The Sandmann's Journal: Vol. 7

By Wilfred Kanu Jr.

The Sandmann's Journal Vol. 7 is the continuation of Volume 6. It is the final edition of the seven-book series by Grammy-nominated artist and author Wilfred Kanu Jr. Taken from a since renamed "Freddy Will's Blog," the dates at the beginning of each chapter indicate when he published them online. It encircles a wide range of topics centered around the rapid transformation of Western and global cultures from traditionalism to secularism, particularly with the help of social media and wireless technologies.

Some of the main highlights of this seventh volume are the support of women's rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, and Law Enforcement. It sheds light on the various forms of discrimination against LGBTQIA+ community members and discusses some notable events in the Hip Hop scene. Volume 7 is a continuation of Volume 6. As a unique promotional rollout, this volume was released in Brussels, Belgium, with limited edition physical and digital copies reaching the global market after select fans received them.

These entries, while factual, are not intended to have journalistic outcomes in any way. The author intends readers to use them for educational purposes, not political or religious justification. As a musician who started rapping in the early 1990s under the stage name Freddy Will, he activated his independent music career in 2006. His literary and publishing career began in 2009. He believed there is a gloomy misconception that Hip Hop's lyrical themes promote gun violence, misogyny, materialism, homophobia, and blasphemy.

Sandmann's Journal debates the encouragement of radical feminism on the romantic relationship between heterosexual men and women, especially noting how social media platforms, wireless technology, the mainstream media, government agencies, and major corporations enabled a global cultural shift from traditional to secular mentality. It discusses modern-day racism and patrimonial alienation. There are entries on navigating through the court of public opinion, misandry, divorce, and the patriarchy.

• Language: English
• Publisher: BookBaby
• Release date: Jul 19, 2023
• ISBN: 9798891214606

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Acknowledgment

Preface

Dedicatioin

Holding Men Accountable

Fundamental Hypotheses of Flat-Earthers

Feminism & Patrimonial Alienation

Black in Germany

Black in Canada

The Absence of a Father’s Discipline

Patriotism Vs. Music Genre

Is It the Other Woman’s Fault?

Single Mom Is a Full-Time Job

Amber Rose Knights Amanda Knox

Mainstream & Social-Media Bastardization

The Duchess of Sussex, Countess of Dumbarton & Baroness Kilkeel

Ten Tips on Navigating Through the Court of Public Opinion

Ten Tips on Navigating Through the Court of Public Opinion II

Five Reasons Why I’m Riding with Drake Thus Far

Five Reasons Why I’m Riding with Drake Thus Far II

Ten Things Men Must Do When Faced with Misandry

Ten Things Men Must Do When Faced with Misandry II

Five Representations of Modern-Day Patriarchy

The Paradigm from Dating to Divorce

The Paradigm from Dating to Divorce II

Qualities Scripture Does Not Attribute to Gay Folk

A Tribute to the Goddess of Soul

Are Women More Controlling in Relationships?

Men of Today?

Was Eve the First Human Feminist?

In Support of LGBTQIA+ Communities

In Support of Law Enforcement

In Support of Women’s Rights

I, The Letter That’s also a Word

How to Promote Your Favorite Author?

Feminism & Radical Feminism

The Honored King from Los Angeles

Guiltless Reasons Why Some Men Don’t Cloak Women

An Ungodly Egypt with African Slave Masters

Did Feminism Contribute to The Fall of Egypt?

A Victimization Easily Exploited in Women

The Art of Old School Courting & Dating

Crime Rhymez: Tenth Anniversary Edition of My Book of Chrymes

Are OGz Supposed to Retire?

