Searching Below the Surface: A Deeper Look at Covenant and Contract: Marriage in an Islamic Context, #1
By Nakhati Jon
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We all want to know how the God of the Bible differs from the Islamic Allah. How does a covenant-keeping God interact in the divine-human relationship? How does a contract-demanding Allah counter biblical truth by developing a path for human-effort deliverance?
This comparative religious exploration will investigate God's covenantal ways and Allah's contractual obligations, enabling Christians to explain the difference.
Searching Below the Surface: A Deeper look at Covenant and Contract prepares the reader to present biblical truths by contrasting a difference in an Islamic context. The book unearths a needed complete picture of the difference between a covenant God called Yahweh and a deity prone to contract, Allah.
The book seeks to answer these questions:
How does Yahweh's Oneness promote covenant understanding?
How do Muslims define the Absolute Oneness of Allah?
How do the creation accounts in the Bible and Quran reflect theology?
In what ways does Islam ignore a covenant ethos?
What are the implications of covenant and contract when applied to marriage?
Since covenant marriage patterns divine oneness in how spouses relate and share sacrificially, this mode of marriage mirrors the character of the biblical God. Marriage in the Bible reflects a relationship found in the divine Godhead and how he interacts with believers.
"Nakhati Jon skillfully searches below the surface to understand the roots of the thinking of our Muslim friends and neighbors, and Christians" Patrick Cate, Ph.D.
In a covenant marriage, the husband and wife become one, which means more than physical oneness but a mystical, spiritual unity that reflects the Trinity of Oneness! Nakhati Jon
Oneness describes the Islamic idea concerning deity but undermines the ideas of Islamic marriage. Nakhati Jon
Excerpt:
On another scorching, sweltering day in Central Asia, we traveled to the capital in our rented taxi. As per custom, my wife sat in the back with our kids while I sat in the front, chatting with the driver. Dust and welcome air flew in through the open windows, and we talked loudly to drown out the wind. Then, the inevitable conversation began:
Driver: Central Asian women are beautiful, aren't they? (My back prickled in response to my wife's almost-palpable eye-roll.)
Me: My wife is beautiful.
Driver: You should get a second wife. (I felt my wife rethinking pacifism.)
Me: (Emphatically) God is one! Therefore, I will have only one wife!
Driver: Oh—this is true! (Pause) Does your wife speak the language?
Me: Fluently. And she doesn't like what you're saying.
Years later, my wife confessed she had ignored the illogic of the "One God/one wife" statement in return for its success as a conversation-stopper. But in researching, I happily discovered my shot at philosophy had been logical after all. In fact, my bit of accidental wisdom carried foundational truths about Yahweh's nature, his relationship with man, and his plan for marriage.
Nakhati Jon
Nakhati Jon serves and teaches in the Middle East, Central Asia, and North America among Persians. He loves to analyze and evaluate the differences between Christianity and Islam. He is working on a collection of books Exploring Marriage in an Islamic Context. The series will discover contrasting foundational concepts from the Bible and the Quran. The series begins with “Searching Below the Surface” as the foundational whys to the critical differences between these two perspectives. These introductory issues will uncover distinct core ideas that influence marriage definitions (Defining Marriage), especially how to live out that definition (Accommodating Marriage). Later books will focus on teaching the marriage passages of Genesis and Ephesians in an Islamic setting. These books convey the sweet aroma of Christ to those needing Christ’s love in their marriages, along with those ministering among the least-reached Muslim communities. The series’ goal is to help Christian believers and practitioners find ways to apply a covenant marriage in the Islamic context. The Islamic society influences not only Muslims but those touched by their community. Awareness and understanding of presuppositions in Christian covenant and Islamic contract marriages will enable practical ideas on how couples can live in covenant oneness. Nakhati Jon also earned a Master’s (1992) and Doctoral degree in Educational Ministry (2021) from Dallas Theological Seminary. He is the author of “Survey of Shia Marriage in Iran” and numerous books in a Central Asian language.
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Searching Below the Surface - Nakhati Jon
Searching Below the Surface
A Deeper Look at Covenant and Contract
by Nakhati Jon
© 2022 by Nakhati Jon
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Dedication
Praise be to God who revealed Himself
to us by His Oneness
as Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.
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Praise be to the only God, our Savior who,
through Jesus Christ our Lord grants us
the Truth, the Way and the Life.
To him be glory,
majesty, dominion, and authority,
before all time and now and forever.
Amen
Contents
Dedication
Foreword
Preface
Chapter 1 – Partakers or Spectators of God’s Oneness?
Yahweh’s Oneness and Allah’s Absolute Oneness
The Oneness of Yahweh
The Aloneness of Allah
Allah alone, without a Spirit
Crucial points of Divergence
Connecting Marriage to Oneness
Summary Chart of Oneness
Chapter 2 – Indwelling Inspiration or Divine Download?
Two Ways to Communicate
What is Inspiration?
