How to Attract a Great Partner and Create the Fulfilling Relationship You Desire

By Janine Lattimore

This is the book for you if you are experiencing problems such as:
- attracting dates/partners who are unsuitable for various reasons
- attracting partners who don’t want to commit
- difficulty attracting any dates, or often being attracted to people who are not attracted to you

Learn why you may not be attracting the quality partner you desire, key things to look for when choosing a partner, how to attract your ideal partner, how to manage fear of being in a new relationship, the five keys to fostering deep connection, and one of the most important things in creating a fulfilling relationship – how to manage conflict effectively.

Updated and expanded edition.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Janine Lattimore
• Release date: Oct 14, 2019
• ISBN: 9780463619315

Janine Lattimore

Janine Lattimore’s three greatest passions since she was very young have been writing, teaching and the health and development of mind, body and soul. She endeavours to live what she learns and teaches, and embraces life as an adventure of experience and expansion. Other things Janine loves to do is to dance, sing, walk in nature, watch tress and birds, listen to music, have fun with her kids, hula hoop and feel sexy in a great pair of heels. Over the course of her life Janine has worked as a teacher, youth worker, community development worker, cleaner, hula hoop fitness instructor, virtual assistant, Nia teacher and learning assistant. She is also mother to two children. Janine’s mission in life is to provide easy to follow, effective pathways for herself and others to decrease suffering and increase fulfilment through creating greater connection, love, and joy in their lives. You can access more of Janine’s work at selflovesuperpower.com

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How to Attract a Great Partner

& Create the Fulfilling Relationship You Desire

By Janine Lattimore

Second expanded edition

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Contents

Introduction

Chapter 1: What to Do When You Are Experiencing Less than Ideal Dates and Relationships

Chapter 2: Ten Key Questions for Choosing the Right Partner

Chapter 3: How to Create an Ideal Partner

Chapter 4: Four Ways to Overcome Fear of a New Relationship

Chapter 5: The Quintessential A’s

Chapter 6: How to Handle Conflict Effectively

Chapter 7: Believe

About the Author

Introduction

When I was young, I never imagined that I would be married twice, let alone separated/divorced twice.   I thought that with faith, I would choose the right partner and enjoy a happy marriage that lasted a lifetime. When my second marriage dissolved I began to wonder if I was a failure when it came to relationships, or if there was something wrong with me. However, after several years of study I now have a much greater understanding of how I function within myself, and what it takes to create successful relationships.

I have always tried my utmost to be a good partner and make my relationships work.   When I was young I used to believe that you could make any relationship work if you tried hard enough.   I don't believe that anymore.  I think you need some essential foundations in order for a relationship to grow and remain strong: foundations of mutual understanding, respect and commonality.  I also believe that in order to have a fulfilling relationship you must first become your best partner so that you come to a partnership as a whole equal rather than seeking someone who will meet your needs and make you happy i.e. complete you. The aim is to create a 100:100 partnership, rather than a 50:50 partnership.

In this ebook you will learn why you may not be attracting the quality partner you desire, key things to look for when choosing a partner, how to create your ideal partner, the five keys to fostering deep connection, and one of the most important things in creating a fulfilling relationship – how to manage conflict effectively.

Chapter 1

What to Do When You Are Experiencing

Less than Ideal Dates and Relationships

It is fairly safe to assume that since you are reading this ebook that you are not experiencing the success and fulfilment you desire in your dates and/or relationships. There can be many reasons for this, but one is the most significant, and it is also the only one you can truly control: you invite into, and create, in your life what is in line with your conscious and embedded (subconscious) thoughts and beliefs.

We attract into our lives what is in line with our conscious and unconscious beliefs and fears, both from a neurological aspect and an energy frequency aspect. I am not going to go into the details of how this works too much in this ebook as it is a subject that needs an ebook of its own (if you want to read a book about how energy creates reality in this universe then I recommend Dawson Church’s book Mind to Matter). I will outline one way in which your brain creates your reality based on what thoughts you are focused on as an example though.

We have an area in our brain called the Reticular Activating System (RAS) which is responsible for filtering all of the sensory information that our body receives, and for only forwarding the information to your conscious brain that is most important for it to pay attention to. There are certain types of information that are hard-wired to be forwarded such as the sound of your name being called, or anything