The Invisible Toolbox: The Power of Reading to Your Child from Birth to Adolescence

By Kim Jocelyn Dickson

How one activity can lead to lifelong benefits for your child: “Parents, teachers, and all who love children will be inspired.” —Amy Dickinson, New York Times bestselling author of Strangers Tend to Tell Me Things

Longtime elementary school teacher Kim Jocelyn Dickson believes every child begins kindergarten with a lunchbox in one hand and an “invisible toolbox” in the other. In this book, she shares with parents the single most important thing they can do to foster their child’s future learning potential and nurture the parent-child bond that is the foundation for a child’s motivation to learn. Drawing on both neuroscientific research and her own experience as an educator, she concludes that the simple act of reading aloud has a far-reaching impact that few of us fully understand—and our recent, nearly universal saturation in technology has further clouded its importance.In The Invisible Toolbox, parents, educators, and early literacy advocates will discover:

• Ten priceless tools that fill their child’s toolbox when they read aloud to their child
• Tools parents can give themselves to foster these gifts in their children
• Practical tips for how and what to read aloud to children through their developmental stages
• Dos and don’ts and recommended resources that round out all the practical tools a parent will need to prepare their child for kindergarten and beyond
• How parents can build their own toolboxes so they can help their children build theirs

• Language: English
• Publisher: Open Road Integrated Media
• Release date: Apr 14, 2020
• ISBN: 9781642502046

Kim Jocelyn Dickson

Kim Jocelyn Dickson is a parent, an author, and an educator with thirty years of classroom experience. She graduated from the Princeton Theological Seminary with a master's degree in education and a focus on developmental psychology and spirituality. Having taught all over the United States, she currently resides in Southern California.

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Praise for

The Invisible Toolbox

Kim Jocelyn Dickson has given us a gift. In lively and loving language, she opens The Invisible Toolbox and shows us what’s inside: opportunities for connection, inspiration, imagination, conversation, and joyful play. Literacy encompasses so much more than the important ability to read. Parents, teachers, and all who love children will be inspired by the author’s passionate advocacy, and helpful, compassionate instruction.

—Amy Dickinson, Ask Amy advice columnist, NPR’s Wait, Wait…Don’t Tell Me! panelist, bestselling author

"The mark of a great teacher is not just enabling a child to do well in class, but also in giving that child the instruments she needs to succeed and love the subject forever. I wish everyone could have Ms. Dickson as their child’s teacher as I did, but The Invisible Toolbox is the next best thing!"

—Dr. Richard Chang, pediatrician

"The Invisible Toolbox shares a simple truth that rises above the hectic commotion and flood of information parents are subjected to: ‘Reading aloud to your child from birth is one of the greatest gifts a parent can give.’ This book will tell you why this is so and what you can do to develop a lifelong love of books and reading in your child."

—Jeff Conyers, president of The Dollywood Foundation and Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library

As a pediatrician who sees firsthand the struggles and tears of the children who have empty Invisible Toolboxes, I am thrilled that Ms. Dickson has written this book to show families how to avoid all that heartache. I wholeheartedly recommend that all parents read this book!

—Kathryn Lin, MD

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The Power of Reading to Your Child

from Birth to Adolescence

What Every Parent Needs to Know to Prepare Their Child

for Kindergarten and to Instill a Lifelong Love for Learning

Kim Jocelyn Dickson, MA

Coral Gables

Copyright © 2020 by Kim Jocelyn Dickson

Published by Mango Publishing Group, a division of Mango Media Inc.

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The Invisible Toolbox: The Power of Reading to Your Child

from Birth to Adolescence

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication number: 2019954716

ISBN: (p) 978-1-64250-203-9 (e) 978-1-64250-204-6

BISAC category code FAM034000, FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / Parenting / General

Printed in the United States of America

Table of Contents

Chapter One

The Secret of the Invisible Toolbox: A Loving Letter

from Your Child’s Future Teacher

Chapter Two

Build It with Love: How Reading, Singing, and Speaking

to Our Babies Form the Structure of Their Invisible Toolbox

Chapter Three

Kindergarten and the Invisible Toolbox:

Discovering the Tools Inside

Chapter Four

The Greatest Gift of the Invisible Toolbox, or,

Why We Really Read:

Awakening the Inner Life of Your Child

Chapter Five

The Parent’s Toolbox: How You Can Become Your Child’s

First Reading Teacher, Get Past Your Own Hurdles,

and Enjoy the Treasures Inside

Chapter Six

How to Read Aloud to Your Child: From Birth to Adolescence

Chapter Seven

Important Do’s and Don’ts

Recommended Resources

Recommended Reading Lists Per Age Group

Recommended Websites and Organizations

Acknowledgments

About the Author

Endnotes

Chapter One

The Secret of the Invisible Toolbox

A Loving Letter

from Your Child’s Future Teacher

Dear New Parent:

Congratulations! Your precious little one is here. There is no feeling in the world more wonderful than holding your tiny newborn for the first time. Your heart expands with warmth and love and protection in a way you never could have imagined until now. As you begin a journey with this miraculous new life you have created that will take both of you far into the future, into places known and unknown, you will do everything in your power to ensure your baby’s path is as full of hope and promise as it can be.

As well-meaning parents, we all want our children to thrive. Regular pediatrician visits, vaccinations, sleep routines, proper nutrition, feeding, bathing, cuddling—we do all of these things because we want what is best for them. But there is one more thing that is essential, and it’s one that is as important to our growing child as all the things we do to take care of our baby’s physical