Donald J. Trump Makes America Great Again

Men Will Never Go Away

Prince Will of Chill Town Crew

Closing the 2010s—U.S.A., Canada, Europe, India & the Caribbean

Online Dating & the Expected Result

The Honored King from Los Angeles II

Volume 6 of The Sandmann’s Journal

When You Lack 2020 Republican Type of Solutions

The Systemic War Against People of African Descent

African Leaders Must Stand for the Africans Abroad

The Russell Simmons Allegations

Congressional Black Caucus’ Police Act in Scale

Liberal Media’s Noticeable in War Against Blacks

Gender Consanguinity After the #MeToo Movement

The Availability of Pornography on the Internet

Tomi Lahren Men Are Trash Rant

The Afropolitan

A Day One Hip Hop Rule on Swagger Jacking & Rhyme Biting

A Never-Ending Culture of LGBTQIA+ Discrimination

About the Author

ACKNOWLEDGMENT

The Sandmann’s Journal is a book series that follows the hypothesis module. Whatever opinion or conclusion you make is up to you. Nonetheless, the terminus is to document how today’s governments, corporation giants, the mainstream media, and educational systems use social media, digital technology, and the judiciary of the public to spread secularism to an unparalleled degree. I acknowledge the populace for experiencing this process. *

PREFACE

I blogged my Facebook articles and published The Sandmann’s Journal in Canada, Belgium, and Germany. The dates at each chapter indicate when I posted them.

This book is the continuation of Volume 6. It is the final edition of the seven-book series that Wilfred began in 2016. Taken from a since renamed Freddy Will’s Blog, the dates at the beginning of each chapter indicate when he published them. These entries, while factual, are not intended to have journalistic outcomes in any way. The author intends readers to use them for educational purposes, not political, scientific, or religious decisions.

As a musician who started rapping in the early 1990s under the stage name Freddy Will, he activated his independent music career in 2006. His literary and publishing career began in 2009. He believed there is a gloomy misconception that Hip Hop’s lyrical themes promote gun violence, misogyny, materialism, homophobia, and blasphemy. Around the same time, he started blogging to share his perspective on the most trending discourses.

The musician who grew up under the teachings of Abraham is not a devout Christian. From his point of view, he was an apostate Christian who composed pieces of Hip Hop music and lyrics inspired by his experiences during two civil wars, life as a refugee, and life in the streets. Ironically, he did not see himself as a propagator of gang culture, gun violence, misogyny, materialism, homophobia, or vulgarity. This misconception was resolute.

Black awareness was his timeworn narrative after surviving Liberia and Sierra Leone’s civil wars and racism in the West. The grim lyrics in Freddy’s earlier raps lament his past, not a celebration of his present. The artist envisioned a future where he’d live a harmonious life with friends and family, using his talents to educate and entertain those who watched. He’d moved on by studying at colleges or institutes and seeking gainful employment.

In 2007, he founded his now-renamed Freddy Will’s Blog, writing about a clash between old and new mentalities. Interestingly, he noted that the entertainment industry and mainstream media have shifted from Abrahamic to radical feminist and LGBTQIA+ ideals. For him, it was a time to rebuild relationships, educate, and promote. He was ready to proclaim his African traditions and learn to pass them on to the next generation.

Despite that, he noted that there was a change in global mentality. Dogmatic concepts gave way to secularism. Radical feminists demeaned traditional family values. Disputes over gender and sexuality fueled an abandonment culture. Freddy also noted that governments, corporations, the education system, the entertainment industry, and the mainstream media had all shifted dramatically to show their unapologetic support for modern inclinations.

This shift prompted the artist to republish his blog as the journal of his alter ego, The Sandman. He focused on how modern social media technologies aided by smartphones and WIFI helped popularize the debate. His question was: how can older generations pass on their tradition without prejudice, discrimination, or hatred? How did the masses change opinions and turn against the educated, experienced, or traditional? *

DEDICATION

I dedicate this book to those who stand for custom. Those who protect traditional heritage seek to practice long-held rites or cultures and pass them to the next generation. *

Wilfred Kanu Jr.

1

Holding

Men Accountable

Published on December 11, 2017

What was the first thing that occurred to me when I read Terry Crews’ article in Time Magazine, Men must hold other men accountable? I saw the #MeToo movement and how the mainstream media condemns the methods of heterosexual men engaging in romantic and sexual contact with women. What about women who make well-intended gestures? Why would Time magazine publish an article asking only the men to be held accountable?

