The Chief's Guide to The 7 Principles of Organic Loving & Living

By Chief M. Nangoli

Relationships, like everything else human beings engage in, need some kind of discipline. the high rate of divorce around the world can only be attributed to the fact that the institution of marriage, has hitherto been conducted without clear guidelines. enter the 7 principles of organic love, as practiced in africa for centuries. organic love is about refocusing and redirecting our positive energies and resources properly. it is about worshiping less possessions and paying more attention to human beings, those we profess to love and care so much about. for on these 7 organic principles a truly fulfilling relationship can be built. practice them, master them and enjoy a made in heaven relationship you and your organic partner deserve.

• Language: English
• Publisher: Chief M. Nangoli
• Release date: Jul 23, 2013
• ISBN: 9781301011452

Chief M. Nangoli

Chief Nangoli was born under a mango tree many, many years ago. He is widely read, traveled and bestselling author. He is self-taught in psychology, philosophy and law.Popularly known as a problem fixer, Chief Nangoli is the pioneer of Organic counseling and Organic Living Series, and has written extensively on the subject. A versatile writer with over thirty titles under his belt, his subjects range from personal relationships, finance, academics and general knowledge. His books in these four areas of human needs, have helped millions across the globe become successful in life.Chief Nangoli's titles include:Why have you chosen to be poor?The winning habit of highly effective students;Unlock the best selling author within you.

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Book 1 The Organic Living Series

The Chief’s Guide to The 7 Principles of Organic Loving & Living

Chief M. Nangoli

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Table of Contents

Nelson Mandela & Organic forgiveness

Chapter 2. The 7 principles of Organic loving & living

What is Organic Love?

Chapter 3. Unconditional forgiveness

Chapter 4. Never hurt your partner

Chapter 5. Defuse and de-escalate conflicts

Chapter 6. No finger pointing

Chapter 7. Never do to others...

Chapter 8. Own up to your ‘crimes’

Chapter 9. Dwell on the positives...

Things to remember in Book 1

How to use this book

About the author

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Chapter 1

Nelson Mandela & Organic Forgiveness

The brutalities of the Apartheid system in South Africa are well documented. What is less celebrated is Mandela’s magnanimity. Few people have made sacrifices on behalf of others, less where they should have hated. Nelson Mandela was the exception. The worst punishment we may subject our enemies to, is unconditional forgiveness

I used to hate people who had wronged me, until I met a man who had better reason to hate than myself. I met Nelson Mandela shortly after his release from jail where he had languished on and off for over forty-years. I expected Mandela to be engulfed in the flames of hate. Literally swimming in it. Spitting fire. Cursing his jailers and vowing revenge at all costs. After all, it was the most natural thing to do.

As we sat down to talk, I eagerly looked for traces of hate and bitterness in him. I anxiously waited to hear this man say what a terrible thing the Boers had done to him in his own land. Brutally squandering the best years of his life behind bars. That the only crime he had ever committed was fighting for the freedom of his people—including his jailers. When we deny others their freedom, we guarantee our own captivity.

Never had it occurred to white settlers in South Africa that they were just as much prisoners of the very system they had created. I waited in vain as Mandela showed no bitterness towards the Boers. Instead, I was the one seething with anger towards his jailers. I was the one contemplating joining the ANC to help complete the job by driving those incorrigible sinners into the sea.

But Mandela disarmed me with his contagious charm and free spirit. What a lesson I