"The Paraplegic" Son of a Preacher Man: Book 2

By Owen Buckley Sr.

A PART OF THE “BROKEN LIFE STORY” OF, OWEN K BUCKLEY Sr. A PARAPLEGIC BOY Of “GOBAY, ST. Catherine”, Louisana & Waterston & Windsor Castle, in St. Mary. The Sad, bright face Son of Cecil Adanajah Buckley Sr. an Ordain Minister & Tax Collector, a Pastor, a Farmer and a Shoemaker. A man who bear many marital dissatisfactions but never walk away from his family.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Xlibris US
• Release date: Apr 24, 2022
• ISBN: 9781984584410

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PART ONE. 1

IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST of NAZARETH, BECOME ALIVE.

1. WITH THE MANY SINGLE, MEDIUM, DUBBLE & SOMETIMES, TRIPPLE CURVES OF THIS LIFE. SOME WE WALK AROUND, DRIVE OR RUN AROUND. HOWEVER, AT THE 1st time that we get into a car and sit into the driver seat, turn on the engine and start driving at the same location that we always walk, we recognize that Curves are enormously, comparing to how and where the curve is, what we are in and how we negotiate, curves. SOME, WE NEVER KNOW WAS SO NEAR TO THE STRAIGHT AND NORROW:

NOTE: For education, a method of distributing students’ grades by plotting each person’s score on a graph and then dividing the lines into grades.

2nd. BEND transitive verb to adapt or interpret something in a way that was not originally intended, especially for personal benefit or to help somebody else.

Is bending for a friend always pays the best dividend? Are all bending, untrue? Always? Are all bending of the facts, lying? Is bending, something that we will have to do?

SO, PICTURES THAT MEANS ALOT TO ME, MORE THAN WORDS.

FROM THE QUESTIONS of PERSONAL RECORDS. Why? Because, written words can means nothing to some, to some it can be a weapon, but can be of the greatest help to others. Also, true words about us, are us. A true word about me is JUST me.

TO, HOURLY AUNTING, DAILY GOOD & BAD MEMORIES of SOME LIKE, KEN-ROY or TEN-ROY GILZINE of WHITE PLAIN, IN GOBAY, St. CATHRINE, JAMAICA. I DID NOT KNOW HIS REAL NAME IN BERRY HILL, PRIMERY SCHOOL, BUT I REMEMBER HIS IMPEDIMENT of & HIS NICK-NAME, of WATER-MOUTH-BOY. HE WAS A GILZINE, A LITTLE BROWN SKIN AND MAMA LOVE ALL GILZINES & PAPA COMENCATED THE BOY’S FAMILY BY BUYING GOAT MILK FROM THEM. GILZENE WHO HAVE A STRONG VOICE AT AGE 10 WOULD COME NEAR ME & EXPRESS HIS NEGITIVE FEELINGS & I WOULD DO THE SAME BY SOFTLY, SAYING, WATER-MOUTH-BOY, BUT WE WERE FAMILY & FRIENDS.

THEN I ASK MYSELF, WHAT IS THE REASONS FOR KEEPING SOME MEMORIES?

FOR SOME, I DO NOT KNOW.

HOWEVER, FOR THIS I KNOW & STRONGLY REMEMBER.

KJV. ABHRAM WAS HUMBLE: I WANTED TO BE.

GENESIS 13 V 8. A PLEA TO, LOT

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE. CAN YOU HELP ME?

LET THERE BE NO STRIFE, I BEG YOU, BETWEEN ME AND YOU, AND BETWEEN MY HEARDS MEN, AND THY HERDS MEN, BECAUSE, WE ARE BETHRENS

WRITTEN AND EDITED"

BY: OWEN K. BUCKLEY, Sr

THE PARAPLEGIC SON OF A PREACHER MAN.

MY LOVING FATHER WAS: A PASTOR, FARMER, SHOEMAKER, CARPENTER,

NOT-REPUBLICAN, BUT, PUBLICAN or TAX-COLLECTOR.

