symbolic teachings that will crack the code of your love life. It carries a plethora of wealth of information. Be you, be dignified and un-stigmatized, and be natural to accomplish your goals in the right relationship you were designed for, which has no limitations.
"Live your life like it's golden"
Choose wisely
Live your best life
Identify and overcome
Based on some godly principles

• Language: English
• Publisher: Annie Dewar
• Release date: Dec 12, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223679127

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ACKNOWLEDGMENT

I would like to thank everyone who made this book become a possibility.

But first and foremost, I would like to thank GOD the Creator who gives strength to all of mankind, he’s Infinite and loving and I am beyond grateful to him for everything. The world is certainly a better place when we unite with one another in love, I am filled with gratitude for the characters that made it possible. I most definitely would like to thank those experiences that were overcome and conquered by ways of extremities. I give a special thanks to the publishing company, and I give a great thank you to my family and friends who are always there to support me endlessly.

FOREWARD

Nettaniah A. Dewar is an Author:

Song Writer, Philanthropist, Entrepreneur, and an artistic reader who spends lots of her spare time reading, writing, and doing research on special topics that are intellectual, interesting, and amusing, and she educates herself accordingly. One of her best Books which is very valuable and priceless to her; is that of the legendary "Holy BIBLE: she is a fanatic when it comes to it and recommends the readings and the teachings of that Book, to all of her Bookworm readers. She is a family-oriented person who had many ups and downs that life had thrown her way, she had numerous broad obstacles, trials, and tribulations, but overcame them all through her beliefs, and her faith.

Like many, Nettaniah is huge on relationships and would like people to focus more on morals and standards, she believes without those abilities implemented there is no structure,

no firm foundation, there’s absolutely not enough significant balance nor values to build a more concrete formation, all because there is nothing to solidify the relationship to the uttermost degree. Nettaniah also has a heart for people, she is convinced that there should be boundaries that are set in place, boundaries that will help to eliminate and overcome hurdles, especially when it points to love, relations; and that of marriage, and she highly endorses marriages on an exceedingly large scale.

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She wants people to prosper in their relationships and to largely appreciate their mates.  Her theory states: although no one is built on perfection there is still room for modification and improvement. She also describes her slogan, with a slew of informative words of wisdom.

"Nettaniah is a strong believer, that the family that prays together, stays together.

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She goes on to describe this>>

Slogan

And please do not forget my Slogan-the Emphasis is based on, always Having your own Man! your own Husband/Lover", and not someone else's period.

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And if he or she is married hands off! Leave taken people alone; don’t invite poison & negativity into your space.

PREFACE

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This book was formulated: by me the Author: I can boldly say I've seen it all, heard it all, and still I’m still in the learning stages on how the analogy of love is, how it works, and how it is constructed. I’m sure we all would like to know how the concept is systematized, especially when regarding the behavioral aspect. And I’m very certain that on a day-to-day basis, many are gaining knowledge on the process of the heart, and its intense abilities to love. It will take more than a lifetime to comprehend the philosophy of love.

The reason for the affirmative writings of this book is to keep the readers informed about love! Love life, and "relationships, or to broaden one’s horizons of the fundamental value of truth. I myself had some past experiences in the relationship department, while most of my writing in this book has to do with the significance of long-term, and long-lasting relations, which consists of a series of merits and truths that are all put together in one. Having many run-ins with real-life stories of people who were committed to the absolute wrong individuals, which became their total nightmares in the end. After studying how the sequence of relationships works for some people, I decided to bring into existence this manuscript.

Now on the other hand of things, I also had that wonderful exposure to the ones who had, and still have long-lasting and fulfilling relationships. These are relations that are filled with sweet love, peace, enjoyment, and harmony, those to me are labeled the fabulous ones, so that is why am on this journey committing to paper. I am hoping and believing that it will help others to make conscious decisions that ultimately will be the key to their happy and successful love life. Having written about a few factual stories that were given in detail with reality, and examples that lead to eye-opening experiences in which the originality can be shared to enlighten, those who are blindsided by their circumstances. Let me share some insights on when this all started to come into existence.

This monologue of writing all began in the year 2020-when the pandemic first hit the nations of the world, that is when I actually started on the journey with this particular itinerary. These writings are based on many factual events of evidential and truthful occurrences in which I myself had the fortunate and unfortunate experience of witnessing many similar instances and moments of those real-life actualities. After I put everything on paper, I decided to rest it down for a moment, and that was to work on other things, but I recently had the gleaming opportunity to resurface the manuscript and continue my journey with this incredible book.