Points of Clarity
Defining Progressive Revelation
Islamic Revelation
Contrast Revelation and Inspiration
Revelation’s Connection to Marriage
Chapter 3 – Image Determines Purpose
Covenant and Contract Reflections
Creation of Humanity
Man, the Image-bearer of God
God Speaks His Mind
Man, the Vicegerent
Implications of Diverse Views
Implications to Marriage
Conclusion
Chapter 4 – Manner of Deliverance
Yahweh’s Provision vs. Self-deliverance
Implications to Depravity and Fitra
Covenant Salvation vs Contract Self-deliverance
Conclusion
Chapter 5 – Covenant Sanctification and Contract Conformity
Background to Sanctification and Submission
Contract Conformity
The Enablement
Conclusion
Chapter 6 – What Does Marriage Reflect?
Many Layers of Marriage
Contract Marriage Reflects Islamic Conformity
Conclusion
Case Study
Appendix
Definition of Terms
Bibliography
Topic Index
Foreword
The author, Nakhati Jon, has served for 29 years in Muslim countries, both Sunni and Shiite. It has been my privilege to know him for 38 years. He is both a practical evangelist/church planter and an excellent research scholar.
Christ made it clear that houses built on a rock foundation survive storms much better than those built on sand. This study peels back the foundations of covenant vs. contractual relationships leading to the relationship in marriage. Nakhati Jon studies the differences of contract and covenant related to their understanding of God, scripture, man’s relationship with God, salvation, sanctification and an introduction for marriage. Drilling down to one’s presuppositions helps to better understand one’s theology and practices.
Islam is a religion of mathematics. Surah 97:3 tells us that prayer on the night of power, (Lailet al Qadr, when the Qur’an began to be delivered) is better than prayers over a thousand months, or 83 and 1/3 years. Mosques are normally packed that week. Prayer before and after the five daily prayer times provide extra credit
from Allah. One of my students was interviewing a Saudi lady who said when she lies down to sleep, she adds up her good deeds and bad deeds to see if the good outweighed the bad deeds. At least eight times in the Qur’an, scales for measuring good and bad works are mentioned. This mathematical legalistic view of salvation and life is foundational to a contractual relationship as opposed to a covenantal relationship, based on grace.
The difference between a covenant marriage and a contractual marriage is significant. I have been told by a Muslim male that when I get married, I am responsible to provide financially for my wife and family, and my wife is responsible to provide sex when I want it.
There is a Muslim hadith which says that if a wife dies before her husband, he is not responsible to pay for her funeral, even if he can afford it, because the contract is broken and she is not fulfilling her responsibility. (These views are not held by all Muslims.)
Nakhati Jon skillfully searches below the surface to understand the roots of the thinking of our Muslim friends and neighbors and of Christians.
Patrick Cate, Ph.D. from Hartford Seminary
Preface
Searching Below the Surface: A Deeper Look at Covenant and Contract
Often, I walk down a central street near where I live, unaware of what lies below. Sprinkled among these modern buildings of no more than fifty years old are fountains, squares, and historic bazaars, some of which may be hundreds of years old — the ordinary streets packed with multiple forms of transportation.
I needed to visit a government office in an older area one day, but the street was down to one lane. City workers, enlarging the drainage system to help prevent flash floods, had dug a massive trench in the middle of the road. As the opened track revealed ancient walls, water channels, and building foundations, I stared in awe. The work crews worked around these substructures to install a new system, even adjusting to allow the ancient elements to remain. Previously, I had walked multiple times up and down that street, entirely unaware of what lay below. The foundation of the ancient city rested just below my feet. Previously, I walked on the surface without any knowledge of the structures beneath, but now my observation of the exposed sub-layer gave me a new perspective.
This book exposes the undergirding ideas beneath our spiritual and religious systems. Below Christian and Islamic religious structures and paths hide ancient networks that need raising to the surface so that a better worldview understanding can occur. This book will provide a deeper look at how the Bible portrays a covenant viewpoint and the Quran a contract one.
How do differing creation accounts in the Bible and Quran uphold theological understandings? How do the oneness of Yahweh and the Absolute Oneness of Allah influence their narratives? Each explored area hints further meaning to the whole story. What we hear about Yahweh or Allah today may not give a complete picture of what hides beneath a religious structure or mode of thinking. As in any ancient dig, time and patience provide a fuller description. Likewise, the many artifacts discovered without a systematic blueprint may conceal a fuller understanding. This writing will unearth either a systematic covenant or contract blueprint. As we search and meticulously expose the substructure, a more complete picture will form to show the difference between a covenant God called Yahweh and a deity prone to contract, called Allah. Searching Below the Surface digs up the bedrock of why the Bible presents a covenant model and Islam a contract one. The underpinnings in each perspective reflect the essence of either Yahweh or Allah’s nature to guide our exploration.
As we journey intellectually into the Bible and Quran, we will appreciate how Christianity and Islam pursue divergent paths concerning life. We will see a different viewpoint based on the nature of deity’s oneness, what God says about man, and how he interacts and offers deliverance for humanity. These things influence a follower’s identity and relationships. Any archeologist takes much time collecting and classifying the artifacts discovered to categorize the evidence. Theological archeology looks at how the Bible and Quran each formulate a collective identity. The items gathered from both sides, with much patient analysis, will create classifications for study.
