1 The first thing to keep in mind is that you want to go slow and take your time: ● So you don’t mess up (by being reactive).
● Because you want to get the most out of this intimate opportunity to learn more about yourself and your partner.
● You want a resolution that is going to work long-term – a rushed, forced compromise or capitulation won’t get you that.
2 As soon as you realise there’s a significant disagreement, say something that makes it