How to Move on From a Breakup

By Rony Mehta

No doubt, we all dream of a Cindrella-esque love story, but how often does that happen in real life? John Lennon famously said, “Love is real, real is love”, and anything that is real in today’s world just cannot be perfect. Remember in our childhood, how the math teacher would refer to infinity? He would say, it’s a value that can never be achieved, and what happens when you divide a number by infinity? It becomes zero. Similarly, perfection in many ways can be compared to the value infinity, it is an illusion, and it takes away the spark from a relationship. Whoever says his relationship is perfect, just hasn’t experienced the whole of it.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Rony Mehta
• Release date: Jul 6, 2020
• ISBN: 9781005241001

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How to Move on From a Breakup

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Summary:

Being in a relationship is a lot more than updating your Facebook relationship status, it demands understanding and along with understanding, also love, respect and all the other ingredients that come naturally when you fall in love with someone. A not so famous actor in a not so famous movie said, You know the reason why my wife and I are still going strong after 10 years of marriage, it’s not because she loves me more than anyone else can or I love her more than anyone else can, but it’s because we understand each other better than anyone else can.

Think your Love was perfect? Well think again…

Love is beautiful, love makes your life cheerful, it fills your day with colours of joy and happiness, and indeed it does, but what if all this fades away in the blink of the eye. What if the person with whom you dreamed of living your whole life starts feeling distracted?

No doubt, we all dream of a Cindrella-esque love story, but how often does that happen in real life? John Lennon famously said, Love is real, real is love, and anything that is real in today’s world just cannot be perfect. Remember in our childhood, how the math teacher would refer to infinity? He would say, it’s a value that can never be achieved, and what happens when you divide a number by infinity? It becomes zero. Similarly, perfection in many ways can be compared to the value infinity, it is an illusion, and it takes away the spark from a relationship. Whoever says his relationship is perfect, just hasn’t experienced the whole of it.

Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying you must not chase perfection, in fact your ultimate goal, no matter what work you are doing should be to achieve perfection. However, feeling that you have achieved perfection is what a person should retract from.

Love is like a metal, it gets tougher when it passes through difficulties, however, once it breaks, it is very difficult to join the pieces together without getting a blot on the surface. Break-up is not always the end of a relationship, more often than not, it is the difficult