Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys: Real Talk: Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys

By Debby Ng and King Guru

Welcome to Real Talk... This is the second collaboration book with authors King Guru and Debby Ng. This book will lead you through a journey of relationship topics. Starting with a series of individual claps and then culminating with our ten best clapbacks ever! We start off with individual claps on Pretty Girls Loving Bad Boys and themselves and go through beginning, middle, and end of relationship issues. There are some claps to specifically help those of you dealing with incarceration or long-distance romances; however, they all can be applied to any relationship. We would love for this to become interactive with YOU, our readers, so please jump on our blog, IG or YouTube anytime and conversate with us! We live for it! 

Other Books in the series:

Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys

Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys 2

Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys: The Art of MAC'n

Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys: Front Street

• Language: English
• Publisher: Debby Ng
• Release date: Nov 8, 2020
• ISBN: 9781393832072

Debby Ng

I work for Teach for America - it's a beautiful company with a beautiful mission and vision. I am blessed. I did not always have the easiest life when it comes to family and love but life is peaceful now and very fulfilling. I have 3 absolutely beautiful children who helped me to be a better person without them I have no idea where I would be today. I've always been an adventure seeker and wanted to write books about crazy adventures and create characters people could relate to. I love writing and am currently working with Author King Guru on a blog, instagram and youtube. We just published our first book together with more to come.  I love hiking, swimming at the beach and traveling. I hope you enjoy my books and leave a review.

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COVER PAGE SHOUT OUT

Thank you, Krystal.

Krystal Meisel is a professional photographer and book layout, enthusiast. She has worked on countless projects bringing books to life; everything from zines to cookbooks. The best part of a design for her is helping others realize the power of their words through printed media.

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Thank you to our Bad Boys and Pretty Girl on the cover:

Christian Belmont, Kiersten Belmont, Destiny Ng, Braedyn Chong

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Table of Contents

INTRODUCTIONS

★  WHY DO PRETTY GIRLS LIKE BAD BOYS

★  PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS

★  WHERE TO START WITH SELF-LOVE

★  A HEALTHY SELF-CONCEPT WILL HELP YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

BEFORE A RELATIONSHIP

★  DATING SOMEONE WHO IS ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT THEIR EXeS

★  NEVER COMPARE YOUR QUARRY TO AN OLD FLAME

★  IT DOESN'T COST A THING TO KEEP IT REAL!

★  WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM

★  RED FLAGS

★  DEAL-BREAKERS

★  DEFINING RELATIONSHIPS

★  TALKING/DATING

IN A RELATIONSHIP

★  WANTING TO BE WITH SOMEONE VERSUS NEEDING TO BE WITH SOMEONE

★  IS THERE REALLY A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE & IN LOVE?

★  PRETTY GIRLS HATE BEING IGNORED

★  COMMUNICATION

★  WHEN SHOULD YOU POST YOUR RELATIONSHIP STATUS ON FACEBOOK?

★  HOW TO GIVE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM

★  MEN NEED TO LEARN HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH WOMEN IN THE LANGUAGE WOMEN SPEAK

★  WOMEN’S 5 BASIC NEEDS IN A RELATIONSHIP

★  WOMEN SHOULDN’T WORRY ABOUT THEIR MEN WATCHING PORN

★  MARK YOUR CALENDAR

★  MONOGAMY

★  TURNING GOOD GIRLS BAD

★  CHEATING

★  SAFETY AND SECURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP

★  LET'S TALK NUMBERS: FINANCES AND RELATIONSHIPS

★  JUST LET IT GO

★  ENGAGEMENT/MARRIAGE

RELATIONSHIPS W/DISTANCE

★  THE TRUTH ABOUT INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN INCARCERATED MEN AND FREE WOMEN

★  WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH INMATES WANT TO FEEL POSSESSED

★  NEVER LET THE PHONE CALL END WITHOUT RESOLVING YOUR RELATIONSHIP ISSUES WITH AN  INCARCERATED LOVER

★  BEING IN PRISON DOESN'T MEAN YOU CAN'T SET THE MOOD

★  SOMETIMES, IT ONLY TAKES THREE WORDS... I LOVE YOU!

