On the Edge of Hope: No Matter How Dark the Night, the Redeemed Soul Still Sings
By Mark Chironna and Christine Caine
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The Light of Hope Is Closer Than You Know
When our once-solid worlds suddenly shift and heave, we find ourselves desperately trying to hold it all together. We suffer silently, ashamed of our struggles with things like anxiety, depression, and sleeplessness--after all, everyone else seems to be fine.
Yet the truth is that everyone tastes from the cup of suffering.
With unassuming honesty and candor, Dr. Mark Chironna openly shares what he learned in his own three-year battle with darkness. Integrating the best of theology with Christ-centered psychology, he offers scriptural and holistic truths that will help lead you out of the murky depths. Though it feels as if this dark night will never end, you can walk through your uncertainty, fears, and tears to find the edge of hope again.
"The scariest place can also be your threshold. Step through it knowing God is there with you, and your healing can happen right in the middle of your chaos."--Mark Chironna
"Sweeping wisdom and weeping compassion . . . a manifesto of hope that conveys both modesty of spirit and majesty of thought." --LEONARD SWEET, founder, PreachTheStory.com; author, Songs of Light series
"I highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through a storm or knows someone who is!"--KRIS VALLOTTON, senior associate leader, Bethel Church, Redding, California
Mark Chironna
Mark Chironna (MarkChironna.com) is an influential leader with a global reach and has been a clarion prophetic voice for almost five decades. Dr. Chironna is the founder and senior pastor of Church on the Living Edge and the presiding bishop of Legacy Edge Alliance, a worldwide fellowship of senior apostolic leaders and churches. Dr. Chironna has advanced degrees in theology and psychology and has recently completed his second doctorate. He and his wife live in Orlando, Florida.
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On the Edge of Hope - Mark Chironna
With vulnerability and candidness, Mark Chironna shares much-needed insights that will help believers navigate life’s painful experiences, all while looking to the One who ‘heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds’ (Psalm 147:3). This book will impart hope as you walk out your journey of healing in Jesus Christ!
Dr. Ché Ahn, president, Harvest International Ministry; senior pastor, Harvest Rock Church, Pasadena, California; international chancellor, Wagner University
Dr. Mark Chironna has a one-of-a-kind mind, with unmatched focus on God’s Word, His people, and the advancement of His Kingdom. Yet he is human and faces some of the same struggles and devastations we all do. The bravery to document and recount for us his painful journey through some of his darkest days is inspiring. God knew He could trust him, like Job, to come out on the other side giving God all of the glory!
Pastor Sheryl Brady, The Potter’s House of North Dallas
A raw and honest discussion of Mark Chironna’s struggle to overcome anxiety and deep depression. Mark blends together his background in theology, psychology, and pastoral ministry in addressing these battles. He reminds us that, ultimately, it is not a technique that will deliver us, but the person of Jesus Christ.
Dr. Michael L. Brown, radio host, Line of Fire; author, Has God Failed You?
I saw Mark Chironna enter his ‘valley of the shadow of death’ and saw his self-awareness and God-awareness intersect in painful ways. Without making excuses or tangential reasoning, my good friend Mark shares with you his life, his losses, his regaining his sight and finding God in refreshing ways. You’ll love this book and share it with all you know.
Sam Chand, leadership architect, consultant, author
"Mark Chironna’s On the Edge of Hope is a powerful book that speaks to the reality of the dark side of emotional, spiritual, and psychological breakdown. Mark’s honesty regarding his struggle was powerful. The challenges his dark night of the soul brought to his charismatic Pentecostal theology and how the experience reoriented some of his theology were insightful and helpful. I highly recommend it!"
Dr. Randy Clark, founder and president, Apostolic Network of Global Awakening
The growing urgency for transparency in our culture is indicative of the things we’ve given power to by keeping them hidden. When leaders embrace this vulnerable obligation to humanity, they inspire hope in the hearts of those who might otherwise have succumbed to the dark. Dr. Mark Chironna brilliantly invites us to venture beyond the pretense of hypocrisy, where we are empowered to conquer lies and live on the edge of discovery. Get ready to believe again!
Brenda Crouch, author, speaker, TV host
I passed through the valley of the shadow of death that Psalm 23 speaks about at the same time a dear friend quietly suffered through an extended dark night of the soul. We identified with one another. We had few answers except to say, ‘Keep your hand on the plow and look straight ahead.’ My friend was none other than Mark Chironna. Thank you, Mark, for being transparent and brave and walking a path less beaten.
