How to Date an Asian Woman: How to Successfully Get Beautiful Asian Women to Desire YOU

By Jeff Becker

This is your Ultimate Guide to dating an Asian woman for any non-Asian man. It will teach you everything you need to know if you are looking for Asian women to date, romance or marry. Now you will be able to successfully get beautiful Asian women to desire YOU.

How to date, romance or marry an Asian Woman. Discover the beauty of Asian women and their culture.

Must-have knowledge for any non-Asian man seeking an Asian girlfriend or wife.

Learn about the Asian mystique, what makes Asian women special and different than other women around the world. Find out now how and where to find and meet beautiful Asian women in your neighborhood and around the world.

Ideas for first dates, second dates, how to dress to impress her, managing a long distance relationship and a section on what turns an Asian woman on. This guide will help you be successful at finding and dating a beautiful Asian woman.

If you find Asian women beautiful but are unsure how to approach or romance them, then this book will help you succeed. Get it now and change your life forever.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Jeff Becker
• Release date: Apr 25, 2014
• ISBN: 9781498912136

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Part One:  Why We Love Asian Women

1.  Is It True What They Say About Asian Women?

If you observe men who are obsessed with Asian women you will notice that they all say the same three things:

Once you have had sex with an Asian woman you fall in love

Once you have had sex with an Asian woman, you won’t go back—Caucasian women never seem quite as attractive ever again

Sex with an Asian woman is more gratifying because of a certain anatomical difference

Since Asian women generally have smaller and thinner body frames than Caucasian or African women, it is believed that they have proportionally smaller vaginal openings. Medical research has hinted at this but we have found no concrete evidence to support it (only this author’s personal experience). Still, there is enough empirical evidence in literature alluding to the Asian woman’s special anatomical charms.

Another interesting thing is that Asian women have been noted in medical journals to have lower ovulation rates than Caucasian and African women. This brings us to a very interesting discussion on what evolutionary biology might have to do with all of this.

According to evolutionary biology, a man is completely fascinated and obsessed with a woman until the point that he can figure out when she is ovulating.  Men are naturally programmed from their cave man days to impregnate as many women as possible.  This is because there was such a high mortality rate back then. There was a great like likelihood of being stomped on by dinosaurs or having your mother and child eaten alive by a parasite. Men spent a lot of time figuring out when the woman was ovulating so he could impregnate her and then move on to impregnate the next one.

Today this translates to male desire being at its height when the ovulatory cycle is not evident. In fact you can say that a man is most obsessed with a woman until he figures out exactly when she is ovulating and then his desire or obsession for her wanes.

Scientists measure ovulatory cycle frequency by an index called the dizygotic twin frequency. Asians scored the lowest with an ovulatory rate of 4. By contrast, African women had an ovulatory rate of 16 and Caucasians a rate of 8.

This means that it would be naturally much harder for a man to detect when an Asian woman is ovulating. This would, in a very primal way, greatly increase a male’s fascination with an Asian woman as something inside of him would be telling him that he can’t leave her until this is figured out.

Depending on what turns you on, you may be able to see why sex with an Asian woman could be more satisfying for some men and why most men who link up with an Asian female find it impossible to switch back.

However there are many people, especially feminists who will tell you that this is all a fetish that these studies are conducted by males and that Asian women are not built any different than Caucasian woman. All it might simply be is an American desire for bodies marked by a certain melanin tone, narrow eyes and straight black hair. This alludes to a far off ancient exotic place where the life purpose of a woman is simply nothing more than to a please a man.  This notion of Asian submissiveness is very attractive in itself.

However, most men’s attraction to Asian women goes far beyond a physical attraction. They always say that Asian women have a certain mystique and unattainability that always keeps the relationship fresh and exciting.  Quite simply, many of them are very beautiful both inside and out. Culturally many of them have been raised to respect and honor men, which is of course, a real perk for American men who may feel American women, are too competitive for them.

As one Asian woman female friend of mine put it:  The one thing that North American woman do all of the time is make the man feel tiny. An Asian woman will never do that as to keep harmony the man must be made to feel as big and strong and like the protector as possible.

The Asian Mystique

Most Americans think the term Asian refers to Japanese or Chinese women. The term Asian actually includes over include 40 distinct nationalities and ethnic groups ranging from the more numerous Chinese, Indian, Vietnamese and Filipino to the less well-known Hmong, Lao, Sri Lankan and Indonesian races. 

The more correct term for individuals from Japan or China is oriental. However avoid using the word oriental when in conversation with an Asian woman as it is considered to be racist and pejorative.

However no matter what the race, certain sexual stereotypes universally apply when it comes to men’s fantasies about Asian women. Of course the beauty of this is that many Asian women embody at least two or more of the following facets within their one personality.  This adds to their interest and multi-faceted natures that never seem to bore a man.

Here is a description of the most common erotic stereotypes that are conjured by Asian women.

The Bookworm

This image exists in all races but as the Asians are known in particular for their high academic standards, discipline and better grades, it is particularly enhanced in the minds of men. The Bookworm is also a popular image in both ancient and modern anime – the innocent schoolgirl is depicted almost always as being sexually skilled beyond her own expectations, once she finally agrees to have sex.

In essence, the Asian Bookworm is the hard working student, bank clerk or silent type who haunts the bookstore aisles. Unlike the Caucasian type she does not necessarily wear glasses.  The Asian bookworm represents a kind of physical purity. She never wears makeup and is usually a nubile, natural beauty.

Part of her appeal is her unattainability. Her mind is so focused on learning and achievement that it is difficult for a man to get her attention. The flattery for the man in this case is being chosen by a smart woman. Surely if a woman this smart would choose him, then he must be smart too.

Once a Bookworm starts talking, it may be hard to get her to stop talking. She will probably talk about every subject except for you. Once again the mystique of the unattainable is at work here. The man is tantalized by the idea that the woman must one day talk about me like that.

Many every day bookworm stereotypes follow the Sailor Moon school of dressing:  socks, shiny shoes, the plaid kilt and the crisp white shirt.

Like the bookworm stereotype as it applies to both Caucasian and African races, the erotic attraction is what happens after the Book Worm  takes down her hair and removes her clothes.  Either she will be a fierce tiger in bed or need that gentle touch of the Svengali to teach her what she needs to know about sex.

The Bookworm stereotype also provides a man with a certain emotional

Reviews for How to Date an Asian Woman

[721 Rena · Rating: 1 out of 5 stars]

Super creepy and fetishizes. As a mixed race woman do not take advice from this racially fetishized book. Treat us like we're human treat us with respect and don't aim for dating a woman just by her ethnicity alone it's creepy!