Dating Guide for Ladies: Relationship & Marriage Counseling Book

By Desmond Ihenze

Below are some dating and marriage issues that are discussed in this ebook
 
The qualities in a lady that can attract a man to approach her for real marriage. Men develop interest in marrying a lady due to some qualities or a quality in that lady. Do you possess those qualities? Find out in this ebook.
 
Are you one of those ladies who don’t want to end up marrying a wife-beater? You may not want to be a punching bag in the hands of your husband. Find out those kinds of men who beat their wives.
 
Mothers-in-law problem in marriage. If you find yourself in this situation, how would you cope? Find out why some mothers-in-law can be wicked to their daughters-in-law and how to cope with the wicked ones.
 
Men who get their girl friends pregnant and abandon them. How do you know these kinds of men? You would not want to become a frustrated single mother.
 
You have reached marriageable age for long but you can’t get husband. What are the causes of this problem? And how do you get husband fast despite your age?
 
Men who deceive ladies by proposing marriage to them. How would you know these kinds of men as they are everywhere. After they promise you marriage, they will be having sex with you and if you become pregnant, they will abandon you.
 
The tricks that you can use to get the phone numbers of any man you like. You will also learn how you can use the phone numbers of the man to work on him and get him to start a relationship with you or marry you.
  
Many men hide their ugly characters from you during relationship. If your relationship later ends in marriage, you would be surprised to be noticing strange characters that you may not like. The tips on how you can know the characters of your man even if he is hiding them from you during dating are available for you in the ebook.
 
Don’t want your husband to cheat on you in your marriage? Learn what you should do to prevent this. How do you cope even if your husband is already cheating on you in your marriage? Find out.
 
Are you a single mother lady already? You are not sure if a man can still marry you again. Find out how you can package and prepare yourself and still get married again to a responsible man.
 
A lot of men dupe their ladies in relationships. You don’t want a man to dupe you during a relationship. Find out how you can prevent this.
 
Your fiancé wants you to get pregnant for him first before he can go ahead and marry you. Should you agree or disagree to this request? Find out.
 
Should you agree for a man who wants to have sex with you first before he goes into relationship with you? Learn how you can go about this request.
 
Are you interested in knowing if your husband is secretly womanising outside your marriage? The signs that you can use to know are available.
 
You don’t want to make mistake and marry a wrong man in your life? When you marry a wrong man, you will never be happy in your marriage.
Find out how you can prevent this.
 
A lot of marriages have ended up in divorce. This can never be your wish. Learn the causes of divorce after marriage and how to prevent them.
 
Pretender lover men in relationships. These types of men would pretend to love you in order to benefit certain things from you and dump you at last. Find out if the man who is in a relationship with you really loves you from his heart.
 
Issues that can make a man who loves you in relationship to suddenly stop loving you. Learn how you can prevent this from happening to you as this would lead to relationship breakup which would not make you happy.
 

• Language: English
• Publisher: ManPower
• Release date: May 30, 2020
• ISBN: 9788835838432

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Munich

Chapter 1: How can I know a man who can break my heart or disappoint me in a marriage relationship or courtship?

Chapter 1: How can I know a man who can break my heart or disappoint me in a marriage relationship or courtship?

Heart-break or disappointment in a marriage relationship is very painful because it is an unexpected incident.

Many ladies have experienced the so called heart-break or disappointment in their marriage relationships, courtships and love affairs. The victims are always afraid and unsettled to go into another relationship with other men.

The signs that you can use to know a man who can break your heart or disappoint you in a marriage relationship

If you have moved with a man for so long and he has not known your family members and he is not making any effort to know or see them, the man can break your heart because any serious man who really wants to marry you will not waste much time in knowing your people during his courtship with you.

If you discover that your man does not really love you and you are only trying to make him love you by all means, no matter the kind of help you render to him or gifts you present to him or his family members to win his heart towards you, he will still disappoint you at the end. Any man who does not love you despite the fact that you really love him will disappoint you at the end.

If you are moving with a man who is a pretender lover and you have noticed it, don’t waste time in withdrawing from the relationship because he will disappoint you. Remember that most men can pretend to love you just because of what they want to get or benefit from you. After they have gotten what they want, they will break your heart.

If you discover that the man who is moving with you is a liar, he tells you lies too much, he hardly tells you the truth. This type of man can break your heart because any man who loves you and is really ready to marry you will always tell you the truth.

If you discover that your man is his mother’s pet; he is a man who listens to his mothers words and acts according to his mother’s wishes or he is being controlled by his mother, if you discover that his mother doesn’t like you or she is pretending to like you, the man will definitely disappoint you or break your heart. Any man who dances to the tune of his mother will marry a lady that his mother approves for him.

Always visit your fiance or man in his house, office or shop when he does not expect you and watch his reactions. If he is not happy with your unexpected visits and you find him getting angry with you, it shows that he is not sincere with you. An insincere man in a marriage relationship will disappoint you. A man who really loves you and is ready to marry you will welcome you any moment you visit him and will be happy anytime he sees you.