★  SOMETIMES, IT ONLY TAKES THREE WORDS... I LOVE YOU!

★  LONG DISTANCE

★  LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS

★  PICTURES: SEXTING/PHONE SEX/VIDEOS

★  PHONE SEX...

★  DON'T BE AFRAID TO TRY NEW THINGS

★  DON'T TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR POSITION

★  IF YOU GIVE A MOUSE A COOKIE

★  WOMEN USING CHILDREN AS PAWNS

★  HAMSTER CAGE REVISITED...

RELATIONSHIP ISSUES... IS THE END NEAR?

★  NARCISSIST/SOCIOPATH? 

★  GASLIGHTING

★  WOMEN ARE UNABLE TO SEPARATE RECREATIONAL SEX FROM EMOTIONS

★  YOU KNOW WE'LL NEVER MEET

★  IS THERE SUCH A THING AS RELATIONSHIP KARMA?

★  BE THANKFUL FOR THE GOOD TIMES

★  BREAK-UP

CLAPBACKS

Real Talk on Front Street

Don’t Let Boredom Strike In the Relationship

Don’t Let Boredom Strike In the Bedroom

Active Listening and Understanding my POV

Own Your Shit

Gratitude Goes A Long Way

Avoid Absolutes

Let Her Drive

How Long Should You Grieve a Relationship?

Making it Last

Goodbye for Now  —Deb

INTRODUCTIONS

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DEBBY NG:

PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS is a movement and a mood created by King Guru, which I knew when I saw it! I felt the energy from this man’s voice as I read the book. Even though I thought holy shit – this guy is teaching these men how to manipulate these beautiful women who I try to protect – he’s a genius! There are definitely some great men on writeaprisoner (WAP) I am sure and maybe there’s some who are genuinely lonely and have a lot of love to give but there is also a whole group of men who... If you give a mouse a cookie!!

I agree there are women out there who are genuinely interested in using men to heal their broken hearts after traumatizing relationships and reaching out to these lonely men who haven’t felt a woman’s touch in years; however, there are also more women who are giving, caring, and compassionate to the point of getting used and abused again by another man. The mood which is happening is one of mistrust by both parties but the mood we need to create is one of trust and honesty.

So Pretty Girls and Bad Boys that is why we are here! We are here to take this all to Front Street and clear up any and all misconceptions and help everyone get their self-confidence where it needs to be in order to have healthy relationships. We are going to shake this up and get down and dirty with you on any and every subject! Nothings off the table and we will stay 100 always!

I found Guru’s book on Amazon with a friend on a search with my book, it popped up and I thought, Oh my God, this guy is nuts! He is telling guys to do what I am telling chicks not to listen to! I knew I had to find him, and I did! To be honest, I didn’t think he was gonna want to write with me, but I had to ask... If you don’t ask, you’ll never know. So, I asked, straight up on Front Street, and told him what I wanted. He definitely put me through a couple of trust tests, but you know your Pretty Girl passed since here we are writing together now.

Don’t tell him I said this, but I definitely wanted to challenge him and these games he’s running. So please join us in this MOOD we have created... jump in the movement now while it’s fresh and hot and be one of the first to witness this witty banter we have developed in these clapbacks! While you’re waiting for the books we have coming, jump onto our blog page and order our books via the link: www.PrettyGirlslovebadboys.com As soon as you get on the page, a subscribe button will pop-up, stick in your email address and you’ll be among the first to know when our books will drop!

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King Guru:

PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS isn’t just the name of my best-selling book. Pretty Girls is a movement. There’s a whole world of love, seduction, manipulation, and exploitation in prison and everything connected to it. There are women on the street who ride or die with their fallen soldiers. There are guys who wake up every day with nothing else on their mind other than making their Pretty Girls happy. There are also situations that take place here where lines get crossed and secret liaisons take place between captor and prisoner. That’s what this movement is all about. It’s about the love between Pretty Girls and Bad Boys.

