Angry Dads Make Angry Children: 1, #3

By Carl Williams

This book demonstrates the critical function of the angry father in raising angry children. When your emotions are raging, and your first inclination is to rip your hair out, that is ANGER. Fathers should understand that using anger to control and discipline their children is not only counterproductive, but it may result in future damage. And, in the future, the day will come when you will perceive your child as a mirror image of your adolescent self – "A Young Angry Man/Women".

All we want to communicate is what's really best for them, and we can assure you that anger is not the way to go. Through the essays and experiences in this book, you'll soon understand that there are several alternatives to anger that may not only put an end to outbursts and mental breakdowns but also help you connect with your child.

As a parent, I am well aware that "Parenting is difficult." Discover ways to make life easy for both you and your child. After all, it is your beloved child, and you want the best for him/her.

Learn how to provide them with the greatest possible shot at life.

Learn how to raise your children to be healthy, happy, and self-assured

Firstly, should know that "Everything begins with you." All of this begins with your ability to control your emotions and your child if you're ready to break the cycle of shouting and learn a new way to better parent, free from anger so, just read this incredible book for all the answers.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Carl Williams
• Release date: Feb 18, 2022
• ISBN: 9798201716035

Carl Williams

Carl Williams was born and raised in London, United Kingdom. Carl has always felt a special bond with his children, in fact, they are the reason he began exploring a career in writing. Not only is he able to learn and teach himself, he now has the resources and talents to advise other parents in this ever-changing crazy world. His true passion for writing stems from his children and the lack of representation of them in books and also to reach out and educate parents. Carl is currently writing a series of children’s and Adult educational books; he is a proud father and spends what little free time he can find writing. You can follow Carl @Williamspublication on Facebook & Instagram Or check out his book: Parent Not Perpetrator

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Angry Dads Make Angry Children

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Angry Dads Make Angry Children

Written By Carl Williams

Table of Contents

INTRODUCTION

BASICS OF ANGER

ANGER AND PARENTS

ANGRY PARENTS AFFECT A CHILD

EXAMPLES OF PARENTS ANGER: A NEGATIVE IMPACT ON THE CHILD

COMMON CHILD DISCIPLINE MISTAKES FATHERS MAKE

CHILD DISCIPLINE

EFFECTS OF YELLING AT YOUR KIDS

FATHERS INFLUENCE CHILD DEVELOPMENT

FATHER'S ANGER OR DEPRESSION MAY RAISE KIDS' RISK OF EMOTIONAL PROBLEMS

WHY THERE ARE SO MANY ANGRY DADS?

ANGRY FATHER MAKES ANGRY CHILD

MY ANGRY DAD AND ME (Based on Adrian King)

CONCLUSION

INTRODUCTION

One of the most serious issues in this age of failure to launch is the angry father. He can't help himself, yet his wrath exacerbates the situation. Criticism just serves to exacerbate the child's immobility. To make matters worse, Mom tries to mitigate the blow by being more understanding. This enrages the father even more, and he hardens even more. When parents divorce, they cancel each other out and lose their adult influence.

Angry resistance may also be linked to feelings of reliance, and anger may be linked to melancholy and despair. Anger and melancholy are inextricably linked in childhood. It is crucial to remember that much of what an adult express as melancholy is frequently communicated by a youngster as anger.

In general, harsh parenting employs techniques like aggression, loud voices, guilt trips, shaming, and accusing. However, a new study indicates that, while these approaches may appear to work in the short term to improve children's behaviour, the long-term implications are just not worth it. Harsh verbal discipline generates a shame spiral, which harms self-esteem and strains the parent-child connection.

What exactly is anger? Why is it that the father is generally enraged? What effect does an angry father have on a child? What effect does a father have on a child's development? How does a parent impact his child's emotional behaviour? Much more is addressed in this book, along with some solutions and motivational narratives.

BASICS OF ANGER

Anger is a fundamental human emotion, much like pleasure, sorrow, worry, or contempt. These emotions are linked to fundamental survival and have been developed throughout human history.

Anger is associated with the sympathetic nervous system's fight, flight, or freeze reaction; it prepares humans to battle. Fighting, on the other hand, does not always entail throwing punches. It may inspire communities to fight injustice by enacting new laws or enforcing new norms.

Of course, if anger is used excessively or regularly, it can strain relationships and harm one's physical health in the long run. Prolonged production of stress chemicals linked with rage can kill neurons in brain regions related to judgment and short-term memory, as well as impair the immune system.

Learning skills to identify and handle this powerful emotion may lead to growth and transformation for people who deal with chronic anger or who just have occasional outbursts.

What causes anger?

The mystery of why some people brush off annoyances while others erupt in wrath is interesting. One model of anger proposed by psychologist Jerry Deffenbacher contends that anger is caused by a combination of the trigger event, the individual's characteristics, and the individual's assessment of the circumstance.

The incident that causes anger, such as getting cut off in traffic or being screamed at, is referred to as the trigger. Individual characteristics include narcissism, competitiveness, and a low tolerance for frustration, as well as pre-anger symptoms such as nervousness or weariness. Perhaps the most crucial aspect is cognitive appraisal—classifying a situation as blameworthy, unreasonable, punitive, and so on. The interaction of these elements influences whether and why individuals become angry.

Trigger event

To begin, consider the most basic component of this formula: the trigger event. There is usually some type of occurrence that occurs immediately before someone becomes furious, which serves as the trigger (e.g., being cut off in traffic, being insulted by a coworker). Typically, individuals believe that these occurrences are the source of their rage, and they say things like, I became upset because the motorist in front of me cut me off or that person made me so mad. The suggestion is that the events directly triggered their anger, and there were no other mitigating circumstances. Of