NOTE: Genesis 13:8-9 (KJV), But Abraham said unto Lot, his nephew, Boy, let there be no strife, I prayed thee, between, me and thee, and between, my herdsmen, and thy herdsmen, Because, we are brethren. Family, "is not the whole land before thee? Separate thyself.

But in my 62 years + of life, I only hear 2 individuals used that scripture. The first was my pastor father, Pastor Cecil Neman Adanijah Buckley Sr, and Principal, Head teacher, husband and Father, Mr. Hextall. They both made emphasis on these 2 words SEPARATE, THYSELF separating is easy but thyself, is hard. Many times we separate from things but thyself stays there. We separate from husband and we are still there. We separate from Wife but are still connected somewhat. Separated from children, but are hitched someplace.

It is totally impossible to SEPARATE, WITHOUT PUTTING YOURSELF TOTAL INTO THE ACTION. Because both words are DOING-WORD and ACTION-WORD. There is no way, that I would be around, anywhere near LOCATION BLOSSOM-WAY" on Friday, October 18, 2019 at 12:39 PM. THINK ABOUT IT IN MANY DIFFERENT AREANERS: SEPARTE YOURSELF, FROM HIM, FROM THEM, FROM HER, FROM THERE, FROM MOTHER, FROM FATHER, FROM CHILDREN, FROM GRAND CHILDREN, FROM UNCLE, FROM AUNT, TROM COUSIN, FROM UNCLE FROM IN-LAWS.

It is not easy to separate-yourself and GOD KNOWS THAT, THAT IS THE SOLE REASON WHY GOD BECAME JESUS CHRIST, SO THAT HE COULD HELP US TO SEPARATE OURSELVES FROM SIN.

The separated bodies have become visible distant in one way or the other in the sight of God.

All things that are separated are individually seen.

On the day of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, the dead individually walk separately, the streets and were seen.

Separate thyself, bring to life the scripture that says, HE ARE IN THIS WORLD BUT NOT OF THIS WORLD.

Or, I can see you in this world walking with them and talking with them but you do things different from them.

Show me your friends and I will know who you are not even perfectly accurate in all taught, neither.

I walk with her to school but she is not my friend. She walks with him to church but he is not her friend.

I SLEEP WITH HER AT NIGHT BUT IAM AFRAID TO TOUCH HER BECAUSE THE KIND OF FRIEND THAT SHE HAD IN THE PASS, THAT, DEAR ME TO PUT MY HAND ON HER AND WHEN I DID SOFTLY, SHE CALL THE VINCENNES POLICE DEPARTMENT TO REMOVE ME OUT OF THE HOUSE. DO NOT GIVE ME A WARRANT; DO NOT PUT A RESTRANING WARRANT ON ME. JUST TELL ME NOT TO COME BACK UNTIL SUCH TIME. IN THE TIME AWAY I CAN GO AND BE WITH WHOM I WANT TO BE WITH, SHE DOES NOT CARE". THANK GOD FOR A PASTOR SIMMONDS OF THE TERRY HAUTE LOCATION.

This is special:

1. Some truth can be reveal softly.

2. You that keep your mouth shut will sometimes keep lives.

3. The loss or gain of some family members or friends life, matters.

4. To some we mean a lot.

5. To some we are kings, to others we are like the chaff to the wind.

6. To others we mean nothing.

7. Some perfectly right truth takes life.

8. But a soft answer will and can turn away wrath.

9. In other words, "you tell the truth and others kill you for doing so.

10. Because you know it does not mean that you must tell it.

11. Not all truths are happy truths.

12. Not all truth telling moment is of rejoicing moments.

13. Note-my mother-in-law love me.

14. Note-my mother in-law did not love her daughter

that in-law twin" because mama had many more.

15. "Note-my mother-in-law did not love the twin daughters.

16. Neither did my wife love her mother.

17. Neither did my wife twin sister love her mother.

18. It became clear to me when the oldest sister that was living in

Connecticut send a packed barrel to Jamaica in the mid 80s.

19. The sharing was causing big problem

20. Because my mother-in-law taught that she is

the mother of the sender and the twin, also.