Should cats blame other cats for eating rats? Should dogs shame other dogs for chasing cats? Could women hold other women accountable for being dishonest or manipulative of a man? If you understand what I mean, you will see that I refer to both natural behavior and intention—a discernment of malicious intent. We are moving from holding people accountable for their volitions to discriminating against one gender because they exist.

Millions of people idolize Terry Crews, who is exceptionally talented. Why hadn’t Time magazine had the same presence of reason to issue a similar report asking police officers to hold murdofficers responsible for the death of innocent civilians? By the way, murdofficer is a word I’ve coined from murder and officer to reference police officers who gun unarmed civilians down in cold blood. I noticed the media hadn’t given them a name.

Does the mainstream media care about reporting the correct news or promoting their intended agenda? Terry Crews is one of my favorite actors. Still, I came up with my list of how men should hold other men accountable. I believe all police officers should hold murdofficers responsible for the murder they commit in the line of duty. I also think all men should make other men answerable for being wimps. Sexual harassment is wimpy.

THE EFFEMINATE MOVE

Does this man regularly sleep with a friendly woman he hasn’t asked to be his girlfriend, fiancé, or wife? He doesn’t want another man to marry her while she is still young and fertile. That’s an effeminate move! Is she caring for him as if she’s already his wife, yet he won’t even put a promise ring on her finger? He fusses with her all the time? Does he go behind her back, sleeping with any woman who gives him an audience, spilling his seed around?

Give him the benefit of the doubt for an unexpected one-night stand between consenting adults. That man is not a chronic womanizer. If he sleeps with a woman for months but has no plan to give her a title, he could be effeminate. All he wants is premaritally unprotected, no strings. I get that sleeping with a new oracle from every corner of the empire is exciting for straight men. Still, all men look bad when we don’t hold this man accountable.

ASKING STRANGERS FOR NUDE PHOTOS

In the 2020s, many women have turned to social media to validate their beauty. Those women post a sexually redolent image of themselves every hour or so. Within minutes, hundreds of men in committed monogamous relationships push their like button and shower praises of carnal affection on those sultry photos. There’s something questionable there. There is no shame if nude images from his romantic partner turn him on.

We can all agree that, as of today, there is still a difference between asking a woman with whom you are romantically involved and asking a woman you barely know to send nude photos of herself to your cellphone or computer. What about sending an unsolicited dick pic? Like the married former politician Anthony Weiner, who sent a private link containing sexually explicit photographs of himself to a female following him on Twitter.

Today, a reputable lady will not receive a photo of a stranger’s penis and decide to go out or sleep with him. She connects on social media, and you ask to see her naked within minutes. You’re wrong! Women will think all men are that way when a wimp does that. When another man says, photo, they automatically assume he’s asking them for the nude one. A few airheads had asked for nudes when they couldn’t care less if that was inappropriate.

ENCOURAGING WOMEN

WHO TREAT MEN WITH CONTEMPT

He saw a woman manipulate a man. Did she mess him up emotionally, steal from him, lie, break his heart, or make a fool of him? An honorable man will never patronize that woman. Besides, would she take his side if she saw him doing the same thing to another female? His sister or wife would side with the woman if they knew he was using her. His mother might report him to the police if she saw him emotionally abusing a woman.

Why? Women have a code. Don’t date toxic men. Don’t have sex with married men. Don’t save him even if his woman trapped him. Regardless of the evidence, always believe the woman’s allegation. Does he see cleavage and makeup and lose his self-respect even when she’s disrespectful? Men like that make it easy for people to assume we’re all stupid. When you see a woman disrespecting a good man, call her out immediately and stop it.

USING MATERIAL

POSSESSIONS AS SEX BAIT

Should men impress women with material belongings? Most strangers don’t care about your jewelry, cars, or money. An experienced gold digger could rob a man who displays his expensive properties to attract sexual attention. There are urban legends about female criminals who target wealthy men. Because of their wealth and fame, women who waste their youth providing sex to rich men often regret it. Men have lost their lives.

