Sex and the Single Teen
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The goal of this book is to refute the social pressures to rush into sexual relationships. It is to negate the hype and illusions of sex, and to explore and provide a rationale that strengthens resolve to wait - to wait until the time, the circumstances, the emotions, the psychology and the spiritual factors are all aligned. It is to help young adults avoid society's "Sex Trap."
A study was released that compared married couples who had premarital sex, with those who waited until they were married to consummate their relationship. The study found that those who waited for marriage had clearly higher advantages in their marriages: these couples had significantly higher relationship stability, significantly higher relationship satisfaction, significantly higher communication between them, and significantly higher "better sex" (i.e., a better quality of their sexual intimacy and their sexual relationship.) On all four points in the study, clearly, those who waited for sex until marriage demonstrated better outcomes - significantly so.
One of the general findings about sex, although little attention has been paid to it, is that "sex is a distraction of life." Millions have found that their goals of life - careers, education, or other goals were interrupted because of sex. In fact, many have found that their sexual thoughts and desires overwhelmed their life goals and interfered with them in time, energy and resources.
Please have an open mind in reading this book. The material is as significant and critical as any other issue or topic can possibly be. Sex is a life choice. As with all choices it can be positive - and it can be very, very damaging.
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Sex and the Single Teen - TeenSoulPower
SEX
AND THE SINGLE TEEN
TeenSoulPower
Published by TeenSoulPower at Smashwords
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
Attention
A Law of Nature
Reasons to Not Have Sex
A Warning to Youth
Ways to Stop Before Sex
Having Sex for the Wrong Reasons
The Sexual Revolution
Sex and Society
Sex and Pornography
Sex and Addiction
Sex as Entertainment
Love Has Been Replaced by Lust
Summary
About TeenSoulPower
ATTENTION:
Do not have sex unless you are in a committed, monogamous, marriage.
This is tradition.
This is morality.
This is wisdom.
This is the entire book in just one sentence.
"You can’t remember sex.
You can remember the fact of it,
and recall the setting, and even the details,
but the sex of the sex cannot be remembered,
the substantive truth of it, it is by nature self-erasing…
leaving you with a silhouette that you want to fill in again."
- E. L. Doctorow -
A LAW OF NATURE
One definite law of nature is that sex, by the very structure and design of nature, is for reproduction. It is a basic act by, and for, reproduction. Period. This means that the fruit of the sexual experience
is not pleasure but is the gift of children, and that by the laws of nature we should know this and always be open to that gift. Pregnancy and children happen naturally - and often automatically - as an expected outcome when we engage in sexual acts.
So many times groups and organizations try to convince us otherwise, but the truth is that sex is first and foremost for reproduction, and any attempt to interfere with that law or circumvent it - as with any of the laws of physics or other natural laws, has consequences and/or will probably fail. As they say, You can't fool Mother Nature,
she always has a way of winning out.
A study was released that compared married couples who had premarital sex, with those who waited until they were married to consummate their relationship. The study found that those who waited for marriage had clearly higher advantages in their marriages: these couples had significantly higher relationship stability, significantly higher relationship satisfaction, significantly higher communication between them, and significantly higher better sex
(i.e., a better quality of their sexual intimacy and their sexual relationship.) On all four points in the study, clearly, those who waited until marriage for sex demonstrated better outcomes - significantly so.
The good news is that fewer than half of all teens in high school have had sex. That means you are in the majority if you haven’t! And the bottom line is that you don't have to have sex, and in fact, you shouldn't have sex until you are married and ready for children and the responsibility that a committed family brings.
As important, teens themselves report that they wish they had waited to have sex. In one study, a majority of both girls and boys who were sexually active stated that they wished they had waited. An overwhelming majority of sexually experienced teens said they wished they had waited until they were older to have had sex. They also said the advice they’d give a younger sibling or friend would be: Don’t have sex until you’re at least out of high school.
This is even more pronounced among girls and young women. However, it probably should be extended as well to all young adults, in college or employed, male or female, or of any race, creed or religion.
I love You
, if said too early in a relationship is either just the
libido talking or a lie to get a girl into bed.
And if you hear Of course I'll still love you in the morning
,
it is either a lie to placate the girl or a poor attempt at trying
to alleviate the girl's feeling of shame by offering reassurance
that this was more than just about sex.
I know, they have worked for me dozens of times."
- Gary -
One of the general findings about sex, although little attention has been paid to it, is that sex is a distraction of life.
Millions have found that their goals of life - careers, education, or other goals were interrupted because of sex. In fact, many have found that their sexual thoughts and desires overwhelmed their life goals and interfered with them in time, energy and resources.
The goal of this book is to refute the social pressures to rush into sexual relationships. It is to negate the hype and illusions of sex, and to explore and provide a rationale that strengthens resolve to wait - to wait until the time, the circumstances, the emotions, the psychology and the spiritual factors are all aligned.
It is to help you avoid the Sex Trap.
Please have an open mind in reading this book. The material is as significant and critical as any other issue or topic can possibly be.