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There is so much knowledge that was provided along with the awakening, and the truth about relations and love. Quintessentially, in the history of love-romance-relations and partnerships, love in and of itself was present before time existed. It is one of the main compounds of human nature, which performs its attributes as feelings and behaviors, it lets off a type of dopamine, and it provides affection, with a sense of warmth and trust, my classification of it is that it’s simply a phenomenon. In contrast! People tend to use love as a tool, an ammunition, in which they use for their own selfish gain, and that is to manipulate and to control someone or something for their own purpose.

For instance, in syndication; people use love for many different reasons, like to keep retaining vanity or to obtain wealth, it can be many different things connected to those areas that they considerably use to exploit. Many people don’t know what love is, especially when it comes to true love, at that. In this series of prologues, you will be able to differentiate and distinguish love in its full features, you will be able to make analyzation of your own relationship with your partner.

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There is factual evidence, based on some of these unapplauding true-life stories of veracities, which will provide you with some clarity of how things might be able to flow within your own love life. Don’t be a catfish for love, there are endless possibilities out in this humongous world that we live in, don’t be subjected to emotional pain, distress, and insecurities that can lead to health issues along the way, and always remember that stress can bring forth many illnesses that sometimes can lead to serious contamination in the body, and in some cases can eventually lure you to diseases and even mental health disorders. Love is quite catching, revealing, and captivating. With you taking time to know, and to familiarize yourself with someone while having prudency, it makes room for you to be in a better place and to have a longer and more exciting relationship with that person.

INTRODUCTION

When it comes to men and women: They’re dating habits should be filled with volumes of love-laughter-honesty-loyalty-greatness-dedication-romance-marriage-faithfulness-and-explicitness,

but there are times when the inevitable happens: for example like; deception-dishonesty-and much more unexpected, and those unreal aspects that people portrays when they’re dealing with love and partnerships which can be distinguishable, or non-distinguishable and interesting. Overall, having great communication is what it's all about, and not making too many insentient decisions that will prospectively lead you away into the wrong pathway of love. I would like this audience to be fully educated and to be prepared, after having encountered the reading of this book. I would like them to be fully aware and to be awakened of the isms and schisms that are out there awaiting to be distributed by certain people who do not have regards for human nature, and those ones who carry the traits of narcissistic behaviors; indent, I would like to bring forth strategies on how to become successful in the dating/courting arena; while having the full aspect in the journey of love.

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Do not be fooled by the phobias of this world, and all of its foundational principles and ideologies. It is imperative for you to face the beauty, happiness, trials, and consequences, within the platform of love in the correct way. Then hopefully, you’ll have much more intelligence in the makeup of how to handle, conquer, and how to play in the game of love without the repetitious side effects that usher in the unpleasant journey of it. Love can become an addictive drug; that a lot of times is hard to get sober from, if you can see this concept, you will then become wiser in not making those decisions that are based only on your emotions.

After going through some of these dialogues you should become a master in your ability to succeed in the relationship chapters of your beautiful life. You should now be able to manifest a different form of anticipation that all comes with better vision-wisdom-success-purpose-endurances; and much more that follows thereafter. You will be able to exhibit a higher quality that will take you way further in your love life.

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There is one thing I must elaborate on:

This book was not designed to separate, nor to cause friction or conflict between people or couples, not for a million years. The whole blueprint was simply to help many women/men to be able to keep their relationships intact and to maintain their qualities and values, while keeping the flow running smoothly so that in the end, everyone will come out on the winning team, they will finish the race with excellence. The notion is based on having endurance, and enlightenment all put together in one sequence.

CHAPTER 1

Knowing his Moves

One thing you must know about men; is that they are totally different from women; Although some, or most women may have the concept that both male and female are considered to be equal, and when I say equal, I mean how their thinking mechanism might be structured. For-Instance! men seem to think with a one-sided or one-track brain most of the time, and that's with no offense to them, we absolutely love them that's why we're here to talk, right? We’re not going to forget that there’re responsible for building our world’s infrastructure, the economy, the stock markets, banks, our aircraft, our submarines, our ships, buildings. many more intriguing and exciting amusements globally.

