Building of a Champion: The Avis Brown-Riley Story: How I Became a Champion in Life
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It is not the adversity that you face, but how you face the adversity, that defines you as a person and builds character. I think what Avis Brown and her family have done throughout their careers in the Golf world is nothing short of amazing. Avis is a wonderful player and teacher, and readily offers her experience to helping others learn this game. That passion is so important to the growth of golf and we need more golf professionals like her going into the future. Byron Casper International PGA (lifetime member) (Son of Hall of Fame Golf Legend, Billy Casper) An extraordinary journey by an ordinary person, it will bring tears to eyes and laughter to your soul. Our society place tremendous emphasis on "Winning" and "Losing", so much so that we often forget to celebrate the valuable life experiences that are gained. In the pages of this fascinating journey, Avis shares her trademark 3D's (Determination, Dedication and Desire) that empowered her to become a Golf Champion. Little did she know that the lessons learned would one day save her life and help to reach the inter-personal rewards that life has to offer.
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Building of a Champion - Avis Brown-Riley
Building of a Champion: How I became a champion in life
Avis Brown-Riley
Copyright 2018 Avis Brown-Riley
All rights reserved
First Edition
Page Publishing, Inc
New York, NY
First originally published by Page Publishing, Inc 2018
ISBN 978-1-64138-342-4 (Paperback)
ISBN 978-1-64138-343-1 (Digital)
Printed in the United States of America
Chapter One
Competition Is a Part
of Everyday Life
1. Learning to Compete
We begin to learn how to compete from the time we are born. A toddler cries when they want to compete for their parents’ attention, siblings compete to gain the love and affection of their parents. We compete in academics, sports, and on the job. Competition is a part of everyday life, and society places tremendous emphasis centered on winning and losing.
Dr. Thomas M. Brunner is a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in advanced assessment and treatment of children, adolescents, and adults, and notes the following:
"As a child counselor and parent, I have experienced and witnessed the deep craving parents feel to see their children triumph in the competitive arena. Whether academic or athletic, there is a fire in the belly when it comes to competing. In my counseling work with gifted students, youth athletes and highly competitive families, I have discovered something far more important than the win/loss record. Something more golden than the Gold Medal. A character mettle forged much stronger than trophy metal. Something that you as a parent (or competitor) should heed if you want your child to compete in the fullest rather than in the most primitive sense in the arena of life.
What do I mean by the most primitive sense? Too many youth athletes get over focused on getting the win,
says Dr. Scott Goldman, PhD, a colleague of mine and fellow father. He is also Director of Clinical and Sports Psychology at the University of Arizona, and counsels college athletes. He says, I tell our athletes all the time, if you just want to win, go play against a 4th grader. But if you want your win to have meaning, play against someone who can beat you
. I would add this: you learn and grow much more from loses than wins."
"The losses build your resilience, your adaptability. Your ability to get up after being kicked in the stomach, literally or metaphorically. Scott then made a critical point for all you parents to chew on: if the focus is on child development, the competitive event is only one component. The other component is who is helping your child understand (and stand back from) their experience of the event. He said a common experience is college athletes telling stories of how if they won the game, they got ice cream, and if they lost, they went straight home. Thus, winning becomes bound up with acceptance and losing means one is not accepted or loved.
But winning IS IMPORTANT,
you say, adding, Spare us the mushy ice cream stories and tell us how to make our kid the next star of the team.
Hey, I feel the heat. I have given inspirational talks to my 7-year-old William on how important it is to compete heartily. I am a serious competitor. Why? Because I feel just like my friend and fellow competitive cyclist Matt Blair, a father of two young children.
He said: Being competitive is a requirement to survive and be successful. In order to succeed, we must embrace our competitive nature, challenge ourselves, and overcome the obstacles that keep us from our dreams.
He then went into Old Wise Man mode and tapped into the core of my blog when he said: As a child, being competitive can help children develop the necessary life tools that are most important for a successful life.
Matt’s focus on the bigger picture, on the importance of your child learning life tools
, hits the bull’s eye. So why do so many coaches, parents, and children over focus on the primitive target of winning and losing the next