The Hotwife Lifestyle - The Modern Prevention Against Cheating

By Hotwife Books

This book explains how the Hotwife lifestyle can prevent infidelity in a committed relationship. It discusses reasons for cheating incidents and examines the deeper emotional needs of humans, rooting in non-monogamy. Additionally it describes what established Hotwife couples do differently and common strategies to enter this lifestyle.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Hotwife Books
• Release date: Jan 2, 2023
• ISBN: 9798215673362

Book preview

Cheating - the widespread Cancer

Fidelity within a relationship is not an outdated virtue. It is indeed more important than ever to cultivate. The near future will require conscious couples who have a sealed bond of trust between their hearts and who know how to fuel it with passion.

Cheating is not good. It destroys families, undermines marital trust and gets labelled for good reasons as sinful. But what about consensual cheating? Something we hear quite often in recent years.

Could it be that consciously granting the partner - at least the female half in context of the Hotwife marriage - more freedom actually takes the wind out of the sails for infidel deeds? If we look closer at reports from established Hotwife couples, take in regard biological functions and understand how sexuality in a marriage should work, then we conclude that this is actually possible.

To examine that in detail is what we're here for. But first, let's begin with the broad standard in the committed relationship landscape. The monogamous marriage.

Monogamous Issues

Monogamy has been the marriage standard for centuries, namely since the end of the polytheistic roman empire. It's what we expect in a marriage - sexual exclusivity for a lifetime. 100% emotional and sexual focus until death parts. The more so it hurts when one of the partners suddenly cheats, right?

Nowadays, most divorces happen because of cheating - over 50% in the western culture according to statistics. The same goes probably for most breakups in unmarried relationships as well. And it makes sense, without a strong basement of trust - the very currency of any meaningful relationship - a being together probably won't have a bright future anyway.

To go separated ways after one party has committed infidelity is one possibility. Another often chosen strategy is to not even get into strong commitments at all. Where there is not much emotional investment there can't be a great loss, right? But this fatalistic approach - being greedy with feelings to avoid pain - can't be humanity's longterm answer.

We might argue that in modern times we don't really need to marry anymore. Too big is the potential of getting hurt and too short living the rapidly changing life plans of individuals. It couldn't be farther from the truth. Only a commitment from the heart for life holds the huge co-creative potential for a couple to explore. It is the very emotional investment into each other that creates the source of energy for a couple. Something casual relationships can't provide in the same way.

At the same time, we observe a serious issue in monogamous relationships: The sexual fire disappears after a while. Well, why should it even still be burning one might ask. There's no need to conquer anymore and pure bonding intimacy simply becomes boring for the male psyche. Without serious demand the male sex drive becomes dormant. The lack of the husband's passion on the other hand suffocates a wife's desires since the female system is designed to adapt to that of the man.

In most marriages, the sexual tension declines, let's not deny that. The excitement of the unknown disappears. While deep intimacy and a profound knowledge of your partner is a very valuable thing, the element of uncertainty vanishes by definition. A man's testosterone level is measurably decreasing after a while in monogamy. No risks to take, emotional safety for granted. No conquests anymore to expect unless the husband becomes a violent Viking. No sexual thrill - the very essence of what makes a man feel alive. The only thing waiting at home triggering and alerting the nervous system may be the screams of kids. And faithful wives ask themselves why their men spend more and more time at work or with their buddies.

Unspoken Struggles