This Ain’t No Spa!: Creating Self-reliant Citizens Through Radical Strategies In a Discipline Alternative School
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This Ain’t No Spa! - Blake Fitzgerald
This Ain’t
No Spa!
Creating Self-reliant Citizens through
Radical Strategies in a Discipline
Alternative School
BLAKE FITZGERALD
Copyright © 2019 Blake Fitzgerald.
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To my beautiful wife, Kassie. Thank you for the love and support you give me despite my eccentric brain. Part of you is on every page in this book. You are the love of my life.
To my father-in-law, James Wilcox. You opened my eyes to the denial of a quality education for the have-nots. You inspired me to find a better way. By encouraging me, you are now a part of a solution to improve the quality of education for all kids.
And to my uncle, Roy Calma. You are a role model who motivated me to be tenacious, to avoid herd mentality, and to share unconventional ideals in the face of cruel opposition.
Preface
This ain’t no spa
is a slogan that began during my first year of teaching at a discipline alternative school. Several years ago, students would ask for certain freedoms such as wanting to lie on the floor to read, play computer games, get more mustard on their sandwich, and so on. I would not allow it. I reminded them they were in a disciplinary school for a reason. I always finished by saying, This ain’t no spa.
I would smile after saying it. I am not a total jackass. I might even get them more mustard.
At first, everyone laughed at me, but then it caught on with the principal and other teachers. We say it constantly. It is a slogan and appears on shirts and various items. Kids will often say it when beginning a difficult assignment.
I am not a dictator. I develop rapport with each student and really enjoy our interactions. The students are relaxed and take learning seriously. I am fortunate that I do not need a job at this point in life. Enjoying the kids is what keeps me here. I recognize the difference I am making.
However, it is not easy for every teacher. Teaching in a disciplinary school can be grueling and scar a teacher for life. It is heartbreaking where some of these at-risk kids come from. They are products of their reckless environment. The crimes they commit and the jail time served is shocking. We cannot adopt every one of them. We cannot love them enough to fill the void in their lives. Our first instinct is to feel empathetic and want to help, but we cannot let empathy carry over into enabling.
We must keep in mind our long-term goal for these kids. They must abandon their tragic state and thrive on their own. It is up to us to give them the tools to prosper. We must lead by staying out of their way. Our goal should be to help them survive from ages eighteen to eighty-five. Create a self-sufficient citizen.
Once an at-risk kid breaks away from a dreadful life and becomes independent, he starts the ball rolling. His kids will be different. Independence improves the lives of generations that follow. Maybe we cannot change the world, but we can change a legacy.
A reliable system must be in place to maintain order and produce self-reliant adults. In this book, I introduce a radical strategy contrary to traditional methods, and it works! With adaptations, it is applicable in any classroom.
This Ain’t No Spa
A while back, I was driving home after a day of teaching. I was reflecting on the day and recalling the positive interactions I had with students and faculty. I like my job. It is rewarding.
Once home, my wife asked me, Well, how was it today?
Man, what a great day. Schlotzsky’s had sandwiches for a dollar ninety-nine.
"Seriously? That’s your day? No one punched a hole in the wall, threw a chair down the hall, showed up on Who Got Busted, or assaulted a teacher?"
Nope.
At one time, our evening discussions centered on student misbehavior and destruction of the learning process. Now conversations center on the positive change in students’ behavior and quality of work. As a school, we created balance so each class would have similar structure. The other teachers and principal recently adopted my process, and the school is a sanctuary of higher learning