The Invisible Toolbox: The Power of Reading to Your Child from Birth to Adolescence (Parenting Book, Child Development)
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- Appeals to a broad population of parents due to its brevity and clarity, (under 20,000 words) including those who would likely never pick up a lengthier book on the same subject.
- Offers practical advice from the unique perspective of the author, who is an experienced classroom teacher, parent, author, and speaker.
- Introduces the key concept of the Invisible Toolbox that every child brings to kindergarten and explains how reading aloud fills it with the tools a child needs in order to be successful in school.
- Combines anecdotal evidence with statistics and research in language acquisition, education, psychology, and neuroscience.
- Explores not only the academic, but also the psychological and emotional implications of reading aloud through strengthening the parent-child relationship.
- Alerts parents to the current literacy crisis in the United States, but remains focused on the difference they can make in the life of their very own child.
Kim Jocelyn Dickson
Kim Jocelyn Dickson is a parent, an author, and an educator with thirty years of classroom experience. She graduated from the Princeton Theological Seminary with a master's degree in education and a focus on developmental psychology and spirituality. Having taught all over the United States, she currently resides in Southern California.
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The Invisible Toolbox - Kim Jocelyn Dickson
Praise for
The Invisible Toolbox
Kim Jocelyn Dickson has given us a gift. In lively and loving language, she opens The Invisible Toolbox and shows us what’s inside: opportunities for connection, inspiration, imagination, conversation, and joyful play. Literacy encompasses so much more than the important ability to read. Parents, teachers, and all who love children will be inspired by the author’s passionate advocacy, and helpful, compassionate instruction.
—Amy Dickinson, Ask Amy
advice columnist, NPR’s Wait, Wait…Don’t Tell Me!
panelist, bestselling author
"The mark of a great teacher is not just enabling a child to do well in class, but also in giving that child the instruments she needs to succeed and love the subject forever. I wish everyone could have Ms. Dickson as their child’s teacher as I did, but The Invisible Toolbox is the next best thing!"
—Dr. Richard Chang, pediatrician
"The Invisible Toolbox shares a simple truth that rises above the hectic commotion and flood of information parents are subjected to: ‘Reading aloud to your child from birth is one of the greatest gifts a parent can give.’ This book will tell you why this is so and what you can do to develop a lifelong love of books and reading in your child."
—Jeff Conyers, president of The Dollywood Foundation and Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library
As a pediatrician who sees firsthand the struggles and tears of the children who have empty Invisible Toolboxes, I am thrilled that Ms. Dickson has written this book to show families how to avoid all that heartache. I wholeheartedly recommend that all parents read this book!
—Kathryn Lin, MD
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The
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The Power of Reading to Your Child
from Birth to Adolescence
What Every Parent Needs to Know to Prepare Their Child
for Kindergarten and to Instill a Lifelong Love for Learning
Kim Jocelyn Dickson, MA
Coral Gables
Copyright © 2020 by Kim Jocelyn Dickson
Published by Mango Publishing Group, a division of Mango Media Inc.
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The Invisible Toolbox: The Power of Reading to Your Child
from Birth to Adolescence
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication number: 2019954716
ISBN: (p) 978-1-64250-203-9 (e) 978-1-64250-204-6
BISAC category code FAM034000, FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Parenting / General
Printed in the United States of America
Table of Contents
Chapter One
The Secret of the Invisible Toolbox: A Loving Letter
from Your Child’s Future Teacher
Chapter Two
Build It with Love: How Reading, Singing, and Speaking
to Our Babies Form the Structure of Their Invisible Toolbox
Chapter Three
Kindergarten and the Invisible Toolbox:
Discovering the Tools Inside
Chapter Four
The Greatest Gift of the Invisible Toolbox, or,
Why We Really Read:
Awakening the Inner Life of Your Child
Chapter Five
The Parent’s Toolbox: How You Can Become Your Child’s
First Reading Teacher, Get Past Your Own Hurdles,
and Enjoy the Treasures Inside
Chapter Six
How to Read Aloud to Your Child: From Birth to Adolescence
Chapter Seven
Important Do’s and Don’ts
Recommended Resources
Recommended Reading Lists Per Age Group
Recommended Websites and Organizations
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Endnotes
Chapter One
The Secret of the Invisible Toolbox
A Loving Letter
from Your Child’s Future Teacher
Dear New Parent:
Congratulations! Your precious little one is here. There is no feeling in the world more wonderful than holding your tiny newborn for the first time. Your heart expands with warmth and love and protection in a way you never could have imagined until now. As you begin a journey with this miraculous new life you have created that will take both of you far into the future, into places known and unknown, you will do everything in your power to ensure your baby’s path is as full of hope and promise as it can be.
As well-meaning parents, we all want our children to thrive. Regular pediatrician visits, vaccinations, sleep routines, proper nutrition, feeding, bathing, cuddling—we do all of these things because we want what is best for them. But there is one more thing that is essential, and it’s one that is as important to our growing child as all the things we do to take care of our baby’s physical needs. This necessary thing is one that you may already know—or perhaps may have