Before Thy Marriage: How To Have A Bulletproof Marriage That Makes Everyday Feels Like Honeymoon

By Kelson Anderson

Proven steps to having a "Honeymoon like marriage" that will last forever.

It is important to know somethings before get married Or maybe somethings you wish you knew before getting married.
We are not going to talk about having the perfect honeymoon or beautiful places to go for vacations.

You will learn about the insects and plagues that crumbles most marriages without them knowing precisely what went wrong.
If you speak to newly divorced couples and ask them what went wrong. 

You would likely hear things like; 

• she doesn't cook anymore
• he has no time for me anymore 
• he complains at every little thing 
• she forgets to weed the garden 
• and it keeps going...

But come to think of it, do you think that is enough to end even a Dating relationship? I guess not.
The number one killer of every relationship and Marriage is called "R.E.S.E.N.T.M.E.N.T"
Yes, that is the killer of most relationships.
Is this reason 

• your husband who brings you coffee in bed no longer cares about doing it anymore.
• it's the reason your wife no longer dresses to please you, and she now looks old.
• It's exactly the same reason your spouse keeps complaining about every little thing.

Come to think of it; when you newly get married, everything will seem like a dream come true, butterflies everywhere. But if you don't know how to resolve issues in your Marriage when they arise.

Then you just opened the door for Resentment to come in, and it will slowly crush your Marriage without knowing what exactly went wrong.
By the end of this Actionable Book, where I go into actions to take now to improve your relationship.

You will have a proven game plan to take care of anything that comes between you and your spouse.

I really feel that if every couple entered into Marriage with this game plan in their back pocket, then it will be easier to overcome and avoid divorce.

Your Marriage, like anything else you care for in your life requires proper maintenance for it to remain healthy, and that's exactly what you will learn in this Actionable Book with a Game plan to Dominate. 

It reveals; 

• The real secret to healthy marriages
• how to keep the attraction, respect, and trust with your spouse.
• magic words to stop any argument. 
• Secrets for keeping your Marriage fresh like every day is your Honeymoon.

Now I understand that you and your fiance or husband may never need this game plan, you may never have any miscommunication or conflict of any kind. But if you ever do, isn't it nice to know what to do, and how to do it?

If your Marriage ever feels like it's things aren't going as planned, isn't it nice to know that you have a survival guide close at hand that you can deploy at any time.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Muero Adia
• Release date: May 2, 2020
• ISBN: 9780050174593

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INTRODUCTION

First of all, congratulations on your recent engagement or yet to be engaged.

It's always better when both partners know this stuff.

And one reason why it's so important is that you're going all-in with someone, you’re blending.

There's going to be a lifestyle change or two probably like moving in together or opening up a joint bank.

Account, and it'll be considered that all the significant issues have been taken care of.

But what about any new issues that come out along?

I mean, any unresolved issue can be a deal-breaker for relationships.

So what about any new issue that comes along?

Miscommunication can happen at any time.

I mean, after all, we're only human. There could be a lack of information shared with your partner, which could cause an issue, Misunderstandings, of course. False assumptions, that's a big one.

We are jumping into false conclusions.

All of these can cause unresolved issues, which also leads to resentment, which causes problems in your relationship.

So what are you going to do the next time or the first time that your partner says something that you don't you like it?

Are you going to yell at them?

Are you going just to sweep it under the rug and pretend it didn't happen?

Are you going to be kind and say nothing?

Maybe give them the silent treatment?

Believe it or not, these are the moments that can make or break a relationship.

How you handle these little moments is very important. 

Your relationship is fresh and new.

It's like moving into a brand new apartment or a new house with a brand new kitchen, Right?

If your relationship was any older than it is, it might be quite a chore to clean it up.

The cleaner something is, the easier it is to keep it clean.

Now imagine living in the kitchen where you didn't know it needed to be cleaned up. How long would you want to live there?

That is the effect that resentment has on your relationship.

You may forget about the unresolved issue. You may just sweep it under the rug; It may meld into the woodwork.

Yet the resentment from it lingers on strong as ever.

The purpose of this book is to give you a game plan to resolve any issues that come up.

We will discuss the magic words to stop any argument in its tracks and how to resolve issues proactively.

It gives you a safety net if things go south. It is our mechanism for resolving conflict.

Proactive