21. I should have the right to share.

22. Mother cried and claims that it is the last time for the twins.

23. The will not get the time to do bad to her again.

24. Mother claim that she is about to die.

25. That did swing my heart to the mother for she starts crying.

26. I must confess that what mama said was dirty.

27. It was a part of what my wife said 15 days after marriage.

28. That was from my wife lips but she chuckles on her words.

29. To hear mother said it openly, make a difference.

30. Up until the argument over the barrel, I was questioning.

31. My questioning was strong and heart breaking.

32. I would use the question to hurt her feelings.

33. Like this, with you foaming and saying, papa get off me.

34. Could you have spoken clearer so that I could understand?

35. Did you just want to confuse me?

36. So, "can you be clear about your stammering lips now?

37. Do you think that was enough to marry to you for?

38. Is that the reason why you are afraid to have sex with me?

NOTE: One night stand is a term that I came across in the late 70es. I did not know that I would end up with less than a once in a BLUEMOON THEN IT WENT TO, YOU CANNOT MANAGE THIS TO, CHAMPION-BATING TO, YOU ARE TOO STRONG FOR ME AND THE LAST TIME I GIVE IT TO YOU, YOU BRUSE UP MY LITTLE SOMETHING TO, I AM NOT TAKING OFF MY CLOTHES BECAUSE THAT CANNOT EVEN STAND UP AND THAT IS NOT TRUE OR AS HER BIG BROTHER TOLD HER, THAT ALL I HAVE NOW IS JUST FLOWERS".

NOTE, REPEATING, NOT PROUD, DISOPOINTED: We saw each other at Church at nights and she was the teacher at a basic School that operated out of the church at 35 West Avenue and we speak of liking each other. Our Pastor called us out and tell us to go see my father who was an Ordain Minister 50 miles away. The first question that my father ask the little nice young woman that I carry home to him was, DO YOU LOVE OWEN, SHE SAY YES, ELDER. WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT HIM? PAPA ASK AGAIN. DID YOU LOOK HIM OVER, VERY GOOD? SHE SAID YES. PAPA ASK AGAIN, DID YOU LOOK HIM OVER, GOOD? SHE SAID, YES ELDER, I HEARD THE STORY ABOUT HIM HAVING POILIOMYLITIZE BUT THAT IS OKEY. I LOVE HIM. NOTE: THAT SATURDAY NIGHT WE WENT TO BED IN DIFFERENT ROOMS AND BEFORE THE DAY BTEAK, WHILE I WAS ½ WAY TO THE ROOM THAT MY WIFE TO BE WAS, I HEARD, "THE VOICE OF MY MOTHER, ON THE TOP OF HER VOICE, SPEAKING IN OTHER-TOUNGUE AND I RUN BACK TO MY ROOM, FASTER THAN THE WAY OR SPEED THAN I USE TO GET TO THE OTHER DOOR OF THE ROOM THAT MY EXPECTED WIFE WAS SLEEPING. NOTE. I LAYDOWN IN MY COUNTRY BED AS MAMA SPEAK A LOT OF THINGS OVER MY EXPECTED WIFE AND I HAD MANY, MANY QUESTIONS. NOTE. AT 21 YEARS OLD AT THE TIME, I WAS A VERGIN AND IF I WAS ABLE TO REACH MY EXPECTED WIFE BEDROOM, CHANCES ARE THAT I MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO DO GREAT-JUSTICE TO THE YOUNG WOMANS BODY.