If your man has promised to marry you and you discover that he is womanizing, he can break your heart because he can be entrapped by other ladies or he might discover another lady who he can prefer to you; may be because she is richer, more beautiful, has better character or more sexually active than you.

If your man is a traveler or he intends to travel out of the country and he has not married you legally, you should be very careful because he might forget about you totally by the time he travels out.

If your man or fiance is the type who is only interested in your money, wealth or possession, all the time he asks you for money for one thing or the other in his favor and does not care much about your own welfare. It may be that the man is more interested in what you have and not you. Be careful if your man behaves this way.

If the parents of the man who is moving with you       dwell in the village and it happens that your man usually travels to the village to see his parents, you should be very careful because his parents may select a wife for him in the village and he will break your heart. You have already heard of several cases whereby a man will propose or promise a lady marriage in the town or city and ends up marrying another girl in his village.

If you are having a relationship or courtship with       popular men like actors, musicians, footballers etc. Most of these types of men are not reliable; only a few of them are reliable. They select and change ladies like cloths and most times they don’t only       break ladies’ hearts, they also divorce their real wives to make room for other ladies.

If you notice that the man who has promised you       that he will marry you tells people or other ladies that you are his sister while he has not married you, this is a clear sign that he is intending to disappoint you or break your heart. Do not foolishly remain with this type of man if you don’t want to cry at the end. Any man who is really serious to marry you cannot tell people that you are his sister.

When you notice that the man who has promised you that he will marry you has started dodging when he sees you or when you are coming to see him, sometimes he will instruct people to tell you that he is not around while he is around. This is a clear sign that the man is no longer interested in you and he will never again be interested in you. Do not make further attempt to do anything for him but find your way instantly if you don’t want him to embarrass or disgrace you. Any man who is really ready to marry you will never dodge from you whenever you are coming to see him.

If you notice that the man who told you that he       wants to marry you has started accusing you of being a prostitute, marmaid, spirit, witch, snake etc. Either you heard it from people or directly from his mouth. This is a clear sign that the man no longer wants you but will definitely break your heart.

The signs above are given to you so that when you start noticing them in your man’s attitude, you should become very careful and monitor the way he is going. If you can no longer understand him or you have become totally convinced that he will disappoint you or break your heart, it is better for you to cut the relationship yourself before he breaks your heart. Some men are so heartless to the extent that they will break your heart in a painful way.

Chapter 2: What are the methods that men use in breaking ladies’ hearts?

Chapter 2: What are the methods that men use in breaking ladies’ hearts?

There are different methods that heartless men use in carrying out their wicked act and they are going to be listed here:

Method 1: The man can arrange and bring his next lady into the house when he expects you. When you come into the house or compound, he will make a sudden introduction asking you to meet       his wife, hugging or kissing her in your presence. You may even find the girl putting on the man’s tee-shirt or tying his towel or wrapper. At this moment, you need nobody to tell you that it is all over because you will be dumbfounded and confused. This type of method is very painful on ladies.

Method 2: The man will use his parents as an excuse. He can give you an excuse that his parents don’t want him to marry you and that is all. When you hear this, you need nobody to tell you to find your way.

Method 3: The man can just accuse you of something that you didn’t do and he will stick to it. He can tell you that he caught you with another man somewhere or can accuse you of anything that you never did. All efforts that you will make to explain yourself and prove yourself innocent will be in vain as he will still stick to his accusation which he wants to use as an excuse to push you off.

Method 4: The man can just decide to condemn a particular character in you. He may tell you that you talk anyhow, you don’t have respect, you are lazy or just any character that suits him to push you off. He will tell you that he cannot marry a lady who possesses that kind of character and he will stick to his condemnation. At this time, you will find your way in tears.

Method 5: This can be elopement. A man who wants to disappoint you and go for another girl can elope with that girl to another state or country and       can even get married to her there or get her pregnant. By the time you know what has happened, nobody will tell you to       find your way.

Method 6: The man can also use your educational background for an excuse. He can tell you that he cannot marry you because of your poor or low educational background. Any excuse you give to him about going further will be rejected since he really wants to push you off.

It is very painful that even the man who you have adored, respected and loved with all your heart for a long time can just turn around one day and use one of these methods to break your heart. I can say that it is very unfair, therefore, you must be careful with men of today.

Chapter 3: How can I know a man who really wants to marry me during a relationship?

Chapter 3: How can I know a man who really wants to marry me during a relationship?

It is very clear that some ladies normally get confused during a relationship wondering whether the relationship would end up in marriage or not especially when their men have not told them anything about marriage.

The reasons why men approach ladies for relationships

1.      Marriage: A man can approach a lady for relationship with the intention of marrying her. 68% of men do this.

2.      Sex: A man can go into relationship with a lady in order to have or be having sex with her and dumps her later. 86% of men do this.

3.      Duping: A man can also go into relationship with a lady in order to dupe