The biblical source extensively draws, defines, and legitimizes a covenant identity. On the other hand, the Islamic source often ignores the biblical context to rearrange, re-define and re-legitimize a contract parameter regarding marriage. These textual digs will explore the distinctions and inferences that eventually show marriage as either covenantal or contractual. As in any archaeological dig, the study of the area requires much patient evaluation. An archeologist finds obvious and common objects but provides a fuller picture when comparing the finds with other objects and time periods. Likewise, we discover a covenant or contract identity when contrasting the Bible and the Quran. We hope to show that Yahweh, a covenant God and Allah a contract one, eventually affect people’s views of marriage.
A few notes of clarification
1) Yahweh is the Hebrew name (יְהֹוָה – YHWH) for God used in the Old Testament, and Allah (الله) is the Arabic name for God, used in the Quran. For the sake of clarity, Searching Below the Surface will use the Old Testament name for God to describe the God of the Bible and Allah (الله) to depict the god of the Quran.
2) A surah refers to a chapter in the Quran.
3) Islamic references will come from the Sunni perspective, with Shia references stated as such. 4) For brevity’s sake, this writing will omit the Islamic tradition of preceding or following prophets’ names with a phrase of honor.
5) The Bible
and The Quran
will refer to various English translations of each.
6) When referring to deity, he
will not be capitalized mid-sentence, except in quotations.
7) Many new terms exist in this writing. When needed, the Appendix displays a Definition of Terms.
Searching Below the Surface is the foundational book to the series Exploring Marriage in an Islamic Context. The book will study and contrast covenant and contractual designs found in both perspectives. This writing searches foundational issues and, at times, will peruse core ideas that influence a marriage definition. The depth and practicality concerning marriage will come in the books to follow. This book will open the door to the next book, defining marriage and how couples should live out that definition. Later books will show how to teach the marriage passages of Genesis and Ephesians in an Islamic setting.
You are invited as a husband, wife, engaged couple, inquiring student, or inquisitive teacher to explore these two vastly different foundations. Searching Below the Surface invites you to search for an identity that results from these beliefs, leading us to discover why the biblical narrative promotes covenantal ideas, not contractual. May the foundations uncovered grant you a better appreciation for God’s great covenantal love that he has for each of us!
Chapter 1 – Partakers or Spectators of God’s Oneness?
The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things that are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law.
Deuteronomy 29:29, [1]
God has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature.
2 Peter 1:4
Only God knows God.
Al-Junayd
On another scorching, sweltering day in Central Asia, we traveled to the capital in our rented taxi. As per custom, my wife sat in the back with our kids while I sat in the front, chatting with the driver. Dust and welcome air flew in through the open windows, and we talked loudly to drown out the wind. Then, the inevitable conversation began:
Driver: Central Asian women are beautiful, aren’t they? (My back prickled in response to my wife’s almost-palpable eye-roll.)
Me: My wife is beautiful.
Driver: You should get a second wife. (I felt my wife rethinking pacifism.)
Me: (Emphatically) God is one! Therefore, I will have only one wife!
Driver: Oh—this is true! (Pause) Does your wife speak the language?
Me: Fluently. And she doesn’t like what you’re saying.
Years later, my wife confessed she had ignored the illogic of the One God/one wife
statement in return for its success as a conversation-stopper. But in researching, I happily discovered my shot at philosophy had been logical after all. In fact, my bit of accidental wisdom carried foundational truths about Yahweh’s nature, his relationship with man, and his plan for marriage.
Yahweh’s Oneness and Allah’s Absolute Oneness
The oneness of God differs between Christianity and Islam. The God of the Bible presents himself in oneness formed within a unity of divine persons, while the Islamic view promotes the oneness of Allah as absolutely alone without any other. Oneness in Unity[2] (Trinity) marks the biblical essence of deity, while Absolute Oneness describes the Islamic viewpoint.
I like to stress God’s Oneness in ministry since both Christians and Muslims readily agree on monotheism. Finding commonalities establishes a good starting point for dialogue. Yet, the elephant in the room, which every Muslim knows, is that Allah has no partner nor grants any to bear his image; and every Christian knows that the God of the Bible has a Son and bestows his image on humanity. Also, how does either side define God’s oneness? Let us respectfully explore these different ideas of oneness, which will reveal how each perspective forms a different foundation.
The two questions in describing God’s Oneness lie before us:
Is God a unity of divine persons?
Or is he absolutely alone?
On that note, we will start with the Islamic ideas concerning the Absolute Oneness of Allah to form a semblance of contrast. Absolute Oneness describes Allah as one who has no partners, no son, and no likeness, so he is utterly alone.
Allah’s Absolute Oneness
Surah 112:1–4 summarizes Allah’s oneness: "Say: He, Allah, is One. [2] Allah is He on Whom all depend. [3] He begets not, nor is He begotten. [4] And none is like Him." (bold mine Surah 112:1–4)[3] Except for He begets not,
these verses on the