NOTE HAPPINESS: On July 8, 1978, I got married to a twin and within 15 days and night I was crying and trying to get to the other ½ of the twin. I got the answer I wanted when one day the better or sexier walker of the twin said to me, Mr Owen Buckley, we know what we both want and the time is now and make me feel like a man towards her but 2 times was enough for us, there I had to go back to training. Then I started teaching as a Falling and repented minister and had a change of heart for those that I had to deal with regarding sexual situations and although she is the only female in the world that give the most aches to me, I still love her most of all the other women. NOTE: On the 1st night of us going to bed, she discovered that my left hand was smaller than the right hand and she strip me down and became satisfied and I am sure that she take me to Mars and back. NOTE. FIFTEEN DAYS LATER SHE went into another world. A distance that frightens me. Yes, from the Shores of the Gun Boat Beach. Looking towards the hills of, THE WARRICKA HILLS I WATCH THE SWTEET WIFE THAT I MARRY, STARE ME IN THE EYES AND SAY, OWEN, I AM GOING TO GO BECAUSE WHILE I WAS SITTING HERE ON THE SAND, I JUST REMEMBER WHEN MY BROTHER PUT ME ON HIS NECK AND WALK ME INTO THE DEEP AND WHILE I WAS ON HIS SHOULDER HE WENT OUT FROM UNDER ME AND I START DROWNING AND HAD TO BE RESCUED BY A SWIMMER THAT WAS NEAR BYE. AFTER SHE WAS ALLOWED TO MAKE HER STORY TO ME I TRIED COMFORTING HER BUT SHE BECAME STRONGER WITH THE VOICE AND I WAS VERY AFRAID AND ASHAME. SHE CONTINUED, WHEN YOU COME HOME, I WILL NOT BE HOME BECAUSE I AM GOING TO AUNT GURTY HOUSE AND I AM NOT SURE IF SHE WANTS YOU THERE. SHE THEN BREAK OUT WITH A DIFFERENT KIND OF SMILE ON HER FACE. I DID NOT LET HER KNOW THAT HER SMILE AND DESETION TO LEAVE ME AT THE GUN BOAT BEACH, 3 WEEKS AFTER OUR MARRAGE, WHILE THE SOUND OF ALL OF THE JAMAICA FESTIVAL SONG COMPITETION WAS JUST AS IF, WALKING ACROSS THE JAMAICAN BEACH AND MAYBE IF YOU HAD LOOK ON MY HEAD AT THE TIME, WHILE THEY WERE TROWING OUT THE MUSIC OF ERICK DONNOLDSON, #1 OH CHERRY OH CHERRY OH BABY, DON’T YOU KNOW I’M IN LOVE WITH YOU AND #2. PLAY THE MUSIC, PLAY THE MUSIC, JUMP LIKE LEGO BEAST, DRINK THE WATER, LOVE THE DAUGHTER. THE MUSIC WAS SWEET TO LISTEN AND EARS BUT I COULD ONLY SIT IN THE 12:00 NOON SUN WHILE I TAP MY FOOT AND WATCH MY 3 WEEKS OLD MARRIAGED WIFE, WALK OUT AND AWAY FROM ME I WANT HER BACK. I TRIED TO GET HER BACK. I LOVE HER AND THE 4 CHILDREN AND 10 GRANDCHILDREN, SHE GAVE ME. MY FINAL CALL, BABY COMEBACK".

NOTE-. BY AUGUST OF 1978, JUST A MONTH AFTER WE GOT MARRY, MY WIFE WAS SAYING TO ME, I DO NOT KNOW THAT YOU EXPECT FROM ME SO OFTEN, I AM NOT DOING IT WITH YOU AS OFTEN AS YOU WANT IT, FOR I AM WONDERING WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF I GET SICK DOWN.

BOOD-SWET & SAD TEARS. It makes me sad. It make me MAD. I became Angry. I was BLUE. I saw BLOOD, in what I put down and afraid to look in what I put down for the rest of the week because I was afraid. Thank GOD THAT, my examination after 7 days, show that MAN CAN ALSO HAVE ISSUE OF BLOOD, PER BIBLE. When I was living in Jamaica and my mother-in-law, had an Operation and lay down on her back in the, SPANISH-TOWN HOSPITAL, NONE OF THE CHILDREN, INCLUDING MY WIFE. Never saw it fit to carry a morsel of food for Mother, Hazel a kind hearted Daughter, was migrated. I was the only that make it my duty to leave WORK Early, while working for the AZANS’S on Princess Street in Down Town Kingston, Jamaica, fix a meal for my Mother-in-law, then walk out of the back door, TO A BUS GOING TOWARDS SPANISH TOWN & GET OFF AT THE HOSPITAL GATE & GET OFF THEN WALK RIGHT INTO THE HOSPITAL. NONE OF THEM