James W. Goll, God Encounters Ministries; GOLL Ideation LLC
It’s hard to tell the truth about what we’ve suffered. It’s even harder to tell the truth in ways that awaken genuine hope (and not wishful thinking). But Mark Chironna has done that. Precisely because he hasn’t glossed over any of his pains, God’s goodness shines through every line.
Chris E. W. Green, professor of public theology, Southeastern University
As spiritual leaders, we often carry the burden of our sheep upon our shoulders, even in the midst of going through our personal struggles and battles. I am so grateful to Mark Chironna for penning his darkest season of pain. His sharing about his innermost thoughts and struggles while going through the darkest season of his life will be an encouragement to many as we witness the goodness and reality of God in his life. All glory to God!
Rev. Kong Hee, founder and senior pastor, City Harvest Church, Singapore
Bishop Chironna has given the Body of Christ a precious and costly gift—the testimony of his three and a half years of suffering. He masterfully weaves together personal stories, psychological analysis, and deep theological reflection. Those suffering their own dark night of the soul will find this book to be a compassionate, nonjudgmental, and hopeful companion. Chironna also serves as a guide to those who minister to people suffering from depression, grief, and anxiety. It is well-researched but written on a lay level.
Cheryl Bridges Johns, senior professor of discipleship and Christian formation, Pentecostal Theological Seminary
"Suffering is real. Perhaps we have forgotten God’s compassionate solidarity with those who suffer and are brokenhearted. Mark Chironna’s On the Edge of Hope brings us to remembrance with a scriptural and Spirit-led theology of suffering illustrated by his own painful journey to hope and healing. Pass it on."
Rev. Kim Maas, MDiv, DMin, author, Prophetic Community and The Way of the Kingdom
Familiar with the edge of despair and paralyzing pain, Mark Chironna is also at home in the landscape of honest hope and healing love. In the company of Jesus, Job, Jung, et al., Mark humbly offers truth and wisdom gained through the suffering and renewal of his own life.
Dr. Cherith Fee Nordling, theologian
Balanced tenuously on the cusp of despair and hope, one can turn one way and see nothing but darkness. Dr. Chironna summons us to turn and look instead at the boundless sea of hope. I strongly recommend this powerful and authentic work on inner healing.
Mark Rutland, executive director, National Institute of Christian Leadership
A monumental book of sweeping wisdom and weeping compassion. Mark Chironna has composed a manifesto of hope that conveys both modesty of spirit and majesty of thought. A remarkable achievement.
Leonard Sweet, professor; publisher; founder, PreachTheStory.com; author, Songs of Light series
"On the Edge of Hope offers a lifeline to those drowning in a sea of depression or anxiety. Through Mark’s personal healing journey, you will find a lighthouse in the midst of your storm that will guide you to the shores of peace and help you win the battle against hopelessness. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is going through a storm or knows someone who is!"
Kris Vallotton, senior associate leader, Bethel Church, Redding, California; cofounder, Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry; author, The Supernatural Ways of Royalty, Heavy Rain, Spiritual Intelligence, and more
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To
Reverend Vincent Bernard Manzo,
without whose help, wisdom, guidance, and presence my
dark season would have been utterly intolerable
Contents
Cover
Endorsements 1
Half Title Page 5
Title Page 7
Copyright Page 8
Dedication 9
Foreword by Christine Caine 13
Acknowledgments 17
Introduction: If I’d Seen the Bus Coming . . . 21
1. How Did I Get Here? 29
2. Acceptance Is Not a Dirty Word 43
3. The Grunt Work of Getting Whole 59
4. Nothing’s Perfect 73
5. Perplexity, Apprehension, Anxiety 81
6. Soul and Body 89
7. The Knot in My Stomach 99
8. Going Out of My Mind 111
9. A Dark Night of the Spirit 119
10. I Won’t Complain. Or Will I? 133
11. Power and Powerlessness 149
12. Fear and Hope 165
Epilogue: Daring to Dream 183
Notes 199
About the Author 205
Back Cover 208
Foreword
What started out as a fun family ski trip turned into my being strapped to a stretcher in the back of an ambulance on my way to the hospital. One moment I was skiing downhill, the next I was in the air in an unplanned somersault listening to a pop-pop-pop come from my right knee. I had snapped my ACL, torn my MCL and meniscus, and fractured my knee. Never had I experienced that kind of pain. In the days following, I hobbled around with a leg brace and crutches until I could have surgery for a hamstring graft.
I was still in the recovery room when a physical therapist said, Chris, you did a lot of damage to your knee, and most people tend to not fully recover after that sort of injury. It’s not that you can’t recover, because, thanks to surgery, your right knee is now technically stronger than your left knee, but the challenge is whether you will be willing to endure the recovery process. The injury happened suddenly and quickly, but the recovery process will take several months of focused and painful therapy. There is no way to avoid the pain. You can recover fully or partially, quickly or slowly—it will be totally up to you. The degree to which you are willing to embrace the recovery process is the degree to which you will recover and thrive again.
