Creating Space to Thrive
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It's a struggle when you feel stuck. Like you're living Groundhog Day.
But it doesn't have to be this way.
Creative habits make you feel better.
This is a system to spend more time on things that matter — your passions, hobbies, and creative deep work.
Award-nominated author, Courtney Kenney, founded her book launch consulting company in 2016 after a corporate career as a project manager. She has coached dozens of authors and entrepreneurs to achieve greater success in their businesses, and shares her strategies in this book.
You'll learn:
- Coping strategies for when you feel stuck
- How to vanquish clutter
- Strategies to conquer digital overload
- Ways to deal with negative people
- A structure to get motivated for creative projects
- Case studies of how a novelist, a fashion consultant, and a sports entrepreneur created space in their lives to pursue their passions and start businesses.
You'll love this inspiring, no-fluff blueprint for creative transformation. Create space in your life with this guide to clear clutter, reduce mental stress, and nourish yourself.
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Creating Space to Thrive - Courtney Kenney
Creating Space to Thrive
Get Unstuck, Reboot Your Creativity and Change Your Life
Courtney Kenney
Contents
Your Special Gift
I. Discover Your Creativity
1. Is Something Missing?
2. The Myth of Someday
3. Can Creativity Make Us Happier?
4. Decide to Take Action
5. Start Something Great
6. Reboot Your Brain
7. Hello? This Is Life Phoning with Your Wake-Up Call
8. Discover What You Love
9. Experiment
II. Create Space in Your Life to Thrive
10. Find the Place
11. Create the Time
12. Find Energy
III. Change Your Life
13. Beginning to Thrive - The First 30 Days
14. Making a Habit: 60 Days In
15. Adopt the Growth Mindset
16. Watch Out for Derailers
17. Putting It All Together
Inspiration: Case Studies
1. Andre: A Passion for Personal Style
2. Dream Big with Cassandra Gaisford
3. Rolling Like Mike, Skeeball Entrepreneur
Conclusion
BONUS: 22 Books for Your Creative Journey
References
This book is for Steve.
Thanks for challenging me to live a full life.
Your Special Gift
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21 Creativity Hacks: A To-Do List for Your Inner Creative
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Part I
Discover Your Creativity
There is no way that this winter is ever going to end as long as this groundhog keeps seeing his shadow. I don't see any other way out. He's got to be stopped. And I have to stop him.
-Bill Murray as Phil Connors in the 1993 movie Groundhog Day
1
Is Something Missing?
Bill Murray’s character in the 1993 movie Groundhog Day is forced to live the same day over and over. He tries everything to change his situation, including kidnapping the town’s main attraction, Punxsutawney Phil.
Unless you’re a weather reporter, you probably won’t find yourself assigned to a small town in Pennsylvania to report on the annual Groundhog Day festivities. But the movie serves as an allegory for self-improvement. Murray’s character can’t escape the loop until he finally puts the needs of others above his own.
The movie resonates with me because I felt stuck on repeat for so long. Maybe others feel that way too, and that’s part of the film’s enduring charm.
Does your life feel stuck on repeat? Do you wake up each morning to live out what seems like the same day? Maybe you feel like something in your life is missing. If you feel stuck on a hamster wheel, you are not alone.
I want you to stop just getting by. It’s time for you to thrive.
Creativity is the missing ingredient for many of us. Too many years spent grinding away at jobs we hate dull our senses. Have you lost your sense of curiosity? I did, for a long time. In this book, I describe how to connect with your creativity and create space in your life to engage in the activities that bring you energy and joy.
You can change your life with the approach I lay out in this book. Stop living Groundhog Day and choose a creative life where you thrive.
Why are we unhappy?
Many of us work jobs we don’t like. Less than half of U.S. workers said they felt satisfied with their jobs overall, according to a 2016 report by the Conference Board. 2016 Gallup figures are worse; they found that only 32% of U.S. employees are engaged with work, and only 13% worldwide.
Consider that we spend 10,500 days at work (assuming five days a week, 50 weeks a year between the ages of 23 and 65). Said differently, we work 36% of the total days that we’re alive on this planet (should we live to be 80).
We spend a huge chunk of our lifetime at work, yet half of us hate our jobs. No wonder many of us feel stuck on repeat, living each day without much thought.
That’s the situation I found myself in a few years ago. I was unhappy. We all have bad days—that’s a fact of life—but it was more than that. I was deeply uncomfortable with my situation and the path down which my life was heading. It wasn’t about regret. Something important was missing.
Despite feeling unsettled, there was much to be grateful for: good health, loving family, my husband, friends, and living in a peaceful time. I had built a good career, but I wasn’t happy with my job anymore. Something was missing.
I lived for the weekends. Sunday nights were the worst because it meant going to work the next day. I became a bucket of angst thinking about the coming work-week and all my obligations.
Then, a close family member died unexpectedly, and I saw friends getting cancer at younger ages. I realized the stuff I’d been told all my life—Work hard, save all you can so you can afford the big house and retire comfortably
—was not guaranteed to come true for everyone.
I started wondering what would give my life more meaning.
My WWII-generation grandparents worked hard and scrimped most of their lives, only to sit in front of the television day after day in their elder years. After retirement, when they could have traveled, they no longer desired to, or even had the energy for trips. That’s not how I wanted my life to be.
I was lucky to have supportive, career-minded friends. Many were passionate about their careers and loved their jobs. But many were like me—showing up at a job they didn’t enjoy. I was nearly vegetative on weekends after a long week spent at a nine-to-five job and hours of unpaid overtime.
There must be more than this to life,
I said to myself.
What gives your life meaning? Are you getting by, or are you thriving?
2
The Myth of Someday
Conventional wisdom in industrialized countries says we must spend the majority of our lives working, buy houses with 30-year mortgages, and save an enormous amount of money for retirement.
Like me, you probably bought into that thinking and spent, or plan to spend, most of your life working toward your eventual retirement.
Now, I agree there’s an advantage to putting aside income for your future. Not planning for your future is reckless. However, we are led to believe that we need a checklist of material things to live a happy, good life. We need that large house, the new car every two years, and all the stuff that drives our consumer economies. And so we’re conditioned to choose a Groundhog Day lifestyle where we work hard at a job we don’t enjoy to maintain the lifestyle we are told to have.
Work hard, save for later. Put in your time. Pay your dues. Someday is coming.
The myth of someday is putting off pleasure, meaning, and experience because that’s what we have been taught. Maybe you were raised to think work is