At the same time, between lines, there’s a lot of scandalous activities taking place and I’m addressing it. There are females out there reaching in here to exploit the emotional support incarcerated men have to offer. And there are men who actually spend their every waking second trying to figure out how to manipulate women. This movement is about all of that as well.

This PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS movement doesn’t just start and end at the prison gates, either. As a TCB author, I live by the mantra: From The Cell to the Block! Me and Debby keep Front Street convo going regarding every subject that pertains to the Game. If you’re a female who’s rocking with a young thug, tap in with us. The same thing goes for the MAC’s and Players — if you wanna exchange notes with a real Relationship Guru — tap in!!! Get at me ‘cuz I’m gonna keep it 100 on every level!

I met Debby Ng when she tapped into my jpay.com email account. She had written a book called Rocky Relationships where the premise is based on convicts running Game on women. Somehow she had got her hands on my PRETTY GIRLS... book and she felt some type of way. See, my book is about teaching men how to spit fire to sexy women. She won’t admit it, but I know she wasn’t feeling it by the way she stepped to me.

Honestly, I think her sole purpose for tapping in was to challenge me. Of course, she won’t tell me this, but I’m not crazy. Anyways, we started a dialogue where I justified my MAC’n while she knocked on the technique. One afternoon she clapped back so hard that I had to involve my celly. We both had to go into the lab to pop back. By the end of that day –. although we hadn’t reached an understanding — it was clear we were into something. And that’s when we came up with the idea for this PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS movement.

This is only the beginning. Our work ethic is stupid-dumb! Personally, I’m going crazy about creating fresh content for this blog. 

If you’re in a relationship or know anybody who’s a Pretty Girl or a Bad boy, this website is for you. We speak on every level of the Game. SUBSCRIBE TO THIS BLOG RIGHT NOW!!! You won’t regret it!

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SINGLES

WHY DO PRETTY GIRLS LIKE BAD BOYS

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DEBBY:  I was asked this question on an Instagram post, Guru and I posted. There are a plethora of answers here and I am sure there are more answers than one human can think up. I think oftentimes Pretty Girls and Bad Boys have similar traumas that attract them. There’s always the saying good girls like bad boys... we said Pretty Girls because we believe all girls are pretty... and all girls need to believe they are beautiful. It’s important first of all that women have a strong sense of self-esteem and hopefully, our movement personifies that.

Besides the normal answer of Pretty Girls trying to piss off their parents or other authority figures by dating a Bad Boy, I think there are several other reasons. One is that Bad Boys are exciting.. Like there is never any downtime and they are always a challenge. Women are smart and get bored easily and Bad Boys are never boring, that’s for sure. Bad Boys provide smart Pretty Girls with a challenge and excitement which generally attracts them quickly. It can sometimes also be what makes it end quickly as well because they are not ready for that level and duration of excitement. It definitely provides the initial spark.

Another reason Pretty Girls are drawn to Bad Boys is that they want to heal them. Oftentimes, we say fix them which implies they are broken and they are not broken; however, they usually have trauma. Pretty Girls recognize this trauma as they usually have some of their own. Being that girls are naturally care-takers and empathizers they want to heal this boy with love. Many times we end up having friends who we later realize after we get to know them they went through some similar things to what we did in our childhood. These similar traumas I believe attract us to one another, sometimes platonically and sometimes romantically. I think this is where the fixing syndrome comes from, but I definitely think it’s more of a desire to heal.

For some reason, the sexiest and hottest of men are Bad Boys. Most Bad Boys know they are good-looking and exude a sense of confidence that is unmistakable. Even if they are not super attractive that confidence and sex appeal they give off is unmistakably attractive. The perfect example of this I can think of is Mickey Rourke. I do not think he is an attractive man but there is something very sexy about him, especially in 9 ½ weeks and Wild Orchid. If you haven’t seen those movies you should. This is a perfect example of a sexy, Bad Boy who exudes confidence all the time. Pretty Girls fall in love with and participate in things they never believed they would because of his charm.

So, as best as I can see there are a plethora of reasons why Pretty Girls Love Bad Boys. If you have other ideas, thoughts, or facts about this to share, please drop them on our blog! Love to hear your thoughts! We know this is an age-old thought just like good guys finish last. So .. is it true, reader? Was it always true? Or does it really have no meaning?

