A Stay at Home Dad’s Guide to Raising Extraordinary Kids
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This book make sure that parents always keep in mind that Mothers and Fathers shape the future of the world, because they shape their children.
Dr. Jon Kester
Dr. Jon Kester is a highly-established teacher, author, and a strong advocate for family values. He is well known for his “Stay at Home Dads Guide” book series and lectures based on parenting strategies. His passion for parenting comes from the fact that he is a single full time dad with three amazing children. Dr. Kester has spent copious hours finding a variety of different activist that his kids can do in order to help them grow, develop, and most importantly have fun on a daily basis. Dr. Jon Kester loves to share his parenting experiences with the world though his writing of books and articles and plans to continue helping fellow parents any way he can. “Call me crazy but I like to see other families happy and succeeding. Always keep in mind that life is a journey, not a competition.” –Dr. Jon Kester
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A Stay at Home Dad’s Guide to Raising Extraordinary Kids - Dr. Jon Kester
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Published by AuthorHouse 01/06/2022
ISBN: 978-1-6655-4859-5 (sc)
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Library of Congress Control Number: 2022900344
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DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to my parents who still to this day
are devoted to helping me be an extraordinary person.
CONTENTS
Chapter 1 January
Chapter 2 February
Chapter 3 March
Chapter 4 April
Chapter 5 May
Chapter 6 June
Chapter 7 July
Chapter 8 August
Chapter 9 September
Chapter 10 October
Chapter 11 November
Chapter 12 December
Final Thoughts
Bonus
Bibliography
Congratulations to all the men and women out there who are blessed to be called parents and who take the time to care about how their children grow up. There is no greater privilege in life than bringing a tiny new human into this world and then trying to raise him or her properly during their childhood. Being a parent means to raise a child with the utmost love and passion so they can have a successful life. Parents must take into account that raising extraordinary kids requires all the intelligence, wisdom, and determination they will be able to muster.
This book will help you become a wiser, more determined parent with the easy to follow month by month parenting plan. A solid, intact parenting strategy will have a significantly positive impact on a child’s present and future wellbeing and offers countless benefits for both parents and children. In fact children who grow up in homes where parents have strategies for success are less likely to experience a wide range of problems (academic, social, emotional, cognitive), not only in childhood but later on in adulthood as well (Amato; Howard & Reeves 2018,). In families with parenting strategies, children typically have access to more of the economic and community resources because parents are able to pool their time, money and energy; children tend to be more of the focus of the home.
Children living with a mom and dad who have parenting strategies are more often involved in community activities, take part in academic pursuits in local schools and other academic institutions that can lead to college, and eventually, a career. Children with parents who strive for them to be extraordinary with a plan have the highest high school and college graduation rates, as well as high employment rates according to a study by Harvard University. Being raised in a family where parents are directly involved in the child’s life reduced a child’s probability of living in poverty by about 82 percent. (2018 PEW Research)
In order for parents to see our kids become extraordinary we must be involved and have a plan. Remember being an involved parent takes time and is hard work, and it often means rethinking and rearranging our priorities. It frequently means sacrificing what you want to do for what your child needs to do. We must be there for our children both mentally as well as physically.
Being involved in your kid’s life has many rewards—memories, great conversations, a deeper relationship with your child and the chance to watch your child grow into a healthy, responsible adult. Keep in mind that the more involved you are, the more valued your kids feel, and the more likely they’ll be to respond to you.
One of the biggest challenges facing parents when it comes to being more involved with their child is figuring out how. The involvement can take many forms which all will be discussed in the upcoming chapters in this book. Parental actions such as being a role model, instilling good habits, being consistent in discipline, and building good relationships. This can be done by taking quality time out of our day to nurture your relationship with the children in your life with both grace and love. The key for this books success is being able to spend quality time with your kids. What is quality time? As long as you as a parent are communicating with your child in an upbeat and useful way, you are spending quality time with them. Just being in the same room as your children doesn’t count. Here are some helpful ways to increase the amount of quality time you share with your child:
Establish together time.
Establish a regular weekly routine of doing something special with your child. Going out for a walk, getting some ice cream, or even having a conversation while you’re cleaning up after dinner can help you open your lines of communication. This is essential to raising extraordinary children.
Have regular family meetings.
Family meetings provide a useful forum for sharing triumphs, complaints, projects and any other topics with each other. Establish some ground rules, such as everyone gets a chance to talk without interruption, and only constructive feedback is allowed. To get resistant children to join in, try using incentives like post-meeting ice cream.
Eat meals together as often as you can.
Family meal time provides a great opportunity to talk about the day’s events, to unwind, reinforce and bond with your kids. Studies show again and again the significant, measurable scientific proof about the positive, lifelong benefits of family meals. Family meals nourish the spirit, brain and health of all family members. Regular family meals are linked to higher grades and self-esteem. Children who grow up sharing family meals are more likely to exhibit prosocial behavior as adults, such as sharing, fairness and respect. According to a Harvard University study (2018), with each additional family meal shared each week, adolescents are less likely to show symptoms of violence, depression and suicide, less likely to use or abuse drugs or run away, and less likely to engage in risky behavior or delinquent acts. Also both adults and children who eat at home more regularly are less likely to suffer from obesity.
Once you have the basic ideas of how to spend quality time with your children you are ready to take the next step of adding a specific parenting plan into your daily life. This book when used properly will be an amazing stepping stone into having extraordinary kids.
How to use this book
If you wish to get the most out of this book, there is one indispensable requirement and that to have a deep, driving desire to raise extraordinary kids and vigorous determination to increase your ability to parent.
This book is written with a plan for raising extraordinary kids on a monthly basis. I encourage you to read each month rapidly at first to get a bird’s eye view of the concepts and then go back and reread each section thoroughly each month and apply one or two of the concepts from the chapter to your family. Be sure to stop frequently in your reading to think over what you are reading. Ask yourself just how and when you can apply each concept to your parenting.
Read this book with a pencil, pen, magic marker, or crayon in your hand. When you come across an idea that you feel you can use, circle it or make a note by it. It is perfectly fine to write ideas down on this book or underline important sentences.
If you want to get a real, lasting benefit out of this book don’t imagine that skimming through it once will suffice. After reading thoroughly, you ought to spend some time reviewing it every month. Remember that the use of these concepts can be made habitual only by a constant and vigorous review and application.
We as parents must also remember that learning is an active process. We learn by doing. So, if you desire to be a better parent and raise extraordinary kids then you must apply the concepts from this book every opportunity that you get. If you don’t you will forget them quickly and nothing will be improved in your child’s life. It’s important to understand that attempting new ideas in your family’s lifestyle will require time and persistence and daily application. Remember that understanding the role of a parent takes time. Every person has the potential to be a great parent. It does not come overnight. Also when considering the responsibilities of parenting, it’s important to remember that no one is perfect. We are all human and, at times, we do make mistakes. But the important thing to teach is: we can learn by our mistakes and try to avoid making the same mistakes over-and-over again. Remember that "Parenting is not a challenge to be solved, but a reality to be experienced"
CHAPTER 1
JANUARY
"It is easier to build strong children than to
repair broken men." – Frederick Douglass
The month of January is all about a fresh start