They are our leaders, our parents, and our protectors. There is a song that goes like this>: This is a Man’s world, but it wouldn’t be nothing without a woman. So now let me highlight! And continue my observation on men, they can be overly troublesome at times, and we women can be too, well that’s for sure, especially when we are not getting what we want, and when we want it out of the man or men in our lives; when our brains are not clicking with theirs, everything can go downhill very fast, then we can sometimes become wild and emotional, yep! That’s because we like extra. Usually, we ladies love it when we give orders, yes, we do, and that’s a natural fact. Oh, and we like it when it’s fulfilled quickly too; if you know what I mean, isn’t that right? Here’s a little observation on men, most times they can be very forgetful forgetting what we ask them to do for us, Oh yes, they do. Let’s give some credit though, overall, they try to please us a lot of the times, despite the incompatibility in nature Ha-ha.  Men give yourselves a pat on the back though, for trying to please us and make the house a home, we are not ungrateful not by a long shot we are just keeping it real, in this arena, it's called a reality check.

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Now let’s get this party started, scenario number one! As we know a woman's housework nightmares are never done, it's never finished period! It’s always the messes, which is clean-up time! The cooking, laundry, the kids, the dog, her job, you name it, it is just that of a piece of work. So, most times, after all the hustle and bustle, she wants to feel like a queen, she wants to unwind just for a second, and she wants that queenship to be ignited by her man, am I not one hundred percent accurate on that one? let me know, I’d like to know Ha-ha! Well, I am certain about that, and why will that be? That’s all because I am a woman that’s why! I know the rat race, and the hassle when keeping it together as a woman especially when you have a family to take care of. Now here’s a woman who’s unwinding from a long busy and exhausting day. She starts off with honey, I am beat and worn out, totally exhausted, what I need right now is a bubble bath with candle lights all around the tub, Oh" and don't forget roses, that is a must-have, okay! While what she’s saying, or asking sounds like a communicative statement or affirmation, it’s like a hypothetical question sort of like, not concrete, she’s having her hopes up, in expectancy.

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"The Man:

Honey, come on babe we've done all of that before

"The Woman:

How long ago was that honey?

"The Man:

I don't know like about 4 months ago maybe; something like that!

"The Woman:

What did I just hear you say? about 4-months ago, babe really?

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"The Man:

Well, honey to be honest I'm not in the mood, I have a lot going on in my head right now.

"The Woman:

Like what, work? As usual?

"The Man:

Yaa! Like work, something like that, and everything else, all right!

"The Woman:

I guess next time then!

"The Man:

Yeah, next time.

"The Woman:

Whatever! I'll get it done myself. So, there you have it in a nutshell, sometimes when we women want to be untangled, the men in our lives are far from it, it’s simply okay though no biggie that’s life, things are not always going to be the same every day for everyone, people get busy, they get preoccupied, or not in the mood, and during the moment life happens. We must be able to smooth our men’s minds on a regular basis, in order for them to come unhinged and crazy in love in every aspect, and in every way possible with us. It's all about the mind baby, we get to their minds we got them hooked always. One would say, how do we do that? And what do you mean by ‘get to their minds’? Okay now, let us get this straight from the start, we're not talking about control here, nor are we suggesting manipulation in any way, what we are talking about is life and relationships, how we maneuver around the men in our lives, how we should balance out our relations, not making it too complicated, and to make it work in everyone's advantage that is connected. Expectations can be categorized as hope, or wanting something, when we wish for our men to be a certain way it gets hard when those gaps are delayed or not fulfilled, especially on a timely basis, or when it becomes dormant. For some, just remember! Redundant promises that never come into play, are just comfort to fools. In other words, put it this way! A promise is a comfort to a fool, and what that means is; if someone keeps on making promises after promises to you, and they never fulfill their promise, or they’re always a no show all that implies, if they never would keep their word to you, is that in their eyes you don’t have any sentimental value to them. If they’re always standing you up, not coming through for you, or always being procrastinated; then you should recognize there’s a problem with that person and your relationship with them.

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As we know, people tend to get extremely busy at times, yes that’s a major fact, but if this is a deliberate happening of empty promises, then you have to be more selective in how you choose your circle.

CHAPTER 2

Keeping his Mind on you

Tapping into a man’s world so to speak; Tap into a man’s world only means that they should be able to always release their feelings on us at any time without leaving anything undone or unfinished, nothing whatsoever. We should not have our men venting