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PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS

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GURU: Someone recently asked me about my book PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS. He wanted to know who the book was written for. When I told him it was written for incarcerated individuals who wanted to build personal relationships with women on the streets he gave me a quizzical look. He seemed as if he wanted to ask me another question but didn't know-how. So I prodded 'em a lil bit. I'm always curious about what people think or want to know about my books. And since checking ain't cheating where I'm from I asked, What's the deal, homey? What's on your mind?

He replied, Guru, I got decades to go before I can even think about getting out. I got no money or nothing else to offer a woman. Who would want to have a relationship with me?

I smiled before giving him a quote straight out of one of my favorite books. A woman named Sheila Isenbergz wrote a whole book on the subject of women who fall in love with convicted killers. Most of the case studies she wrote about included men who had close to no chance of ever coming home. I told the guy I was talking to the same exact thing she wrote in her book when she was posed the same question.

"... These women are all types. Some are married to other men. Others are professionals -—teachers, nurses, reporters, social workers. Even women lawyers and judges are not immune to this fascination.

Some women are in pink-collar jobs, work in factories, offices, and service industries as waitresses, house cleaners, cooks, nurses, secretaries. Many of them have children, some are childless. They are all ages, but the majority of them seem to be in their thirties and forties.

Most of these women have never visited a prison before. Nor have they themselves ever committed any crimes. They consider themselves moral, upright, caring, and right thinking. They generally don't use illegal drugs, not many drink, and are frequently religious. They believe in family, honor, and tradition.

After I told him all that, I also told him this: "Any female is susceptible to the mouthpiece of a MAC. Not having money has nothing to do with what you can bring to the table. And women in the free world know this.

"Prison is designed to break most men. But these women know our real worth. They know we spend most of our time building ourselves up. We do self-help groups, we go to college and we learn trades that allow us to have well-paying jobs when we get out. They also realize that most of us are handsome and well-builtbecause prison preserves us.

Not only that, but PRETTY GIRL LOVE BAD BOYS was written for BAD BOYS who aren't content with sitting still. This book was written for men who have an insatiable urge to stay moving forward. I'm talking about the guys in prison who wake up early in the morning so they can roll up them mattresses and get to work. Women on the streets know we exist. And when they don't, they find out real quick when they tap in with one of us!

By the end of the convo, bruh was trying to borrow a copy of my book. I didn't let him get it, though. I'm a firm believer that Game is to be sold not told. Nevertheless, I'm sure I left a good impression on him.

PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS is a book that helps incarcerated men understand how to cultivate relationships with women on the streets. Even if he's already in a union with the woman of his dreams he can definitely benefit from it because it teaches men how to nurture existing relationships. Trust me when I tell you, PRETTY GIRLS LOVE BAD BOYS will make any man a better husband!

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WHERE TO START WITH SELF-LOVE

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DEBBY:

Pretty Girls,

This is for you! So many of you are so giving and filled with empathy and compassion, which are beautiful qualities; however, they also need to extend to self. No matter how deep you catch feelings there has to be a part of you which stays grounded in self-respect being more important. Let me explain it like this for those of you who are asking how we separate this!

Pretty Girls, you know you are the best girlfriend in the world and you know when your girl asks you for advice you are putting her first. This is what you need to do for yourself. You need to think about your problem or issue or whatever needs to be solved and write it all down. Then Pretty Girls, read it back to yourself like your friend was telling it to you. What advice would you give your friend? You know what you would say - you know what you would want for her! Show the same upfront, real-advice to yourself and then .... Listen to it!

Pretty Girls, you have to stop allowing these men to manipulate you. You have to learn to recognize their game and get out of it. You don’t have time to play these cat and mouse or as King Guru puts it hamster in the cage games. You need to recognize real-men, men who plan to step into your life and treat you like a beautiful woman! These real men will not be playing childish games and messing around with baby mommas and side chicks. These men who do that need their egos inflated and generally have underlying mommy issues, which lead