I'm Perfect. Neither is Life
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A short story of the challenges that I grew up with. Trying to figure out life, be a child, grow up and be myself. Not knowing what was to come each and every day but had to move on if I wanted to be something because no one was going to do it for me.
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I'm Perfect. Neither is Life - Shea W Deignan
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I’m Perfect. Neither is Life.
To my family and friends that all played a part in my life for the better and for the worst. To make those experiences and challenges unlike any other. My amazing wife Kristina and our son Shea Jr, continue to inspire me to be better than the next day!
September 30th, 2004.
The thirtieth of September in 2004
30 Sep 2004.
No matter how I look at it, it was one of the worst days of my life.
What’s yours?
Do you even remember where you were born? Do you remember asking your parents anything about if they were your real parents at some point?
Born in Providence, RI in 1991 Women and Infants Hospital over by Eddy Street is where almost everyone is born in Rhode Island. What I do remember is moving from city to city in Rhode Island, getting in trouble, being a good
kid, and excelling in a lot of other activities. I will start with my earliest childhood memories and that is running into the table at the age of 5 chasing after my brother and getting knocked out around the corner real quick. When I was a child I used to hate telling that story because I would be embarrassed that I had gotten a scar right above my right eyebrow, by running into a table. Classy. Now I don’t have a problem with it, I just feel that it’s cool to have scars now than I did when I was younger.
At a very young age I felt out of place, as if I didn’t belong.
I felt that in my life at times that I was unable to be a child, life was moving too fast and I felt that I had to grow up a lot faster than I should.
Working hard to accomplish a Bachelor's degree and a Master’s degree, something I could never imagine in my lifetime.
What were my motivations?
What are yours?
I grew up with three brothers John, James, and Ryan. Had a mother Susan and father Michael. At one point we were all living together when I was really young. Ryan is six years older than me, James is 8 years older than me, and John is 11 years older than me. Living together wasn’t much of a memory, not really knowing what happened and I would have to live through photos that were taken, and my family telling their stories. There were two houses that I remember our family living together, one on Ruggles closer to the north end of Providence and one house in the west end on Linwood ave in Providence, RI.
Down the road on Linwood Ave at Bucklin park my brothers and I all played for the local football team called the West End Intruders. The field was made of low cut grass and dirt patches. I remember going to practice one day, not feeling well at all, throwing up all over the place I still wanted to go because I loved the sport that much, even my coach would tell me to stop running laps. I would just nod my head and say, I’m ok coach
and kept running. Then at one point I was over the weight limit once I got to peewee level where helmets and pads were required, I did not have a chance to play tackle football until High School. I couldn’t play and only practice, I enjoyed playing football because of the commitment the team makes, remembering my focus during the games rather than who was at the games at times. I felt I was in my own world for those couple of hours playing at a young age and nothing else had mattered from start to finish.
Growing up in Providence was amazing, I love Providence to this day, familiarizing myself with all the local food spots, corner stores and even down the street on Progress Ave a family sold icey’s. Coconut was my favorite flavor. I lived