Permission Granted: Changing the Paradigm for Women in Leadership
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Do you feel like you’re waiting for something to happen? Waiting and hoping that someone or something will transform your current situation?
Many successful leaders find themselves frustrated and stuck. You work hard, do the right thing, play by the rules, and still feel like you don’t know how to shift gears to achieve what you really want.
Writing with warmth and insight, Marcia Coné shares an inspiring and supportive approach for managing your professional growth. Building on her insight and experience in leadership, Marcia offers opportunities for discovering and understanding your current situation from a different, more aligned perspective. When you tap into your ability to change your circumstances, you can much more easily achieve what you most want.
Permission Granted is profoundly actionable. It is imbued with a positive outlook about change—why it can be difficult, how to engage on a personal level, and how to reframe your success. Experience the magic that happens when you align your thoughts, perceptions, and behaviors with what you truly want.
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Permission Granted - Marcia A. Coné
Introduction
When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.
—Buddha
Have you ever had the experience of finding just the right thing, just when you needed it? Sometimes the right thing comes to you before you even know you need it. The right thing can be a person, course, book, speaker, or one of countless other experiences. The challenge is to be open to the gift when it presents itself.
So often, I’ve found myself floundering, feeling frustrated, or complaining when the answer was nearby or right in front of my face. I just wasn’t open to seeing, hearing, or believing, or wasn’t ready to take the first step forward. From my own personal experiences, I know that when we are ready to implement change we become open to and begin searching for a catalyst to help us take those first steps, and then the next steps that naturally and logically follow. Before we know it, we are on the very path we once held ourselves back from stepping onto.
I know, I know – really, I do know – that moving from I’m stuck. I’m frustrated. I’m not ready. I’m afraid. I can’t do this. I shouldn’t do this
to being open to change doesn’t happen by simply waving a wand or making a wish. It does, however, begin with being willing to entertain the idea of taking that first step into curiosity – into the what-if and how-can-I space. Entertaining possibility, that flicker of feeling that rises within you, is the key to being open to positive change.
So many times, the decision I knew needed to be made was one I sat on for too long, until I’d made the transition harder than it needed to be. For example, knowing it was time to leave an organization or position, or that it was time to lay my cards on the table with myself and jump into the next phase of what needed to be done at the organization, but instead of doing it hedging about whether I was ready or not.
This game of hide and seek is one I seem to recall following me since childhood. Would I risk trying out for the lead in the play? Would I risk auditioning for glee club? What would happen if I left my job? How would I make ends meet? What would people, think, say, believe about me? What if I failed? But, even more so, what if I succeeded? What then? Eventually, I would get to the place where what I thought and, just as important, what I needed, became the most crucial factors in making my way toward what I really wanted. I learned to put one foot in front of the other and edge my way forward.
The process of making a decision to change is one that can take months, years, lifetime – if we let the process run on without intervention. Without fail, every decision I held out on making for longer than I should have, and then made, resulted in my realization that I wished I had moved in that direction much sooner. In fact, I can say the only regrets I have are about decisions that I wish I had made sooner. My thoughts and fears about what lay on the other side of those decisions were usually only that – thoughts and fears. I handed over the responsibility for my happiness, and for what I really wanted in life, to the thought gremlins.
Is It Time for Change?
Change and growth are innate and a necessary part of the human experience. Like the genetic wiring of a seed tells that tells it when it is time to grow; human beings have wiring that tells us when it is time to grow. Like with physical and reproductive maturation process, our bodies move forward because our genetic wiring tells us it is time and, whether we are ready or not, growth happens.
On social, emotional, personal, and professional levels, we have that same genetic wiring that tells us it is time for growth. The difference is that the human mind interferes with that process, allowing us to consider whether we are ready for growth. Albert Einstein is attributed with saying, The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the sacred gift.
Our internal wiring, often called intuition, gives us notice that it is time for movement leading to growth. We humans can develop a dangerous habit of repeatedly ignoring our gut instinct, believing our rational mind serves our best interests when, in fact, the rational mind can talk us into or out of almost anything. So, rather than paying attention to the nudge, we pay homage to the rational mind that whispers, I’m not ready. It’s too risky. No one has ever done this, or anyone who has done this has not succeeded, so I won’t either. Unhappiness is the price I’d pay for the choice I’d make. Taking a risk is too dangerous. Staying safe and in my comfort zone is preferable and best,
and on and on. We bury the sacred gift of our intuition until we’ve shut it down, and we do so to our detriment.
Over time, our choice to not change results in many physical, emotional, and spiritual challenges that are actually symptoms, not root cause. Western medicine and culture try to disconnect the association between intuition and following its advice, thus challenging the cause of the symptoms we experience at work and home. When we don’t address the root cause, our symptoms increase, pushing us to pay attention. Roots take hold, go deep, and, before we know it, we’ve got a whole pattern of behavior that, even if we address