HotwifeGuide: The Wife's Manual

By Hotwife Manuals

The Wife's Manual provides a married woman with everything she needs to know to go the Hotwife path together with her husband.
Contrary to the classical HotwifeGuide books and manuals, it is written especially for women. The language is short, direct and focused on outcomes.

 

Part 1 of this book discusses the very fundamentals for any Hotwife marriage. It is meant for people who hardly know anything about alternative relationship styles and need something to start with. It leads the future Hotwife through the basic marriage changes that are required for a Hotwife life, teaches her about developing her sexiest self and guides her in driving her husband's mind crazy.

 

Part 2 is for couples who have decided that they want to try out Hotwifing waters. They know roughly what it is about and have a strong basement of trust and communication. Part 2 teaches the wife about how to come into contact with men, what to regard for the first time with another man and how to grow into a longterm lifestyle.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Hotwife Manuals
• Release date: Apr 14, 2023
• ISBN: 9798223207399

Book preview

cover-image, Wife's Manual

Welcome

The Hotwife lifestyle is a growing trend and chances are that you have already heard about consensual non-monogamy. Yet unfortunately there is hardly solid advice to be found about how to actually make a well-functioning marital lifestyle out of it. In the best case you find some obscure opinions in forums or get some inspiration from literotica - usually written by men with wild fantasies. For women there is almost no useful guidance available. This to change is what we're here for.

The Wife's Manual is an instructional guide leading a wife into the Hotwife lifestyle, starting from scratch. It bases on the HotwifeGuide but is designed especially for women. It is written relatively compact and concise on purpose, it explains things and gives advice instead of inventing fantastic phrases. It is a Hotwife's go-to handbook.

What Is The Hotwife Lifestyle?

A Hotwife is a married woman who enjoys sexual relationships with other men, with her husband's full consent and support.

Readers of The Wife's Manual must already bring a certain interest in non-monogamous relationships with them. This book is not written to make hungry but rather to provide guidance for where the appetite is there.

The Two Parts

The Wife's Manual got segmented into two parts. Part 1 is for people who are completely new to the topic of unconventional relationships or consensual cheating and start from zero. Part 1 is more about bringing all the different marriage parameters in alignment first before actual adventures can happen. It is therefore safe to consume even for readers who are unsure now if this is really what they want.

Part 2 leads a married woman directly into Hotwifing waters. It is for those couples who have decided that they want to try some spicy things out. So said, Part 2 provides the pathway into a fully established lifestyle.

You can study the Wife's Manual all for yourself or together with your husband.

Are you ready to start? Alright then, have fun ;)

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Part 1

This is for those who are new to the topics of alternative relationships. Part 1 provides you with everything you need to get prepared for the Hotwife life.

You will learn:

How to prepare the most important things in your marriage for the future Hotwife life

How to develop incredible and authentic Hotwife sexiness

How to talk with your husband about sexual fantasies with other men

A. Chapter Blue

Every Hotwife journey begins with preparing the marriage for the expected changes. In the future Hotwife life, you will be on the road more often, probably without your husband. Your home should reflect your unbound eros - the sexual life force which you should train daily at best for yourself. But not only preparing the relationship to yourself is crucial, in this very first stage you should also take your time to deepen the intimate relationship to your husband.

The main goal: Having life structures that allow the Hotwife lifestyle.

Marriage Assessment

Begin with checking your marriage for specific parameters. You need to find out which areas require improvement.

Check:

How often do you have sexual intercourse and pleasure together?

How often do you exchange about feelings and emotions?

How deeply do you trust each other?

How often do you fun and bonding stuff together?

Would your life structures allow you to have side lovers?

Solo-Pleasure Time

A Hotwife makes pleasuring herself a consistent part of her daily life.

A Hotwife knows herself, her body and her sexuality. She knows what she needs to make her waters flow and can give it generously to herself. Sex with human partners is usually more desirable yet during the times she takes for her solo pleasure she practices aligning body, mind and soul. It makes her better attuned to her body instincts and sharpens her senses for what she might like and what not. Despite that, her masturbation sessions provide a great opportunity to invite her husband into her world of feminine eros - the very first step into an authentic Hotwife life.

The importance of masturbation for a Hotwife

Let's define masturbation here as any act where you stimulate and arouse yourself all alone. This can be in various ways, with your fantasies or purely physical, with your hands or with the help of tools, etc. Any Hotwife should know her sexual body and how to pleasure herself before even thinking about going on hunts - it prepares mind, body and soul for what is to come in advance.

It connects you with your natural, authentic sexual self

You know better what and how you like

It makes you more flexible in sexual situations

How to take time and space for solo pleasure

Make it a priority for yourself (e.g. every morning or every evening)

Make it a conscious ritual

Reserve time windows in advance

Announce it to your partner when you want retreat time and tell clearly, if you don't want to get interrupted

Occupy husband or children otherwise

Should I use fantasies or porn?

Learn to masturbate without any stimulating input from outside first. You gain more sexual authenticity when you're completely alone with yourself. Later you can watch some porn if you like, it can help you to find out what you like as what you see on the screen works like a mirror for your subconscious mind. Take care that you don't get addicted to porn - focus on real life. Also don't let your fantasies become too unrealistic.

Female fantasies

When you pleasure yourself or think about your motives for the Hotwife lifestyle, you may encounter various kinds of fantasies with other men. Understand where they come from to be able to play with them more consciously.

Female sexuality consists of