As men, we collectively hold each other accountable for superficial standards. Don’t use money, power, or influence to trap women for sex. Even if you succeed, they might hate you at some point in the future. I’ve heard stories of wealthy men who used financial stability to seduce a younger woman. Those women cease to be close to these men and feel a grudge against them. When that happens, it could make other men look just as bad.

CHEATING ON A

TRADITIONALLY GOOD WOMAN

You have a caring and romantic woman of your choosing. She’s beautiful, loyal, traditional, and does whatever you ask. She cooks delicious meals, keeps a spotless home, and takes excellent care of your family. This woman goes the extra mile without hesitation. She’s not disrespectful. She hates misandry, and she’s always got your back. For all men and humanity, resist every urge to cheat on this woman. You have a dependable queen.

Temptations will come. Once you have such a woman, other women might test you. They may run jasmine-scented baths, wear laced lingerie, and invite you to have a whiff of the perfume on their neck. There will be food, access to money, keys to a lovely home, and invitations to go on adventurous vacations abroad. Men should remember that we represent other men in everything that we do. The integrity of our gender is on the line.

He has a feminine woman in his bed who is not a slut, not a masculinity snob, or a man-hating radical feminist. Should he be cheating? Get it straight. When he mistreats this kind of woman, he kills the hope that good men exist in other women. Cut her loose if she’s too good for you. If you are not ready for all that tender love and care, you don’t want to settle down or have children. It is perfectly okay for you to walk away instead of being disloyal.

Only cheat if she manipulated you in the wrong understanding. She lies a lot. She’s shady and discourteous. Maybe she puts good men down and upholds radical feminist ideals. Yes, have sex with her sister and best friends when they seduce you. Preferably, when she is not treating you correctly, you should leave. Sometimes a woman might bait you into a tricky situation and switch her attitude afterward. Men should always protect good women.

MAKING NEGATIVE

REMARKS ABOUT OTHER MEN

Stop making negative remarks about other men to women. They will assume all men are like that. A person who believes he deserves the benefit of the doubt should do the same for another fellow. You don’t know all sides of the story. If you want her empathy, you shouldn’t seek it at the expense of other man’s reputation. Don’t bash the other man to look better—you will treat her like a queen, and she deserves better. You are the problem.

Sometimes, you will converse with a woman who tells you about her domestic bully, crazy stalker, or even rapist. You invite her on a date, and she forbids you to get her phone number or address. That was because she had had several stalkers in the past. Her ex-boyfriend beat her up, or he’s a narcissist. As serious as these allegations are, you should believe her story and immediately see her point—noble of you to respect her troubling experience.

Did the police resolve the case? You decide if it’s concerning that she’s had several of these kinds of incidence. However, if she has experienced such situations repeatedly, I don’t recommend dating her unless she has some help to recover from those traumas. Has she had therapy? Has she severed ties with the stalker or rapist? It is your responsibility to support her in finding help to resolve the trauma she’s feeling before inviting her on a date.

Men should respect themselves. Often, the perception is that women are the weaker sex with whom men should feel lucky where intimacy is concerned. That is one of the reasons an inexperienced man would try to protect those women who are abusive or disrespectful to another man. A man should take offense when an inconsiderate woman tarnishes another man’s integrity. Always give the guy the benefit of the doubt until proven otherwise.

If someone has raped her before, assaulted her, or abused her, call the police immediately. Report that. If you or someone has witnessed a crime against a woman, help that woman survive that assault, abuse, or rape. Do not defend the attacker. Men who commit domestic violence should never get the benefit of the doubt. We must do everything we can to stop all predators but never speak badly of a decent man to impress an illogical woman.

A WIMP ON

DATING APPS OR WEBSITES

You already know my suspicion of dating sites. I think dating apps and websites allow radical feminists to take advantage of the dating scene. The developers use robots, fake accounts, and unique algorithms that prevent single men from seducing the exact women they want. Men have a good chance of wasting their time and money there. Therefore, serious men should use those sites to their advantage. Sell your invention there and move on.

