The Primacy of Love
By Ilia Delio
5/5
()
About this ebook
In an age of anxiety where reason is deified, what is the role of love? This short book centralizes love as the core reality of all cosmic life. From the cosmological to the theological dimensions of existence, love is shown to be the irresistible force of attraction that leads straight into the heart of God. The book is divided into three short chapters based on a metaphysics of love: we are born out of divine love, we exist in love, and we are oriented toward the fullness of love. In a world of evolutionary convergence and global consciousness, love may be the singular ethic that binds us together, heals our wounds and draws us into a new unity of planetary life.
In the My Theology series, the world’s leading Christian thinkers explain some of the principal tenets of their theological beliefs in concise, pocket-sized books.
Read more from Ilia Delio
Franciscan Prayer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Tao of Thomas Aquinas: Fierce Wisdom for Hard Times Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCare for Creation: A Franciscan Spirituality of the Earth Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5(R)evolutionary Hope: A Spirituality of Encounter and Engagement in an Evolving World Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBecome Conscious of Wholeness: Humanity's Only Future Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Related to The Primacy of Love
Titles in the series (15)
The Word within the Words Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Corner of Fourth and Nondual Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Return from a Distant Country Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Primacy of Love Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Spirit Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsForgiveness and Reparation, the Healing Journey Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Audacity of Peace Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSpectres of God Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDuppy Conqueror Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAn Evolving God, An Evolving Purpose, An Evolving World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Serendipity of Life's Encounters Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFinding God in the Universe Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Walking with Jesus in Strange Places Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPersonal Idealism Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBatman Is Jesus Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Related ebooks
Presence and Encounter: The Sacramental Possibilities of Everyday Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The Awakened Heart Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Choosing to Love the World: On Contemplation Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5A Spirituality Named Compassion: Uniting Mystical Awareness with Social Justice Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Corner of Fourth and Nondual Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Camping with Kierkegaard Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsMerton's Palace of Nowhere Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Julian of Norwich: The Showings: Uncovering the Face of the Feminine in Revelations of Divine Love Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSpectres of God Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsImmortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Radical Optimism: Practical Spirituality in an Uncertain World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Eager to Love: The Alternative Way of Francis of Assisi Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Future of Wisdom: Toward a Rebirth of Sapiential Christianity Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Things Hidden: Scripture as Spirituality Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Song of the Seed: The Monastic Way of Tending the Soul Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Wisdom of Wild Grace: Poems Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCloud of the Impossible: Negative Theology and Planetary Entanglement Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Paschal Paradox: Reflections on a Life of Spiritual Evolution Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCeltic Benediction: Morning and Night Prayer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Being Christian: Baptism, Bible, Eucharist, Prayer Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Practical Mysticism Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A New Silence: Spiritual Practices and Formation for the Monk Within Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Forgiveness and Reparation, the Healing Journey Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsPraying with the Earth: A Prayerbook for Peace Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDeep is the Hunger: Meditations for Apostles of Sensitiveness Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAn Evolving God, An Evolving Purpose, An Evolving World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Being Human: Bodies, Minds, Persons Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA New Harmony: The Spirit, The Earth and the Human Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Cloud of Unknowing, Distilled Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Mystic in You: Discovering a God-Filled World Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Christianity For You
Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-Ending Battle with Stuff Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mere Christianity Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Less Fret, More Faith: An 11-Week Action Plan to Overcome Anxiety Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Screwtape Letters Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Wild at Heart Expanded Edition: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Story: The Bible as One Continuing Story of God and His People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Grief Observed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Winning the War in Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Law of Connection: Lesson 10 from The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Book of Enoch Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Bible Recap: A One-Year Guide to Reading and Understanding the Entire Bible Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Boundaries Workbook: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Undistracted: Capture Your Purpose. Rediscover Your Joy. Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Don't Give the Enemy a Seat at Your Table: It's Time to Win the Battle of Your Mind... Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5NIV, Holy Bible Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for The Primacy of Love
1 rating0 reviews
Book preview
The Primacy of Love - Ilia Delio
Introduction
WHAT IS LOVE? I was once asked this question by someone who was married for over fifty years. I was startled by the question since everyone knows what love is – or do we? I assumed that after fifty years of marriage my questioner would have had some inkling of love, so I proceeded to give the definition of the medieval Platonists: love is the highest good that goes out to the other for the sake of the other. Love transforms because love unites. My definition, however, left a certain emptiness and longing for a deeper meaning of love. My abstract philosophical answer simply did not get to the heart of the question: What is love?
The inspiration for this book comes from the Spanish mystic, Ramón Lull, whose words written in the thirteenth century, continue to illuminate the mystery of God in the twenty-first century:
The lover was asked to whom he belonged.
He answered, ‘To love.’
‘What are you made of?’ ‘Of love.’
‘Who gave birth to you?’ ‘Love.’
‘Where were you born?’ ‘In love.’
‘Who brought you up?’ ‘Love.’
‘How do you live?’ ‘By love.’
‘What is your name?’ ‘Love.’
‘Where do you come from?’ ‘From love.’
‘Where are you going?’ ‘To love.’
‘Where are you now?’ ‘In love.’
‘Have you anything other than love?’
‘Yes, I have faults and wrongs against my beloved.’
‘Is there pardon in your beloved?’
The lover said that in his beloved were mercy and justice,
and that he therefore lived between fear and hope.[1]
I have pondered these words for years because I, like many others, thought of love simply as an emotion, helpful but not essential. For a long time, I thought that love was a nuisance, prickly and flimsy. I had a platonic notion of divine love and tried to minimize human love in order to avoid the pain of love. As I move now into the late afternoon of life, I realize that Blaise Pascal had it right: the heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of, for the mind can be deceived what the heart does not know. One cannot live on reason alone but on every act of love that flows through the human heart into the heart of the world.
This little book, therefore, is about love in its many dimensions and its ineffable depths, for love is an irresistible ocean of attraction whose infinite goodness leads into the heart of God.
¹Lull, Ramón, The Book of the Lover and the Beloved, trans. E. Allison Peers. https://www.yorku.ca/inpar/lull_lover_peers.pdf↵
1
Created Out of Love
Types of Love
Years ago, the Swedish theologian Anders Nygen wrote a book called Agape and Eros which helped distinguish types of love found in Scripture. Agapic love, he said, is unconditional, spontaneous or unmotivated love, indifferent to any type or reward or reciprocity and opposed to what can be called ‘self-love.’ When the Franciscan priest Maximilian Kolbe offered his life on behalf of a fellow prisoner, he showed the power of agapic love. Agape is a person’s ‘self-giving’ or a person’s spending oneself freely and carelessly for the other person, the unconditional willing of the good. Eros, on the other hand, reflects desire and longing.[2] Edward Vacek defines eros as ‘loving the beloved for our own sake.’[3] Eros is that ineffable longing, a deep, aching desire, not in contrast to agape but in relation to it; it is a stretching of the