The Hidden Secret For A Successful And Happy Marriage Life

By John Olsen

Let's face it.

Marriage is a big decision. Since it is a long term commitment, there are certainly many factors to consider.
After mediating many divorcing couples, it is now my aim to help couples create marriages where divorce is simply not an option.

In this book, we are going to cover key areas for marriage success which some of them are listed below.
• Communication
• Sex and intimacy
• Resolving conflicts?
• Finances
• Vision for your marriage
• Dealing with the past
• Romance and demonstrating love.

This book will equip you with sustainable techniques to navigate the ever-changing journey of marriage.

You will have the basic skills to resolve conflicts.

You will have communication techniques to take your relationship to the next level.

You will know how to demonstrate love in a way that your partner will understand and appreciate.
This book will also provide you with other relevant marriage tips, marriage advice, and it is not only restricted to married couples but those considering matrimony as well.
Some other concerns that are addressed are marriage compatibility issues dealing with finance or money.
If you are not yet married but considering the wonderful act of matrimony, this is no doubt a very exciting but potentially stressful time for you and your partner.

After going through this book, we hope to relieve some of your doubts and concerns regarding marriage, educate you on some topics you may not have considered, and inspire you to continue to develop your communication with your mate.

If you are already married, congratulations, I have provided you with the resources, tips, and knowledge to not only help you to remain and maintain a successful marriage but also give you answers, advice and suggestions if you are having some challenges in your marriage.
If you really want to intend to maintain and remain in a Successful marriage get a copy of this guide now.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Lulu.com
• Release date: Jun 13, 2020
• ISBN: 9781716838842

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Communication

Three As Of Ice Communication

I cover communication first, because it really is the foundation for all successful marriages.

Now, at the beginning of your marriage, is the ideal time to be intentional about creating healthy communication patterns.

I do love to share a story with you about a couple I knew, Sandy and Danny.

Now Sandy and Danny did not have a love life.

They didn't have sex ever.

I'm not talking about an infrequent amount.

Like once a month, I'm talking never.

Sandy and Danny both wanted to have sex with each other.

They just assumed that the other one did not.

They never talked about the lack of sex in their marriage until they eventually went to see a marriage counselor.

The lesson, assumption is the mother of all misunderstandings.

What are my three As for ace communication?

They are acceptance, authenticity, and active listening.

Acceptance means making your marriage a safe haven.

You being completely accepting and empathetic towards your marriage partner.

Only then will they be happy to share with you their deepest fears and concerns.

Empathy means putting yourself into your marriage partner's shoes.

Do this intentionally by repeating back to them how they are feeling at any one point in time.

Also guard your tongue, Alan Redpath said think.

Is it T true,

H helpful.

I, inspiring.

N necessary.

And finally,

K kind?

If it doesn't fit within think then rather do not say it, or re-frame how you say it.

Secondly, be authentic.

Say the truth in the kindest way possible.

Your words and voice only convey part of your message. Your body language, your facial expressions, and the tone of your voice also have to match what you are saying.

Finally active listening.

Ninety eight percent of good communication is listening.

So put your listening ears on! Active listening is a skill that can be learnt.

It is important to listen very carefully to what your partner says, and reflect back to them what you think they said, and how they are feeling.

To conclude my three As for ace communication are one, acceptance, two,