The last thing a man should do is look for more than a casual encounter on dating apps. All you see are attractive photos. You don’t know if there are real people behind those profiles. Take it from a brother who has the T-shirt. Your direct messages will be unread or ignored. You make all men look easy when you wimp for the women there. If a woman isn’t respectful enough to write a decent profile, you shouldn’t reward her by taking her seriously.

I can’t tell you how to be successful on every dating app or website. The developers will create a new algorithm to prevent new methods from working. Don’t shower any women with praise or compliments unless they’ve earned it. Don’t offer exclusive invites or inform them about your business. You don’t know if they will appreciate it. It is rare for a high-value woman with many good options to sign up on a cheesy dating app or website.

YOU CAN NOT SAVE THOSE

WHO DOES NOT NEED YOUR HELP

As a man, you must do what you can to save a woman from domestic violence or involuntary sex trafficking. Remember, women have taken extensive measures to communicate their nonnegotiable independence. Unless there is a life-saving situation, don’t offer redemption. Give her time to help herself resolve it. She might be okay without your help. No. She won’t have sex with you because you repaired her stove or changed the oil in her car.

Yes, there may be a scenario where you saved the day, and she fell into your arms because of it. Maybe a beautiful stripper looks like she could be your girlfriend or wife, and you have decided to step in to show her. It would be better to help her find a unicorn in such ungrateful times. Help the struggling single mother for humanitarian reasons. Or help a friend if she needs urgent assistance, but know what I mean when I say you can’t save anyone.

While you are repairing her bathtub for free, she’s probably thinking about a bubble bath with the man who has not answered her text messages in two weeks. Please don’t walk around doing strenuous favors for random women because you hope to have sex. Stop making men look foolish. Don’t date women who work under you or earn much less than you, except a traditionally good woman from a conventional family whom you marry.

GIVING COMPLIMENTS TO

WOMEN WHO DON’T KNOW YOU

For women, compliments are a form of attention. They show that you are peeking and that you enjoy what you see. I don’t care if she’s prettier than Lucifer, don’t tell her how fine she is in her sexy looks if she doesn’t know you. Not until you are 100% sure she can appreciate it. Also, don’t keep giving money, you don’t know. Don’t date women who haven’t shown that they care for you. When you do this, you make all men seem desperate and shallow. *

2

Fundamental

Hypotheses of Flat-Earthers

Published on January 26, 2018

I do a bit of research before I edutain you as my reader. I’m not here to change your familiarization with our incredible solar system. Instead, I want you to become aware of a determined group called the Flat-Earthers. The late Prodigy of Mobb Deep once eloquently articulated, I mix the food with the medicine. Meaning he gives his fans some facts along with the entertainment. In the end, the audience will decide what they think is true.

Oh yeah. As far as conspiracy theories go, this one takes the cake. It’s my favorite one so far. These Flat-Earthers have provided some convincing evidence to prove their point. They have courageously accused NASA of playing games with Photoshop. They blamed the elite governments of the world for hiding the truth for less than credible reasons. They have made their best scientific disputes to back their contention that the earth is flat!

As one who grew up under Abrahamic doctrines, the Bible refers to a sky. Flat-Earthers believe that the earth is ding, ding, ding, ding, yes, hold your head and wait for it—flat as a pizza. Okay, not in those words, although they do not stop just there. They consider there is no such thing as space because there is a dome over the planet. For Flat-Earthers, our planet’s impenetrable dome or firmament works like the protective casing of a snow globe.

Yes, the people of this beautiful world, according to Flat-Earthers, live in an encased snow globe encasing our universe. They have suggested that our governments and NASA fully know this fact. They seem knowledgeable, but the Flat-Earthers believe all NASA’s space photos are fake. Well, most of us remember our third-grade solar system lesson. The sun is the giant star in our planet’s orbit, one of many prominent stars in several galaxies.

Moreover, previous scientists once taught us that there are nine planets, each