For Her

By B.O. Ipadeola, Jr

Discover those secrets men didn't want any woman finding out.
How to know if a man is in love..
How to handle a manipulative man..
How to politely decline sexual advances..
Why you can't have sex early..
Things you should never tell a man..
How to restore the good old days..
Make your man fall in love with you over..
How to be in control of the relationship..
How to make a man stay loving have several times of sex..
How to make your best relationship your last..
How to make a man engage willingly in house chores.

• Language: English
• Publisher: B.O. Ipadeola, Jr
• Release date: Nov 12, 2019
• ISBN: 9780463522318

B.O. Ipadeola, Jr

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For Her

B.O Ipadeola Jr

Copyright 2019 B.O Ipadeola Jr

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Table of content

Tab 1: Why you shouldn’t feel obligated to a man

Tab 2: How to politely decline a man’s sexual advances

Tab 3: Why you shouldn’t give sex early

Tab 4: Misery behind giving sex early

Tab 5: Why a man won’t misbehave after several rounds of sex

Tab 6: How to make him stay sane while avoiding sex

Tab 7: Dealing with your insecurities

Tab 8: Some irritating acts men find unpleasant

Tab 9: How to get sexual satisfaction

Tab 10: Certain things that need not be voices out

Tab 11: How to deal with a manipulative man

Tab 12: Things you should never welcome from a man

Tab 13: How to be in charge of the relationship

Tab 14: How to remain in charge of the relationship

Tab 15: Why you can’t show too much appreciation

Tab 16: How to identify a gentleman in the relationship in the early stage of the relationship

Tab 17: How to get what you want in the relationship

Tab 18: How to be an equal partner in the relationship

Tab 19: How to get a man’s interest piqued

Tab 20: Things women do that makes men take them for granted

Tab 21: Why you can’t give up anything for a man

Tab 22: Dealing with tough days in the relationship

Tab 23: How being in charge makes you more attractive

Tab 24: Why you shouldn’t give a man too much of yourself

Tab 25: Some critical mistakes women make in the relationship

Tab 26: Things that easily get a man tired of the relationship

Tab 27: Learn from other people’s mistake not them learning from yours

Tab 28: Why you shouldn’t rush into a relationship

Tab 29: Why charity doesn’t begins at home anymore

Tab 30: How to handle a disrespectful man

Tab 31: How men indirectly make a woman give herself off easily

Tab 32: How to deal with a nonchalant man

Tab 33: How to get your man back

Tab 34: Bringing back the good old days in the relationship

Tab 35: How to get what you want without raising a banner

Tab 36: How to get a man to show his true feelings

Tab 37: Some reasons why men do certain things

Tab 38: Ten things you should avoid

Tab 39: Ten ways to know if a man is in love

Tab 40: Why you can’t depend on a man financially

Tab 41: Every woman can be independent

Tab 42: Beauty without sense

Tab 43: How to get your relationship back on track

Tab 44: Change the routine and get a better relationship

Tab 45: How to condition your emotions

Tab 46: How your emotions affects your relationship

Tab 47: How to have a meaningful courtship

Tab 48: How to know if a man is wasting your man

Tab 49: How to get over a break up/Heartbreak

Tab 50: It is not your fault but His

Bonus

Tab 51: Sex will kill the relationship untimely

Tab 52: Define yourself

TAB 1: WHY YOU SHOULDN’T FEEL OBLIGATED TO A MAN

Most women often have the crude idea and tendency to feel obligated in response to a man’s kind advances. Just because a woman enjoys a guy’s treats does not in anyway obligate her to give more than a smile accompanied with a simple thank you.

Women tend to confuse a man’s kind gesture earlier on in the relationship with the fact that they have to reciprocate it by being physically intimate with him.

While most men feel it’s their right to be physically intimate with a lady simply because they believe they have done their part by treating them out; forgetting that, he wooed her willingly and wasn’t forced to do so. So  at no point should a man feel entitled to certain form of reward for participating in the relationship.

It is quite ignorant for a woman to feel swept off by a man’s strong interest and care. The ideal truth is that, men only hope to get lucky while others expect it.

The kind of men that feel obligated are mostly those who through the course of their lives have had sex with women who are just looking for pleasures only, or those women who officially makes having sex their official business. So this kind of men expects all women they come across to be the same. They feel that’s how all women are.

TAB 2: HOW TO POLITELY DECLINE A MAN’S SEXUAL ADVANCES

It will be judgmental to blame those women that often have sex easily without an in-depth understanding of what they may have been through and the challenges surrounding them. To some women, sex is a heavenly antidote for their frustrated life, while to others, it’s a means of distraction especially when she just had a break up.

I once listened to a lady talk about how she do overcome and handle break ups.. I delete all his pictures from my phone, I delete any music we do listen to together or anyone he was the one that sent it to me, I block him on all social platforms, I add his number on blacklist, the one that actually got my attention is I immediately get a boyfriend either I like him or not and I give him sex quickly, by this I get myself distracted from every thought of him.

To some women, it appears that free and cheap sex is the only means for them to overcome their frustrations and sad mood. So they see nothing bad in giving it easily and quickly. Not because they want to please the man or because they are sex addicts, but because they want to get over a man that is already doing fine without them.

Regardless, understanding the wisdom of taking things slowly makes both the man and the woman enjoys the relationship throughout.

A man that is used to having sex too quick in the early stage of meeting a woman may at first find it disturbing to cope when he meets a woman that isn’t willing to give him sex quickly. He may at first grumble a bit, nevertheless, if there is more than mere physical chemistry, he will adapt and treat the woman with respect. A man that is in love will always adjust to almost anything for that person he loves even if he has to displease himself.

Also, a woman that is used to taking things slowly should do so politely. She shouldn’t at any point be perceived as being rude. Instead of disrespectfully refusing to be receptive to a man’s sexual advances, a woman can should politely say no to the sexual part when she’s not ready, or better still not create an atmosphere for it. She shouldn’t meet him in a settings that will allow him feel the urge of having sex with her.

If he can respect her wishes, then he might be worthy of her. But if he gets angered when is sexual needs aren’t met, then he his nothing but an unserious child. One that is not ready to be in a serious relationship just yet. Therefore, she does herself a huge favor by declining his requests. Because he would have left anyway .

TAB 3: WHY YOU SHOULDN’T GIVE SEX EARLY

When a woman makes a man wait before giving him sex, he values her more than those women that gave  it to him easily.

When a man has to hold on, he begins to notice how different the woman is- and by that he begins to care about those little things she really care about. He gets to take her out for lunch and tell the waitress not to put meat but fish on her fried rice. Then he can tell the kind of flavors she wants her cold stone to be because he has taken his time to study her more.

But give a man sex too quick and too often and he can only tell the color of the underwear you will wear on Saturday and on Friday.

It is those little things that women find meaningless that men likes. Let’s take for example- A young guy is watching a match between his favorite club Chelsea vs Liverpool and the score ended 1:0 in favor of Chelsea. Not much of a