Affair: The Mind and Heart of People Who Are in a Love Triangle

By Elsa Harbor

The following topics are included in this 2-book combo:


Book 1: This book will focus on some aspects that may not be as obvious when discussing affairs. People often wonder if healing is possible, if the likelihood that another affair will happen is big, or if their marriage will end up in divorce.

Although this publication briefly touches on several of these topics, other questions will be addressed as well, such as:

What if the person having the affair loves both people?
Why are affairs so difficult to stop?
Should the children know about the affair?
What are some steps to recover from an affair?

If you are interested to know more about these things, whether for personal reasons, or simply out of curiosity, then I urge you to start reading or listening to this book.


Book 2: This guide will help you understand various factors of affairs that you may have never thought about before!

When it comes to affairs, there are so many things involved. And one of the reasons why they don’t get dealt with in the right way, is the misinformation, or perhaps the lack of information out there.

Many people, for example, may wonder how you can take full responsibility for your actions. Others may be on the fence or might be in the dark when it comes to recognizing the signs. And some may even wonder what will happen to the man or woman the cheater has cheated with.


Why do people have affairs?
What is behind all this?
How can it end, and what are the consequences?

These questions and many of the abovementioned subtopics will be addressed, so don’t wait and get started!

• Language: English
• Publisher: Efalon Acies
• Release date: Jul 24, 2020
• ISBN: 9788835868989

Book preview

Contents

Chapter 1: Sexual Self-confidence 4

Chapter 2: How to Recover from Rejection and Breakups 6

Chapter 3: Steps to Recovering from an Adulterous Affair 9

Chapter 4: After an Affair 11

Chapter 5: What If You Love Them Both? 13

Chapter 6: The Actual Reason Why Extramarital Affairs Are Hard to Stop 17

Chapter 7: Should the Kids Know You've Had an Affair? 19

Chapter 8: Will Your Marital Relationship Endure the Affair? 22

Chapter 1: The Main Reason Why Affairs Eventually Break Down 25

Chapter 2: Affairs Are about Pleasure Seeking 27

Chapter 3: How to Take Full Responsibility for an Affair 30

Chapter 4: Questions You Need to Be Asking Yourself After His Affair 32

Chapter 5: What You Should Know If You Consider Having an Affair 35

Chapter 6: Signs and Avoidance 37

Chapter 7: How the Other Woman (or Man) Fares After an Affair 39

Chapter 8: The 3 Main Reasons Why People Have Affairs 41

Chapter 1: Sexual Self-confidence

Sexual self-confidence affects nearly each sexual choice you make, from who you engage with and when to whether you contain yourself and how you do it.

Yet, very little is known about sexual self-esteem and who has more or less of it. This is specifically essential because sexual self-confidence and sexual fulfillment are closely related. Some studies suggest that lower sexual self-esteem negatively affects sexual fulfillment. Another research study, by Hale and Strassberg, reported the results of an experiment to check the results of low sexual self-confidence and revealed that male individuals' sexual arousal was substantially and adversely impacted by poor sexual self-confidence.

What Is Sexual Self-Esteem?

Sexual self-esteem is feeling capable of being involved in sexual practices with effective procedures and results. Sexual self-confidence tends to vary with age and one's partner's sexual abilities or interest, and it may differ for males and females and across cultures.

Research studies also suggest that sexual self-confidence is negatively affected by a range of life experiences, which includes childhood sexual abuse, sexual victimization, handicaps, and health issues. Another research study found that sexual self-confidence is favorably related to general self-esteem.

More broadly, many cultures push us to limit our ideas about sexuality and to develop low sexual confidence. Others connect sexual self-confidence to ideal visions of beauty and beauty. Because of that, there's always the desire to chase after these ideal visions. When we do not prosper, we may experience it as a reflection of our lack of desirability and develop low self-respect.

Who Has the Greatest Levels of Sexual Self-confidence?

Many think that married people have the greatest level of sexual self-worth. After all, the a single person they are with already knows them well and they likely don't feel threatened by that individual. Competition is low and ideal visions of attractiveness and attractiveness are fading over time. Moreover, many societies sanction and admire marital relationships and it only makes sense that married people would feel better about themselves.

Nonetheless my new findings suggest that this is not the case when it comes to sexual self-esteem. Using the ninth wave of the Pairfam (Panel Analysis of Intimate Relationships and Family Dynamics) dataset and examining the reactions of 3,207 respondents in total, discoveries show that married people have lower levels of sexual self-esteem than nearly all groups measured.

Seven relationship-status groups were included in this study: wed people, who make up the largest group of the sample (57.4%); never-married single (14%); never-married individuals who have a partner but they live apart (4.3%), never-married people who cohabit with their partner (13.1%); divorced/separated single (5.3%), divorced/separated individuals who have a partner but they live apart (2.7%), and divorced/separated who currently cohabit with their partner (3.3%).

The results are amazing. In regards to sexual self-confidence, men who were divorced/separated and living apart from a partner and never-married cohabiting guys were comparable to married men, while only never-married cohabiting women showed lower scores than married women. The detailed and wealthy data of the Pairfam survey show that even singles who have never ever been wed tend to report higher levels of sexual self-esteem.

In this research study, sexual self-esteem was a built variable composed of the following two items: I am an excellent sex partner and In general, I can fulfill the sexual needs and desires of my partner well. This product is a new development made by the Pairfam study group.

Why Married People Have Lower Levels of Sexual Self-confidence

We can only speculate about why married people showed lower levels of sexual self-esteem than most groups. One possibility is that sexual self-confidence levels work in reverse: People with lower sexual self-esteem may be more likely to wed. They might be inspired in part by wishing to feel safer and to cover for their lower sexual self-confidence.

In any case, these findings suggest another reason that songs and not yet married couples should not feel inferior-- although society typically makes them feel

Reviews for Affair

[Ralph Petro · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

I liked this particular book. A few of the chapters were more interesting than other ones, of course. The 5 stars are really well-deserved. So, with this being said, I do recommend it.

[Miriam Green · Rating: 5 out of 5 stars]

The writer had some exceptional points. A couple of the chapters were more intriguing than other ones, of course. I wish to say thanks to the publishing company and the author for producing this. So, with that being mentioned, I do recommend it.