These were not words I wanted to hear after a painful, traumatic accident, nor was the process one I necessarily wanted to endure. But if I wanted to get well, if I wanted to be able to run again, do squats, even ski, then I had to agree to go through the process of recovery. I would have done anything for a friend with the gift of healing to come and lay hands on me and for me to instantaneously jump out of bed, fully healed, and run laps of praise around the hospital. Alas, although many people did pray for me, there was no instantaneous miracle. If I wanted to be able to move my knee again, I was going to have to go through the process of healing. Little did I realize how much I would have to suffer to be able to experience healing.
I don’t have the words to express the pain involved in breaking up the scar tissue at a cellular level in my knee and learning to walk, run, and yes, even ski again. The physical therapy required to prevent a collection of tough, fibrous tissue from interfering with my mobility involved repeated stretching, strategic exercises, and other treatments, to the point I thought I couldn’t bear it. Every move was excruciating, the recovery long, but the results in ensuring a great quality of life in my second half was more than worth it.
Could God have intervened and miraculously and instantaneously healed my leg? And delivered me from all my pain? Of course, and I’ve seen God do such miracles in other people’s lives, but in my case, He allowed me to go through a recovery process that involved pain, suffering, and endurance. Looking back, I have rarely felt closer to Him or more dependent upon Him than when I have been in such trying times.
What’s more, it has not only been in the physical realm that I have gone through a process of recovery to find healing and wholeness, but also in the realm of my wounded soul, broken heart, and tormented mind. I come from a background of abandonment, adoption, and sexual abuse. I have carried a lot of spiritual and psychological scar tissue
around in years past because of things that happened to me when I was not even old enough to understand what was happening to me. I have come to understand that because we live in a fallen world, bad things can and do happen to good people. No one can escape the effects of a fallen world. Jesus Himself said that in this world we will have troubles (see John 16:33). He did not say if we have enough faith then we won’t have any trouble; He gave no exemption. Therefore, we should not be surprised that troubles, pain, suffering, and varying degrees of trauma and injustice are part of this life.
The real problem is not that these things are a part of life, but that we do not know how to walk in faith and simultaneously wrestle with profound pain. We often have a faulty belief system that tells us we need to deny, dismiss, or diminish our pain or suffering in order to live victorious, overcoming Christian lives. We often feel like failures because we have tried to declare, decree, and confess victory and freedom with no tangible change in our life or circumstances. We have tried all the formulas, prayed all the prayers, attended all the conferences, sowed all our seed, tried to fake it by faith until we make it, and nothing has seemed to work. Despite our best efforts, we still feel bound, broken, tormented, anxious, distressed, or depressed. We wonder, Where is this abundant life Jesus promised? Where is the victory? Where is the freedom? Where is the joy? Where is the peace? Where is the hope?
I believe the book you are holding in your hands answers such wondering. I believe it will be one of the most important books you are ever going to read. Dr. Chironna masterfully integrates the theological with the psychological as he teaches us how to wrestle with the complexities of the human condition. As he takes us into the journey of Job, we discover that we can accept the mystery of suffering and not be ashamed of our own suffering. And that absolutely any one of us can stand strong in one moment and struggle the next; it is simply part of living in a fallen world. The good news is we can all learn to trust ourselves to the goodness of God, who loves us perfectly, even when the process of sanctification does not always feel good in the moment.
My physical therapist wanted my knee to have full range of motion and for me to be able to do any and all activities, so I had to go through the painful recovery process. Everything in me wanted to avoid the rehabilitation, skip sessions, and be instantly healed, but I had to stick with it, day after day, week after week, and month after month, to be where I am today. I encourage you not to try to run from your pain, ruminate on your past, or fear your future. Do the work, answer the questions at the end of each chapter, sit at the feet of Jesus, and yield to the process of sanctification. It is there you will find healing, wholeness, and freedom. It is there you will be spiritually formed and transformed. It is there you will discover you are truly known, seen, and fully loved. It is there you will experience your belovedness that is only found in Him.
Christine Caine
Acknowledgments
When it comes to writing a book, the task, at least for me, has never been a small undertaking. I am ever grateful for the support of my wife, Ruth, and her encouragement, her prayers, and her willingness to sacrifice her time with me for time with writing. She is a trooper, and after all these years is used to the process. She has exhibited great grace in giving me space to take on this challenge and opportunity, for which I am forever grateful. The dark season I experienced was something she had to endure with me, all while we learned